Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

Ok! I went to a b-ball game lastnight with some of my friends and my best friends was all like "there is going to be this guy here who really wants my body but I dont really like him anymore" (just to let you know i dident know anyone at this game but my frinds witch were like 4 girls) Well when I sat down this guy came over and sat by me and was all like hi, who are you? Well we started talking and i started really likeing him. Then my best friend was all like that was that guy. And I told her that I really liked him and she was all like well you cant like him because I do!!!!! Well he sat by ME the rest of the game, and well i dont know wether to forget about him or not. Well you know you should NEVER crush on your best friends crush!!!HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-12 03:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by ~sweatypie~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 03:26:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that they enjoy seeing you wear really high heels?
I have always been attracted to a woman wearing high heels. It goes all the way back to my teenage days.
Now, I certainly don't want you to think that I would want to wear them, but I think it's really great when a woman wears them.
It makes no difference the size or shape of the woman... high heels look great? What do women think about this? Is it unusual?

2007-01-12 03:26:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a married Mom of 4 great kids (ages 3, 6, 8, 9) - so I can't do anything drastic like volunteering for the Peace Corps obviously - but I just don't feel like I'm living my life to it's full potential.
Some things I want to do are possible now, some are not, nor ever will be. I would love to move to Australia, I want to live in the country w/ some acreage, I want to volunteer & help people, I want to get my college degree, I want to lose weight, I want to show my kids the country (Yellowstone, Grand Canyon, Disneyworld), I want to learn a musical instrument, I want to scrapbook my photos.....
All of my "life list" items take either time or money & with 4 small kids - I have neither. Or they require my hubby to be onboard w/ me about it (i.e. move to Australia) and that is not even a possibility, he's been w/ his company for 20 yrs.
I have ADD, with that comes a need for "all or nothing" - meaning volunteering an hour a week at a shelter just won't do it for me. Advice?

2007-01-12 03:26:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Where you are going or when you will be back? Say for instance you get into an argument. Would you at least say, I need some time to think ... I'll be back in a little while? Or would you just up and leave and come back 2, 3 or 4 hours or even the next day? How do you and your spouse work through arguments? Is it acceptable to just go and come when you get ready?

2007-01-12 03:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well, we broke up about 5 months ago, cause of some issues including some other girl i was in love with
Well this girl i broke up with said she loves me, and i love her too,
but it was bound to end, so we part ways

well, it was m y birthdAY a about 20 days ago - so this girl, sent my friend an Sms and told him to wish me on her behalf - she didn't do it herself, cause after we broke up i told her to think of me as i dont exist and never to speak to me again, she said fine!!

well - That was all done, 3 days after she called my friend and spoke to him, cause some people told her i was still into her, so she asked him, he denied it - and she said cool thanks.
Next day, My friend asked her to come to our hangout spot and told her that i was there to - she refused to and said she would like to save the ackwardness and its a very bad idea if she shows up - she said it does not make scense

that was new years eve - well, i heard that that night she had a date for new years

2007-01-12 03:26:05 · 21 answers · asked by KhaKha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so tired of hearing about traditional family values. I am a parent of four kids. I have been a stay at home mom and a working mom. We have raised our kids to be successful in the modern world. I belive in progressive family values. This does not mean we have no values, morals or religion!

I would like to see other families like our's join together an become voice for common sense progressive values in this country!

I found only one website which mentions progressive family values www.todays-family.net, have you heard of others? How can we start a movement?

2007-01-12 03:25:49 · 7 answers · asked by Geraldine J 2 in Family

Me and my bf broke up because I did something really stupid I regret so much and I wish I can change it, I had ask him last week if he wants to try to work things out and he said I'll have to think about it well I havent heard from him since last week but the other night I had a dream about him where he came up behind me and said honey I want to work things out, what does that mean.

2007-01-12 03:25:42 · 11 answers · asked by chanlen2005 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 03:24:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why i love surindher ,even she not remember my face

2007-01-12 03:24:41 · 7 answers · asked by parmjit s 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never been to these Planned Parenthood Clinics. I'm sort of on a budget today. I usually buy lots of condoms, but probably won't be able to today. Do these places give them out for free to anyone who walks in there and asks? Thanks

2007-01-12 03:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by Bobby_Bomberman 1 in Singles & Dating

is there such thing as a sexual connection like wen u feel connected during sex.. like u feel a bond a good conenction.. it feels loving like u feel extremly sorted like the feeling of lonelyness goes??
Ansers please :)!

2007-01-12 03:24:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If um...I'm I talk to people on line and my parents dont know?

2007-01-12 03:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by vtang.angel 2 in Friends

So my guy that I am dating he and I were talking dirty last night about well you know stuff. He know's I am a lady but a freak in between the sheets. He said's to me " I like the freaky stuff and I like the lady too" "You will make a good wife for someone one day" What did he mean by that? Right now he is not ready to have a relationship with someone nor am I really. We are just going with the flow of things here. He and I both like each other very much so and have lots of fun together. Am I reading in too much to what he said? Was it just a comment like I'm an idea woman or something? Or is he thinking that maybe (long way down the road I could be his wife). Your thoughts are appreciated. Thank youin advance.

2007-01-12 03:23:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to be dating someone who broke up with me over MySpace. I was mad at him for the longest time about it. Eventually I forgave him, but I still didn't spend much time with him. Now I'm dating someone new and I truly do care about her. But the thing is, I may still want my ex. I thought I was completely over him, but lately I've been dreaming about him, and he's the only thing I ever dream about. I dream about memories of us together, things it would be like if we were still going out, etc. Is it wrong to be dreaming about an ex, especially when I'm already with someone new? So what does this all mean? And what should I do? I feel like I might break up with my girlfriend because I think about him more but I can't go out with him because he moved an hour away by car. Please help before I do something stupidly drastic!

2007-01-12 03:22:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ones u r done sleepin with them and don't wanna see them anymore...

2007-01-12 03:22:38 · 7 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend, who's a guy, cheats on his girlfriend. They've been together 4 months and he's cheated 8 times that I know of. He keeps sleeping with his ex who is still pining over him. What I don't understand is that he gets all suspicious that his current girlfriend may be cheating. He has no evidence, but his current girlfriend has a child and takes the child to visit her ex. He thinks that while she's visiting her ex, she could be cheating. He also wonders when his girlfriend goes home at night if she's really there all night long. He's even asked me to do a drive-by with him at midnight to see if her car is in her driveway. I declined of course. Why is he so worried about his girlfriend cheating when he's cheating on her?! I don't understand this way of thinking.

2007-01-12 03:21:09 · 18 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-12 03:20:46 · 8 answers · asked by upkar p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this doesnt belong here but I wanted an answer fast. Do pilates work for toning up and is yoga better? I want to tone up im not fat just out of shape. Should I be able to do this by summer?

2007-01-12 03:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 03:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by bootylover300 2 in Singles & Dating

at first i didnt have a thing strait away....

than as i got to know her a little i couldnt wait to talk about smthin cool again...

than i couldt wait to see her again.....

what is this feeling ?? :)

2007-01-12 03:18:42 · 10 answers · asked by LeonZe 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is 20 yrs old dating a girl who is 18 and ruining his life. She has made him stop seeing all his friends and even has tried to make him choose between me and her. I have a 4 page notebook of bad things she has done to him but Im desperate to get this girl out of his life so he can get back on track. She is very jealous and controling, very bad for him and even her own family wants nothing to do with her...PLEASE HELP

2007-01-12 03:17:51 · 36 answers · asked by irishmermaid36 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf whats like 95 to 100% marks on hes exams.he realy wants hes a grade but hes getting way to stressed over the exams.hes doing A level exams in physics,chemitry and maths all hard subjects.he wont even listen to me,i dunno how to make him see that hes getting way to stressed.im not doing A levels.

hes doing revsion evryday,he get up at 9 till 10 at night, and takes a few breakesi think hes over doing revsion.

2007-01-12 03:17:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been in love with 2 people? One you see a future with. One you can't get your mind off. Who did you choose? Are you happy? Did you make a mistake?

2007-01-12 03:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Need Answers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 03:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by powerkittykat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So if a guy just wants sex from you and is somwhat nice about it, he is a player. If he is mean as soon as he gets it, then he is a jerk?
Well what if he told you before you had sex that he wants a casual sexual relationship, nothing serious. No lies...
Even if you don't want that and tell him you are no longer interested. Is he a player or a jerk?

2007-01-12 03:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Singles & Dating

i called her last week and she picked up the phone and said i can't talk. i'm watching a movie. so we got off the phone. so i sent her a message saying i was disappointed in her b/c she would rather wathc a movie than talk to me. we only talk maybe 4o min a week. i might also only see her once month. she said wanting her to talk to me since we talk very little instead of watching a movie. am i controlling

2007-01-12 03:16:44 · 5 answers · asked by Daniel o 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 03:16:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think you can.

A physical act should not affect your emotional feelings. Sex with one woman shouldn't lessen your love for your girlfriend.

You're not in love with this secondary woman, you're only having sex with her. You are not making love, you are not romancing, and sure as hell you’re not looking to start a relationship with her. You are using her, in its most rudimentary form.

But let me know what all you think out there, prove me wrong.

I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic where I have expanded my thoughts on this issue:

http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend

2007-01-12 03:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would love to spend one day just saying exactly what I feel and not bothering with what is wright and wrong to say. Anyone else

2007-01-12 03:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships