we have been going out for almost a month and we used to talk a lot, but now we almost never talk and at school we almost never see each other. i really love him and he says that he loves me, but i am afraid that it wont work out between the two of us.
another problem is that i think one of my friends likes him and she keeps on telling other people about me and my boyfriend and i dont want her to tell people these things because its meant to be kept between me and him, i dont even know how she found out about it either!
i really need your advice on what i should do. and only serious answers please!
2007-01-13 14:17:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest you talk to you boyfriend about these concerns. Until you have heard his opinion of things then its extremely difficult to sort this stuff out.
Remain calm when talking with him and dont pass judgement on him.
If its meant to be then it will be.
As far as what one of your friends is telling everyone, I wouldnt allow that to affect your relationship.
If you have a strong and committed relationship then this gossip stuff will deflect off of you 2.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-13 14:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.KnowNothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a serious answer. If you hardly ever see him and hardly ever talk to him, what makes you think he's your boyfriend? He sounds like a stranger to you. Do yourself a favor and start thinking of someone who you'd like to date or used to date. An ex. Then you'll be able to open your eyes and see the other guys around you. Cause I'll bet you 10000 dollars he's looking at the girls around HIM, if not more. It's done, over, forget about him and move on.
2007-01-13 14:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say provide him his area and cease calling him till he calls you returned. If he doesnt call you returned then its a finished deal. The worst factor you're able to do is to worry him plenty to purpose to ascertain what ensue, which fits to push him away added. as a result, with tips from no longer calling him in any respect shows him that (a million) you could stay your existence devoid of him, (2) he can loses you purely like that (3) you're no longer clingy. If he doesnt such as you anymore or he has yet another woman at the back of the scene he ought to no longer call you. in the different case he's gonna call you in looking out whats the concern.
2016-10-07 03:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the situation, not him! The easiest way to do this is when the two of your absolutely alone. No cells, friends, Xbox, football, etc. You sound like you're in for a fight (if you want to keep this guy), then you've gotta be prepared to lay ALL of your grievances out. Quit sidestepping this problem, cos it sounds like that's what you've been doing. You have GOT to act fast.
2007-01-13 14:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by lewisthomasp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your loosing your hold on your boyfriend and your "friend" is going after him if she was your friend she would back off and the problem is not your bf it's your friend and him he isn't being a very good boyfriend(confront him) if it doesnt work then that's what you expected anyway try to work that out as for the "friend" problem what you need to do is drop her and find a new loyal friend if she can't be quiet and tell her to back up off your man she should understand being your"friend" in all
2007-01-13 14:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has other feeling for someone else or no one at all. A guy that is interested in a girl that age is ALL over them and Under their shirts everything. He just doesn't want to hurt your feelings he thinks so he keeps saying he loves you. Ask him if it's ok for you to see someone else, if he says fine then you know it's over.
2007-01-13 14:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that either of you were truly in love. If he goes off with your friend then that means that he did not love you in the first place and they are not a true friend and you are better off with out both of them.
2007-01-13 14:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all ask her, if you think she's lying spread a rumor about her like she farted or peed in her pants.Most likely the rumors she strated messed up your realtionship.
2007-01-13 14:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by ♥sweety♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your so called friend is doing that b/c she either likes him or she wants your attention. Or shes CRAZY!! talk to her
2007-01-13 14:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Randa Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. You Have better things in life for you in the future
2007-01-13 14:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by emyadeno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋