2007-01-13 18:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sex should not be thought of as anyone's wives or husbands duty! It should be something that the person wants to do of their own freewill and sexual desire!
Far to many men look at women as living, breathing love dolls! They are people too and should be treated with at least some degree of respect! I'm not asking for the world here just a little common sense!!
2007-01-13 23:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you asking if a wife should always 'give in' to her husband's request for sex? If that is the question, then I would have to say not always. But having sex with your husband is part of what marriage is about, just not the only thing. As a wife you may be working outside of the home, or you may be at home looking after any children, the house etc. Either way, when you are tired, not feeling well, you should have the right to say no.
2007-01-13 20:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by martachshine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way but you really need to get over yourself. There is nothing wrong with your husband for looking at ****. there is something wrong with you for expecting a man not to be turned on by it. He shouldn't lie about it I agree but I also think that he shouldn't feel as though its a better option to lie about it than to tell you the truth. Men think about sex every waking minute of the day in some form or another. He didn't cheat, he didn't have sex with anyone else he just looked and ****. **** is the biggest thing on the internet for a reason. Men look at and we like it. That doesn't mean that we'll cheat or that we can't be trusted. I think that you two should sit down and talk about it. He needs to know how you feel about it and you need to try to understand him instead of trying to change him. Its not healthy for your relationship. You cant control what he likes. You would be extremely foolish to throw away a 25 yr marriage over this. He had 25 yrs to leave you for someone younger and prettier. Obviously that not his intention. He loves you and hes been proving it for 25 yrs. Be thankful. I hope you two work it out. Good luck.
2016-05-23 23:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the wives should have a say in when they have sex. and who with. If wives should always indulge in sex with their husbands than husbands should always indulge in sex with their wives shouldn't they.
We don't need two standards here . Women or or should be equal in all matters relating to the marriage, including sex, children, financial, employment, religion, politics ect.
2007-01-13 19:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
however they want to... whatever suits both their needs is the way they need to indulge the more ****** the better. if you ask this question then your marriage is in dire need of help so go ask a sex therapist...times a wasting.
2007-01-14 01:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by chynamist02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, they should be true to their husbands and vice versa, unless there is a problem. If they stick to their husbands, there will be no extramarital sex and no sexual diseases. This will ensure peace and harmony in the family, community and society.
2007-01-13 22:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by concern4india 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you got some other proposal then what has been going on through centuries
2007-01-13 22:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by akband 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becasue sex can be with known person. Husband always is known person. It is difficult to have sex with unknown persons.
2007-01-13 19:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
are you sure you phrased your question correctly...you seem to be hinting that there is one particular correct way of marital coitus?
2007-01-14 05:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by s g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
indulge? Why?
2007-01-13 19:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by ellay 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋