I have been best friends with her for my whole life, then my other friend (not best friend) comes along and is winning her friendship! For instance, my best friend has her before me on her myspace, my best friend is CONSTANTLY going over her house, and my best friend NEVER calls me anymore, but has time to chat for 2 hours with my other friend! What do I do! I cry everyday about this, I really don't want to lose my BFF but theres just no way to win her friendship back!!!! ;(
2007-01-13 13:29:12 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Wild Thing♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I didn't menchin this before, but my other friend (not BFF) is a backstabber!! and trys to stell away all my friends so she will be like better than me! She's like that girl off of mean girls the movie if anyone has ever seen that!
2007-01-13 13:39:07 · update #1
Try and get some other friends. She might come around again when she gets along the way of the friendship of the other girl and she'll be your old best friend again. Try some other friends right now and go to the movies or shopping so you don't get depressed over it every day.
2007-01-13 13:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Summerchic1315 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you wanna hang out with her more cause you miss her company. It's easy for someone to get so caught up with meeting a new friend and getting to know them, that they neglect you. To win her friendship back do more with her. Don't badmouth your other friend though or act jealous otherwise you will end up losing her friendship for sure.
2007-01-13 13:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this must be a very sad time for you.........You need to know this " People grow apart & change its just a part of life & you are going to have to just keep reminding yourself of that". She may come around but in the mean time you could always tell her how much you value her friendship & that you are feeling left out. I always thought nothing could come in between my best friend & I......Boy was I wrong......We were best friends since our freshman year of high school (which was in 1995) She was my Maid of Honor this past Sept. & she didnt even seem like she was happy for me & even made me plan my own bacherette party & ditched me at it. She started spreading rumous that I told her to F*Ck off, that i made my husband marry me & it gets worse...........My heart totally broke.........We don't talk anymore & she started hanging out with low lifes. In the last year she has mangaed to get herself fired from her job, cheating & losing her bf of 3 yrs, getting kicked out of a softball game & losing me as her best friend.........I know it isnt me its her.....I guess she doesnt value my friendship as I valued hers......Its sad but maybe one day she will come around again.....I'm not holding my breath.
2007-01-13 13:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to talk to her and ask her if all of you can hang out together or maybe she can hang with you one day and the next day hang with her other friend. If this don't work out make yourself more friends that way you won't be lonely when your BF isn't around. Good Luck
2007-01-13 13:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by little lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you care more about this friend than she does for you. It is painful, but you need to find another friend as this person doesn't appreciate or value you. Her treatment (or mistreatment) of you is devaluing and malicious. You are worth more.
Good luck.
2007-01-13 13:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are not things to win or lose.
if she likes someone more and have more in common with someone else then she just does.
stop obsessing and find other friends.
2007-01-13 13:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize people evolve and find other people that share their interests.Don't make it a game,try to join them or if they keep dissing you,try finding other interests and make new friends of your own.
2007-01-13 13:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your best friends best friend then she should get jealous and want you back as a friend
2007-01-13 13:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by andrew p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the other friend how u feel, try spedning tome together all of u. so then your not exclouding somone.
good luck
2007-01-13 13:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by mbjack0407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she prefers the company of someone else then she really isn't your best friend.
2007-01-13 13:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by rkd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋