I used to be dating someone who broke up with me over MySpace. I was mad at him for the longest time about it. Eventually I forgave him, but I still didn't spend much time with him. Now I'm dating someone new and I truly do care about her. But the thing is, I may still want my ex. I thought I was completely over him, but lately I've been dreaming about him, and he's the only thing I ever dream about. I dream about memories of us together, things it would be like if we were still going out, etc. Is it wrong to be dreaming about an ex, especially when I'm already with someone new? So what does this all mean? And what should I do? I feel like I might break up with my girlfriend because I think about him more but I can't go out with him because he moved an hour away by car. Please help before I do something stupidly drastic!
2007-01-12 03:22:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BooWho the world is so full of drama. GET OVER IT
2007-01-12 03:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Broke up over MySpace?? Geesh.. what's the world come to?
Well...you've already done 'something stupidly drastic'.. already..
but if you must... there's nothing right or wrong - it's all about how you feel about it. And if you feel more attraction to your ex, maybe an hour's car ride might be worth it. If not, stay with your new gf.. Remember.. there are other people out there.. you could always find another.
Now.. if you want both your ex and your gf.. see if a threesome works for all of you concerned... hey - you could have the cake and eat it too... if you know how to handle it.. ;)
2007-01-12 03:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to honest with yourself first. If you are constantly thinking about him it maybe that your still not over him or ready to move on and not being very fair to your girlfriend or yourself. I think it would be best if you talk to the guy first find out what he wants and how he feel about you and the possibility of getting back together. If he wants none of that. Then I say you need to move on and have no contact with him only time will help you forget about it. And if you truly care about your GF put more energy into making that work. If your guy wants to be with you and try it again the you need to find out if you can do that since he lives an hour away now and if you find your self saying yes I think I can handle it you need to be honest with your girlfriend. Look deep down in yourself and find out want you want and need for you. It may take some time to do but it will be worth it once you know, just be honest with those you care about even if it hurts them you need to do it not just for them but yourself as well. Good luck I hope it work out and you find what you NEED at this point in your life.
2007-01-12 03:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me you are not happy with your present situation, this might not mean that you are unhappy about the breakup with your ex.. Why do you not take some time off, like a few days off work and go somewhere on our own. Give yourself time to think and be alone.. I do not think you had much time to be alone right after your breakup. It will give you a time of reflection, of healing from your last relationship and a time to reflect if this new relationship is where you what to be or not.
If you are still thinking of your ex after you return back home, I would call him, like a friend and this should give you an idea how he still feels about you.
Good Luck.
2007-01-12 03:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. Don't break up over a "dream". That really would be silly, don't you think?.
Second. Do you love your girlfriend or not? If you do, stay by her side. If you don't, you better talk to her and be honest to her and to yourself.
Third. Don't get involved again in any relationship unless you are absolutely sure that you do love the person you are getting involved with.
2007-01-12 03:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're obsessing over someone else, you aren't ready for a new relationship.
Also, if you're dating both men and women, you may be confused about what you want in a relationship anyway.
My advice for you is to be single for a while, actually be single and be comfortable with yourself, and try to figure out what you want out of life.
Maybe I am wrong, but it sounds like you habitually enter relationships even if you aren't ready for them.
This advice will work for you, even if you don't get why. Just trust me. I went through it too, and the experience taught me.
2007-01-12 03:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by askthepizzaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not really into women as far as relationships go....you may like them for physical relations every once in a while, but what you're really after for the long haul is a man.
Forget the jackass who dumped you over myspace though, find someone new.
2007-01-12 03:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its probably not the best idea to go out with somebody when you still havent got over your ex. If you stay with your current partner long enough, I think you will eventually get over your ex.
2007-01-12 03:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by andy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused, you had a bf and now you have a gf? And now that you have a gf, you want the bf? Uh.....first you need to decide which, if any, team you are hitting for, then which one you should be going after will become clearer. Personally, if I was your Bf/gf I would run, this sounds like a recipe for disaster!
2007-01-12 03:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its on ur account u can delete it if its on theres document it. even if youre made exciting of its how little ones are and shes not ur chum discover new acquaintances and ignore about their infantile bs
2016-12-02 04:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋