Im a nice girl, 21 years, not fat or skinny (average), smart (industrial engineer), not drop dead gorgeus but not totally ugly, and i have so many other qualities people like. But i havent had a boyfriend in years!!! I mean there are guys after me but i just dont like them (i find some little detail that makes them unlikely to me) and the guys i like dont notice me or they already have a boyfriend. Any way any opinions on this?
Oh and yeah i know im young, and have life ahead of me, but i want a boyfriend lol!!! Thanks!
2007-01-13 14:21:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol nope, not black, and always with a smile on my face (people say im too happy)
2007-01-13 14:26:14 · update #1
Milly,
You can't force love and you shouldn't settle for less. Your desire for a boyfriend is normal but you must not give up hope. It is all about timing and opportunties.
Love knows all about you and love is just waiting to fnd the right person to send your way. Just look at it this way, the more guys you turn down, the closer you are to finding your Mr. Right.
You seem to have a head on your shoulder and I am glad you are not falling for anything or anybody. Give it time and try changing the places you hang out. If you are not actively around others (socializing), you won't stand a chance of finding HIM by just staying in the house.
2007-01-13 14:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry hun. Just go to the club and you meet some really cute guys. Check out your personality? Stick out, everyone has something special in them. Impress the guys you like, and give the guys that like you a chance, not every guy is perfect in personality and looks. Good luck!!
2007-01-13 14:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by kiki22592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to give some of the guys who like you a chance before you write them off over some small detail. No one is perfect, but once you get past whatever it is that bothers you and you get to know them, perhaps you will find that they are OK.
Good luck!
2007-01-13 14:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend is really easy to find. You just said that their are guys after you. Stop being so picky and give one of them a try. Unless you are looking to get married anytime soon, stop denying guys based on 1 little detail. You might actually fall in love.
2007-01-13 14:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Antoinette M 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe ur trying a little to hard? Try to just settle down and let a man come to u! Or try to forget the little things that u dont like because it can change (unless its something like they dont shower!) Just be patient. You will get a man!
2007-01-13 14:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kristine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 21 yr old industrial engineer and am interested in you. Send me a picture
2007-01-15 03:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by K-bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is perfect, people find better matches all the time and leave person A for person B. No reason you cant get yourself some experience and see where things go.
2007-01-13 14:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by WpgJon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
usually guys don't go out with the pretty girls. they usually like real skinny ugly girls. maybe you should go on one of those dating websites and find you someone who you have something in common with or a guy that is completely opposite. you will met the right guy soon.
2007-01-13 14:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel like m u just have to wait for the right guy !
2007-01-13 14:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so darn particular. You said yourself that YOU weren't perfect, so why are you looking for the PERFECT guy?? Give someone a chance. Give yourself a chance to get to know someone before you find fault with them.
2007-01-13 14:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Deb 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋