Hey girls , do you feel that it's your mission to break our heart?

Question

I feel I'm the biggest looser because in one month I was refused three times .
one told my I'm not her style after she went with me every day in a week and said she think I'm only a good friend and a fun guy to be with .

The second waited till I told her I love her to say she is a lesbian .

The third made my arrange for a great day out and accepted my invitation out for her birthday and then she didn't come because her friends came to her house .

So should I stop looking or what ????

Girls, do you think guys are a toy ????

Answer 1

You have to dig thru a lot of dirt to find a diamond. Sometimes the diamond isnt as beautiful as you think it should be at first. Then slowly as you rub the dirt away you realize you found a gem.
Dont give up, just toughen up and dont think youre a loser. They were the losers.

Answer 2

not all women are the same you know. also you say the third "MADE" you arrange the date and then you say she "accepted your invitation" which was it? she probably didnt want to be rude or hurt your feeling but didnt want to go so she sold out.

the other girl (lesbian) maybe didnt realize you were that into her and didnt feel the need to tell you until it was too late. (either that or she wanted to let you down without letting yo uthink there was something wrong with you.)

the other girl sounds to me like she just honestly wanted you as a friend. if she didnt like you at all she wouldnt have hung out with you every day for a week right?
well good luck with next month. hope my answer didnt pee you off hunni.

Answer 3

if this all happened in one month how could you have already told the second girl you love her. thats a bit silly I must say. you should not generalize. Maybe your coming on to strong. no one wants someone they believe might be a bit possesive. Not everyone works together. everyone tries and fails, and it may happen every once and a while or cases like you were it all seemed to be coming at you so fast. Don't give up and people are people, theres no boys and girls when it comes to matters of the heart. everyone screws up, everyone hurts. no one is out to get anyone. Just think to yourself are you looking for the right person for "you"

Answer 4

Wow, what a story---a few years from now you'll laugh about this stuff---a lesbian??? That's funny---Sorry, I don't detect a problem here---you are doing about as well as a million other guys out here trying to meet women. I think you better just keep trying and trying---what a hoot----not her style----so what---you tried----you are not a loser so forget all that. People do have things that come up in their day---just be a cool dude and accept it. What if you had a date and had to break it suddenly---it does happen.. Listen, things will change---give it a break here. Good hunting

Answer 5

One month you were refused 3 times? Some guys are refused that every day! that isn't so bad. It's actually a good thing, would you rather be with a girl like that 3 months before she did that? i doubt it. There;s alot of nice girls out there, quit looking for her and let her find you.

Answer 6

I don't think so at all! though unfortunately, the guys I've liked have played with my emotions, flirting back and whatnot, and then I've found out that they either like someone else, or they've been gay. I think we're just having a bout of bad luck. Let's not give up though! ^^; We'll find him and her! If it makes you feel better, I haven't had a boyfriend for the past 3 years, and not for lack of looking either.

Answer 7

You're just having some bad luck. You'll find the right one eventually -hang in there.

Answer 8

no

not every girl is that way,
you have not had good luck. sometimes it is best if you stop looking so hard for a girl.

I feel sorry 4 u

Answer 9

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, just pick yourself up and move on its their loss.
Some guys dont even get dates. Think about that.

Answer 10

Don't generalize.