It seems like guys are really into women being on top during sex, but when I hear that's what they want, I clam up....in other words, I have to make sure they close their eyes because I feel that its degrading, I don't want them to see me doing this even though they get off on it, things are jiggling, and I feel my status decreases in their mind. I find it funny that I can orgasm in the "on top" position on my own rather than being on top of a guy, so it ends up being a chore during sex itself. Why is this? I feel like even if a guy did make me feel comfortable, I'd think he was just telling me a load of crayola!
2007-01-13 14:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by fbiforensicsgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure why you have this particular hang-up, so to speak, but obviously people enjoy sex in different ways/positions. Guys have to "do the work" during sex and probably just enjoy having the woman in control at least some of the time, don't you think?
Being in this position gives a woman more control over her body and sensations. It sounds as if you are uncomfortable with your body image in this position and I think that you're not unique in that respect.
Don't do anything you don't feel good about. You might someday change your opinion (we don't have to look perfect or like celebrities to have a good time during sex, you know!). I mean, we are women. We jiggle. Guys know this!
Just have fun and be safe.
2007-01-13 14:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a little self conscious about your body, or do you come from a religious family or something? It sounds like you may even have some feelings of guilt. I think you need to confront your inner inhibitions by taking an acting, singing or dancing classes or doing something where you have to get in touch with your inner feelings.
2007-01-13 14:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can actually look at you and appreciate the natural beauty of your body while he is making love to you. He is also free to touch you much more intimately than if he is supporting his own weight. My best guess is that you are uncomfortable with your lover looking at your body, or perhaps touching you. Men are visually stimulated, and looking at you is a turn-on. So is touching. Ask your mate for help with this.
2007-01-13 14:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that they don't think things jiggling is a bad thing it blows their minds! try turning off the lights to get used to it, it's sounds like a matter of self confidence.
2007-01-13 14:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually the last time a lady got on top of me she created so much heat I was sore for few days.
2007-01-13 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 03:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase it is uncomfertable.. just tell him ya don't like it becuase it gets ya OUTA the mood!
2007-01-13 14:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋