Ok! I went to a b-ball game lastnight with some of my friends and my best friends was all like "there is going to be this guy here who really wants my body but I dont really like him anymore" (just to let you know i dident know anyone at this game but my frinds witch were like 4 girls) Well when I sat down this guy came over and sat by me and was all like hi, who are you? Well we started talking and i started really likeing him. Then my best friend was all like that was that guy. And I told her that I really liked him and she was all like well you cant like him because I do!!!!! Well he sat by ME the rest of the game, and well i dont know wether to forget about him or not. Well you know you should NEVER crush on your best friends crush!!!HELP ME!!!!
2007-01-12 03:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by ~sweatypie~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes you and not your best friend there's nothing you can do. He might like you and not her. IF he likes you and not her then I say go for it. Ask him which one of you he likes.
2007-01-12 03:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd find out how she really feels. One minute she says she doesn't like him anymore, but then as soon as she sees him into you then she likes him. That's not a "true" friend. Probably she was more likely upset that he wasn't flirting with her anymore.
My suggestion is to to talk to her. Find out if she really does still like him. I'd explain to her that you had NO idea that he was that guy at the time, but you really hit it off with him and you wanted to know she'd mind if you'd give it a shot. You never know, if she's a good friend and is not really into anymore she may say yes. BUT, I would step aside if she says that she really does like him, it would hurt her way to much to see you with him. So you just really need to have a heart to heart with your friend.
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-12 12:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look check this out. Tell your friend to let ol boy choose who he likes. if he is diggin on you than its obvious that he is not thinking about your homegirl. So tell her to get over it. What are you to do take a back seat cause she is jealouse and yes I said jealouse. why is she not saying "awww he likes you I think he's cute too but hes not diggin me.. Go for it girl" Hell no she is thinking about her self in this situation and walkin on your happieness even in the end if you step aside and let her talk to him and he dont chose her than you cant talk to him cause it makes you look cheep. so take the oppertunity now. Im sure you never heard that your friend liked this guy before. Now all of a sudden she is in to him.. Bull ****! its just that the dude looks even more tempting now that he is seen diggin on you. And your Home girl cant stand it. plus you proably look better than she do. go for it chicky.... Good luck.
2007-01-12 11:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always chicks before d**Ks. You and your friend should compromise and both of you should leave him alone. A guy is not wroth breaking up a friend ship. If she doesn't agree to back off from the guy, i say game on!
2007-01-12 11:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by dazesmitten04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like "sweaty"(did you like, really want to be known as sweaty?) if you're not old enough to spell any better than that, you shouldn't be dating anyway. Forget the dude, stick wit ur friends. They last longer.
2007-01-12 11:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Voyager01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the guy. ask him if he likes your or not. if he says he likes you, then tell your friend. if she's being a ***** about it, ask the guy to tell her. of course, make sure that you're already in good terms with that guy. like, go on 2-3 dates with him before telling your friend.
don't let her know that you dated..
2007-01-12 11:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by majj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell girl that is so true...i say jus forget about him and let ur girl make her move .no boy is worth ur friendship coz all they do guys that is ...is ebb and flow like the tides.and friendships last forever
2007-01-12 11:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by choices 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hedly lamar said wtf ---- if the guy likes you he likes you --- talk to him some more and if your friend has a problem the facts will speak for themselves --- he sat by you and she said she did not like him so best wishes and go for it
2007-01-12 11:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and don't be a Bi __tch
2007-01-12 11:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋