we were coworkers this girl had a boyfriend. She was giving me signs that she like me. The way we both look at each other and don't look at each other. The way she talks to me in a sweet way. Finding ways to be around me. Smiling at me as she walks by. And then this happen she spray some cologne on me and said I smell hot. I said to her since you gave me a nice compliment I wanted to give you one I said to her I enjoy your company and she said that's so sweet.Ad I walk away. She ask my coworker friend if I like her. He said "yes" And she said I think he's cute. Now her boyfriend treats her bad sometimes. Saids mean stuff to her and makes her cry coming into work. He saids he loves her and she saids he loves him from what I hear from their friends. I started geting feelings for this girl. I told her I had a crush on her and she said "that's so sweet" and gave me a hug. Then she ask what time I was geting off. And that was it.Next day at work I payed no attention looking at her. So she walk behind me pated me on my head and said "hey" and I said hey back. And both of us went back to work. Her boyfriend made her cry coming in the next day or so. So I gave her a friendly card the next day she came in. I sign it and put your friend. She told her coworker friend that I like her and her friend ask me If I like her and put me on the spot and she was right behind me when I said no I just want to be friends. She walk past me started crying and got her friend and talk to her in her ear in front of me. Then she said to me the card was sweet thanks and she walk away. But the truth was I do like her, but friends come 1st right? Anyways couple of weeks past by I couldn't help the way I feel about her anymore so I gave her a crush note. She walk away with it and read it and show it to her coworkers. And said to them that I like her. Next day she look at me and gave me a big smile. I was talking to her coworker friend and she came near me and said "what you don't like me anymore and walk away fast and then look back and smile at me. As she was walking past me when she said that I said to her I never said that and that was it. Christmas eve I gave her a glass angel for christmas and note with it. After I gave her this gift her friend told me she was having a bad day with her boyfriend. She put the glass angel in the office and the manager goes up to her and ask where did you get that? She tells him that I gave it to her and I treat her different then other girl employees. And saids to him that she only wants to be friends.So the manager call me in the office and told me that she has a boyfriend and your coming onto her and she only wants to be your friend and you make her feel uncomfortable at work. And he said lets keep this between us. I left work early that made an excuse up that I was sick. Yeah I was sick. Heart broken sick. She came in the next day and we ignore each other that day.And haven't spoken since that happen. She quit her job last week, because one of the female managers are jealous of her. I thought she like me. Was she leading me on?
2007-01-13 18:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really sound like she was a tease, because after she started to find out how you fealt about her, she kept leading you on. But the fact is, that she said something to your manager, and he had a reason to talk to you. That right there shows you she doesn't care about you and your feelings, because if she did then she could have just told you or another co-worker, not your boss! Now that she doesn't work with you, then you don't need to be bothered by her. If for some reason she trys to contact you, I wolud not give her the benefit of doubt. After all, wasn't it imbarrassing to have your manager talk to you about that? Shes all drama and shes playing you because she played with your feelings! Let that drama go!
2007-01-13 18:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way: she either like you or she is at least flirting with you all right.
But no, she is not so into you. This is more like a game. She has a bf who treat her bad& she suddenly get some2 who treat her nice.
Whatever it is, she left already. And she still have her bf. From what i see, looks like that this gf isnt mature. Any mature woman wont flirt, play games w a guy who fancy her when she has a bf already.
You shouldnt gt involved w an attached girl anyway, nothing good will come out from it. In the end of the day, ull only get hurt. Not to mention, she is ur co-worker.
Move on, plenty of fish on the sea. One day ull fall in love again w someone who is better that her...trust me.
2007-01-13 18:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she was. Now continue being nice to everyone, because you never know who has a friend or relative looking for a nice guy.
That girl had many issues, so good riddance to her! Plenty more fish in the sea & most of them a lot nicer! Don't waste time thinking about that one! She was not worth a second thought.
2007-01-13 18:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by life coach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 01:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, girls are like that.. they want you to go the extra mile and lead them on. you played a nincompoop. there is only one way out of these situations: talk. neither me nor anyone will be able to help you out of this situation like this. try talking to yourself. you will find the answer within. try talking to a friend... he will not come up with a brilliant suggestion or something... at least he will help you in thinking and coming up with a solution yourself... as for your main question...... yes.. she was leading you
2007-01-13 18:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she was confused,lucky for you she quit.try to find someone you dont work with,there will be less drama
2007-01-13 18:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋