So I dated this girl a year and met her sisters a bit....well it's been six months since we broke up, I've dated a few girls casually, made-out, so yeah I'm 110% over my ex of course. Anyway, first back in last late Sept. her younger sister who is 15 requested me as a friend on myspace, so I added her. Well my ex called me saying I need to delete her, that she's only 15 and I'm 22 and it's sick...I'm like she requested so I just approved it...what is the big deal? She said her mom asked why some older guy is on her friend's list. So I was like "whatever I don't even care, I'll delete her"---so I did. Well just tonight her other sister (this one is 17, almost 18) IMed my on AIM and we started talking for like 20 mintues about how I've been, what I've been doing, what she's doing, etc.
Anyway my question is why do you do her sister wants to talk to me...even if it's a little? Is it "sick" or is it fine?
2007-01-13 18:47:47 · 14 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might be trying to get info for her sister, who may still be interested in you.
2007-01-13 18:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by applebottom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww, not only is it gross it is completely inappropriate. Just because a girl starts talking to you (or even comes onto you) doesn't mean that you have to act on it! Your ex is either 1. So over you that she doesn't want her family still involved with you OR 2. Still likes you and doesn't want her sisters (or any other girl) getting closer to you. Either way, show some decency and forget the sisters. When you broke up with your ex you also severed ties to her family. Its cool if you're dating other people or seeing other girls...just not those ones.
2007-01-13 18:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think youe ex isnt over you, that's why she mad. Maybe the 15 year old just looked up to you. If her morther didnt want some older guy talking to her 15 year old she shouldnt let her on the internet. Its not your problem her mom doesnt watch what her 15 year old does. So there is nothing wrong with talking to a younger girl.
2007-01-13 18:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Loveable_Lilly _2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's very wise... me and my sister are three years apart and I've been in similar situations to yours when I was younger... after she broke up with guys and I'd see them I still wanted their attention, it's like they were still part of the family in a way. However, girls aren't always as innocent as they appear, lets just say I had a crush on one or two of the gents she dated... if you want to be certain you never get involved with one of her sisters you probably shouldn't stay in contact with them... young girls can be quite manipulative... good luck!
2007-01-13 18:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by assezaime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi john s,
They've seen you around and know what kind of boyfriend you would make. So, that's why you're getting this attention, by your X's sisters. If I were you, I wouldn't mess with them.
Put your attention to girls that are legal and can buy you a few beers at a bar (and their parents won't call the law on you. Best of luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-01-13 18:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Sounds as if little sis may just be fascinated with the challenge of seeing if she can interest her sisters ex boyfriend .This rings with all the warnings of a bad end result. best advice, let dead dogs lie and their family members too.
Move on and cut the ties to this past. good Luck!
2007-01-13 18:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by jiovonnig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to "get" her to open as a lot as you. she will open up if she feels mushy - yet sounds to me like you men have some subject matters that are complicating your courting. the suggestion i'd provide is - don't be a million) too determined, or 2) too pushy. only be your self, celebrate which includes her - yet don't be throughout her in any respect. ok, she has this loopy theory that you in trouble-free words favor her for sex; nicely, do not raise sex in any respect, keep your fingers to your self, and earnings from the communique. i'm no longer fairly certain what her project is - i do not get it how can a woman be with someone for 2 years, and be confident that this human being is in trouble-free words which includes her because of sex; that is only stupid. It sounds to me like she, herself, would not recognize what she needs - and it may well be form of a unfavorable difficulty for you, as you are able to get your heart damaged very truly. only be careful, ok. good success.
2016-10-31 01:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its harmless, unless you have other intentions.. she could be doing this for her older sister.. or she could like you...you never know.. but needless to say you never date your ex's sisters/brothers.. its and unwritten code..
as far as talking see how they are, etc.. its okay hell im friends with my older sisters ex's ... we talk big deal, i know its not going any further then that i wont let it.. i am also cool with my lil sisters(17) boyfriend and his friends they all come and hang out at my house i cut there hair, **** theyve all even partied here and spent the night here, big deal... no sex, no kiss, no naughty talk.. im 24..
so who cares what she says and who cares what her ma says.. you didnt go ona date with em and you didnt ask for naughty pics and you havent have naughty conversations with em no harm done nothing illegal in my eyes.. its not sick...
2007-01-13 18:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Chunkerbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were just happy to see someone on myspace they knew and on the IM they knew..just be friends and so not talk about your ex...for she will probley be standing right there. I personaly think they are playing with you...just to have fun...to see what you are doing on myspace reading your blog....stuff like that...when you are on line...they are watching you...LOL just for fun and probley reporting back.
2007-01-13 18:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emm, whats wrong talking to her sister, i would say come up with a good reason to delete and maybe she will understand it, your ex could explain it to her.
2007-01-13 18:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by Richee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋