Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

So I dated this girl a year and met her sisters a bit....well it's been six months since we broke up, I've dated a few girls casually, made-out, so yeah I'm 110% over my ex of course. Anyway, first back in last late Sept. her younger sister who is 15 requested me as a friend on myspace, so I added her. Well my ex called me saying I need to delete her, that she's only 15 and I'm 22 and it's sick...I'm like she requested so I just approved it...what is the big deal? She said her mom asked why some older guy is on her friend's list. So I was like "whatever I don't even care, I'll delete her"---so I did. Well just tonight her other sister (this one is 17, almost 18) IMed my on AIM and we started talking for like 20 mintues about how I've been, what I've been doing, what she's doing, etc.

Anyway my question is why do you do her sister wants to talk to me...even if it's a little? Is it "sick" or is it fine?

2007-01-13 18:47:47 · 14 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

is it possible for me to get pregnant if my bf just inserts the head or fully? i mean he didnt ***, its still clean.. no sperm came out and he just puts it in? and when he wants to *** he takes it out..will i still get preg? we are both still virgins.. someone who actually understands my question please answer and who doesnt please ignore i want a serious answer thankz a bunch..

2007-01-13 18:47:45 · 18 answers · asked by pOiSoNoUs^^ChErRy 1 in Singles & Dating

His name is Josh. He's really sweet, really nice, AND I have a crush on him. I like him alot. Most of my friends are convinced that he likes me back, but the only problem is, both of us are too shy to make a move. I catch him staring at me alot during classes, but when he catches me catching him, he either looks away, mouthes something to me, or imitates something I just did in a funny (outrageus) way. Another problem I have is that he's one of the most popular guys in my grade. I know popularity shouldn't matter, but the other girls after him intimidate me. So, I have 2 questions for everyone: 1) Do you think he likes me back? 2) if so, how in the world can I get him to ask me out (by slightly hinting or something), or, how can I ask him out? I know people mostly say that telling a guy that you like him is the best thing you can do, but I'm way too shy, and if he shot me down,
my self esteem would be road kill. HELP?

2007-01-13 18:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating for the past 18 months. Most of it has been good, but we tend to fight some about the fact she's in the closet. I've been out to my family and friends since I was 15 (I'm 22 now) and they have completely embraced her in my life; my family LOVES her and say she's a 'keeper'.
But the door is only open one way.
Although she has told about 3-4 close friends about us, she has told me that she will never tell her family about us. When we go out, she will walk in front or behind me, but never with me. And she can invite herself to hang out with me and my friends, but I'm never invited to go out with her and hers. Most of our relationship is kept behind closed doors.
I know she loves me very much, but every time I try to talk to her about it, she says she will change but never does.
I feel I'm putting more into this relationship than I am getting in return.
Is hiding in the closet a real issue to break up over? Or am I just being selfish?

2007-01-13 18:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by blusunshyn3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

his been abusive lately..then when we got back together he lied about something so i confronted him about it i screamed but i never curse... he starts saying thinks like im a loser that he nevers wants to be with me that he rather be with a slut than me...i just crying and asked him wy he was acting so mean... he laugh and said oh u dont like how i talk to u well dont raise your voice at me...i nver curse, treaten, or say anything i try to understand but now i feel abused...and i want to get him back in the worst possible way ever..im not talking cheating...im talking ganging him up and beating the crap out of him.(like he used to beat me).. will anyone help me beat him..if so contact me at loquitagirl4@yahoo.com

2007-01-13 18:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by loquitagirl4 2 in Singles & Dating

I been with this guy for 2 years and we have a kid together? hafe of the time he is a jerk and the other hafe is good. All he does is play vedio games and doesnt pay attention to me. I have told him how I feel and all he does is hold me while he plays. that is a lil step up but not what I really want. Anyways, I have been talking to this other which everything he said about a relationship is what I want. So how do I brake it off with the guy I am with for him? or Should I?

2007-01-13 18:44:34 · 4 answers · asked by Loveable_Lilly _2007 1 in Singles & Dating

hello i am an indian girl who is divorced. and i am in love with a boy who is younger to me and also settled in london(with parents). we love each other very much. but some one told that divorcee cant marry an NRI in london and also she wont get spouse visa. so please help me regarding this. and tel me the routes

2007-01-13 18:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 14 year old cousin made out with her best friends older brother, who happens to be 17... It happened at like 3 am on New years, and when her friend walked in they were on the bed... I want to tell her to watch out for stuff like that, but I don't want her to keep that stuff from me in the future, or ffel like I am judging her... What do I do?

I am worried about her losing it, but I could also lose her trust...

2007-01-13 18:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 18:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy at my school an im not sure if he likes me an i have asked him out ounce an he said umm i dont know........no
an we are friends soo should i try to ask him again?

2007-01-13 18:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by aubs 1 in Singles & Dating

How come guys can get over a 2 yr relationship so quickly? And what makes a guy change his mind about being in a relationship and suddenly wanting to be single even tho he swears he loves me and he really was a great guy, he seemed to just change overnight after he stayed at his parents place. I am absolutely heartbroken!

2007-01-13 18:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

We fight all the time and he refuses to sit down and talk to me about any of our problems...well talk about anything really. You name it, we fight about it... he simply refuses to sit down and talk to me. I've asked him to book a counselling session to show me that he cares enough to fix "us" and he never booked it. Is this a lost cause? I have told him that I want a divorce if things don't change and he doesn't start talking to me. I am so lonely in this marriage. This is certainly not what I signed on for. He won't talk to me about anything.. no "how was your day?" Nothing. I've tried everything I know to get him to talk to me. Is there any way to get him to open up and talk to me? Or is this the end of the road? I don't want to leave, I do still love him but I can not live my life like this forever. I want to know what can I do or say to get him to open up and talk about our problems? There is so much anger and frustration and it is just getting worse and worse. Help!!

2007-01-13 18:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by michellecdnd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

meeting guys on the internet anf talking for along time with them, wanting them and things, is that wrong? cause alot of people think its stupid to talk to people on the internet.

2007-01-13 18:40:07 · 3 answers · asked by Girllll 1 in Singles & Dating

was told to move out by my boyfriend/babies dad...we are trying to patch things up and going to councelling soon.The reason for the break up are my suspcions and jealousies. He will see an attractive woman take her out for coffee or spend time with her alone and hide it from me and not awnser his phone. Then when I blow up he thinks he has done nothing rong. HE admits that he is attracted to them but nothing would happen. If I dont let him make friends with these women im caging him in,, but i dont know why he needs to have friends of the opposite sex. I am seriously wondering what you would do if this was you..let him have plutonic no sex relationship with women he finds attractive or be upset and suspicious and want to leave like I am.? Am I over reacting? Is it okay for your husbands/boyfriends to have friends of the opposite sex and be attracted to them and spend lots of alone time with them? Any input would be appreciated as I am lost right now.

2007-01-13 18:39:36 · 4 answers · asked by jennyve25 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is really important to me! I need to prove by some laboratory tests that the stains on her short are semen of that f... guy!

2007-01-13 18:39:25 · 20 answers · asked by Imagination!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What I have to do? On 25-th of January there will be a concert in the university in which I with my rock group should act. But my father is literally yesterday has told: " If you once again will go at rehearsal you can buy the ticket home! And you'll go to your mum to live in village! You will live there all your life! " (My parents have divorced when I was a child. When I have grown up my father have taken me to him into New York, have helped me to enter the university. Now I live with him.) I don't know that I have to do! I cannot let down my group.

2007-01-13 18:39:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-13 18:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is sooooo sweet and loves me very much,he's asked me to marry him several times,but i don't feel like getting marry so soon,i'm 25 and he is 28.we have been dating only for 4 months !!i don't wanna settle down yet!!i love him so much and i don't wanna hurt him,he thinks i don't admire him 100% ........what can i do to keep him but postpone the marriage?

2007-01-13 18:35:57 · 34 answers · asked by susie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've gone through bad relationships and got good friends. I wonder and ask you "Friends are better than other relationships ?" Agree or Not ?

2007-01-13 18:35:50 · 25 answers · asked by Sunlight 3 in Friends

2007-01-13 18:35:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Let me first start off by saying that I am 15 years old and I really like this girl. Whenever I pass by her she always says hi to me or smiles. I am not quite sure if she likes me, or is just being polite. She is in one of my classes but I don't sit anywhere near her so I never have a chance to talk to her. Since I don't know her too well it just seems kind of awkward to ask her out, but what do I know. I am also concerned if she is even single in the first place, is there easy way of getting this information? Also, if I do ask her and she says yes, then I really don't know where to take her or anything. I don't know what to do, but im probably just worrying to much. Any help with this would be very appreciated!

2007-01-13 18:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Yep I 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is very jealous, he doesnt like the fact of me wearing skirts because he thinks is sluty, i'm not trying to be conceited or anything but i do look good with them, and i like wearing them, if he knows i'b beenwearing them he'll go crazy. what should i do? and there is no way of talking him out of it. thats his final answer.

2007-01-13 18:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is there neway i can inherit my grandfathers genes and become 5'10 like him? or not likely? and does milk really help u get taller?

2007-01-13 18:34:28 · 19 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family

I feel I'm the biggest looser because in one month I was refused three times .
one told my I'm not her style after she went with me every day in a week and said she think I'm only a good friend and a fun guy to be with .

The second waited till I told her I love her to say she is a lesbian .

The third made my arrange for a great day out and accepted my invitation out for her birthday and then she didn't come because her friends came to her house .

So should I stop looking or what ????

Girls, do you think guys are a toy ????

2007-01-13 18:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 18:32:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were coworkers this girl had a boyfriend. She was giving me signs that she like me. The way we both look at each other and don't look at each other. The way she talks to me in a sweet way. Finding ways to be around me. Smiling at me as she walks by. And then this happen she spray some cologne on me and said I smell hot. I said to her since you gave me a nice compliment I wanted to give you one I said to her I enjoy your company and she said that's so sweet.Ad I walk away. She ask my coworker friend if I like her. He said "yes" And she said I think he's cute. Now her boyfriend treats her bad sometimes. Saids mean stuff to her and makes her cry coming into work. He saids he loves her and she saids he loves him from what I hear from their friends. I started geting feelings for this girl. I told her I had a crush on her and she said "that's so sweet" and gave me a hug. Then she ask what time I was geting off. And that was it.Next day at work I payed no attention looking at her. So she walk behind me pated me on my head and said "hey" and I said hey back. And both of us went back to work. Her boyfriend made her cry coming in the next day or so. So I gave her a friendly card the next day she came in. I sign it and put your friend. She told her coworker friend that I like her and her friend ask me If I like her and put me on the spot and she was right behind me when I said no I just want to be friends. She walk past me started crying and got her friend and talk to her in her ear in front of me. Then she said to me the card was sweet thanks and she walk away. But the truth was I do like her, but friends come 1st right? Anyways couple of weeks past by I couldn't help the way I feel about her anymore so I gave her a crush note. She walk away with it and read it and show it to her coworkers. And said to them that I like her. Next day she look at me and gave me a big smile. I was talking to her coworker friend and she came near me and said "what you don't like me anymore and walk away fast and then look back and smile at me. As she was walking past me when she said that I said to her I never said that and that was it. Christmas eve I gave her a glass angel for christmas and note with it. After I gave her this gift her friend told me she was having a bad day with her boyfriend. She put the glass angel in the office and the manager goes up to her and ask where did you get that? She tells him that I gave it to her and I treat her different then other girl employees. And saids to him that she only wants to be friends.So the manager call me in the office and told me that she has a boyfriend and your coming onto her and she only wants to be your friend and you make her feel uncomfortable at work. And he said lets keep this between us. I left work early that made an excuse up that I was sick. Yeah I was sick. Heart broken sick. She came in the next day and we ignore each other that day.And haven't spoken since that happen. She quit her job last week, because one of the female managers are jealous of her. I thought she like me. Was she leading me on?

2007-01-13 18:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so old-fashioned I never include the word "date" when I ask a boy out because I want to hear it from him first, but then he does the same thing and I never know if I'm dating or just hanging out with just a friend who considers me that.

2007-01-13 18:31:57 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Data 2 in Singles & Dating

you are in a perfectly normal relationship with your husband of one year but suddenly you feel like divorce isn't a bad idea?

2007-01-13 18:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by sassy girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy at school... we dated a few years ago. Hes a great guy but i just dont understand him. He is always talking to me and flirting with me. But he does the same thing to my best friend. My best friend has a major crush on him and asked him out he said no. And says he doesnt like her so why does he continue to flirt with both of us?

2007-01-13 18:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by corky555 2 in Singles & Dating

We had a little arguement (which i started) and since then nothing has been the same.were ok now but not just as close. in the time that we weren't talking to each other he found this new guy to hang out with and i know it sounds childish but i get really jealous each time i see them together. my friend doesn't even acknowledge me around him. =[ i really miss being able to talk to him about everything......

2007-01-13 18:29:26 · 6 answers · asked by Fitch 1 in Friends