So if a guy just wants sex from you and is somwhat nice about it, he is a player. If he is mean as soon as he gets it, then he is a jerk?
Well what if he told you before you had sex that he wants a casual sexual relationship, nothing serious. No lies...
Even if you don't want that and tell him you are no longer interested. Is he a player or a jerk?
2007-01-12 03:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a complicated definition of a player. It is definitely have nothing to do with wanting sex from chick or not, being mean to them or not, etc. A player is someone who have game on how to bring stacks of girls to his dinner (not literally), someone who can make a girl feel special those few hours by making her fall for you but you really just ....PLAYING. And he does that to a lot of girls at the same time.....one is in a morning, one is at lunch, other at brunch, etc. Of course not necessary every day but pretty much on that basis. Someone who is not getting caught in a whole lovee dovee ish. Someone who is not being serious when he says that he loves her and she gives it up to him the first night. Someone who never falls in love and never gets turned down even by a prettiest and most wanted girl in a school. Now that is a player, not someone who is just mean and all about sex, not someone who gets his balls cut when he come off wrong and a girl just walks out on him.
But then there is a type of players that i consider the most complicated and irritating to me. They are somewhat a type that you describe but of course they are not being turned down or at least not for long. Example: This guy come up to girl, flirt with her and when she come off on some attitude towards him he just flip her off and walk off. Now mind you he get it done so good with so much game that she actually start loving it and she goes for the trick. Once she chases him and he gets what he wants he walks out on her again and this time for good. Make sence. Let me know if I was confusing. ;)
2007-01-12 03:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so i experienced this on new years with this guy i met in a bar.
We went back to his place, and he told me up front that he didnt want anything serious, ad the obvious told me he just wanted sex.
Good for the honesty, but im not into meaningless sex with someone.
I appreciate the honesty, and most guys tell u after they got what they wanted.
But dont understand how you guys can do sex with no strings atached.
Maybe that will be a question to ask.
2007-01-12 03:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Purple Haze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A player
2007-01-12 03:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by cm_crazy13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player - but that's fine so long as he's honest up front. Some women want a NSA guy anyway . . . he should find some of them. I don't put out for guys that are just looking for casual - don't want a STD.
2007-01-12 03:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not always a player if hes nice. Hes a jerk if he is mean obviously. I'm not into random, meaningless sex and he asked me for sex I'd probaly slap him because I dont look like a slut.
2007-01-12 03:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's told you this then he is being honest with you before hand so I don't think he's a jerk. If this isn't what you want find someone that will treat you better.
2007-01-12 03:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by padros 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can appreciate the honesty there. I would still call him a player though. You ask interesting questions! lol
2007-01-12 08:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a gentleman,he is a manly man,he gave me upfront what the deal is, it's a fair game, it's up to me if If I take it or leave it. He is an honest man . I know where I stand with him. I respect him.
2007-01-12 03:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋