2007-01-12 03:24:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop helping him with his bills. He will do either of two things. He will either understand and stick around or he will pack up shop. If he runs in the other direction, then he was using you and wasn't worth your time. Either way you will have your answer.
If he is in financial trouble, perhaps he needs to reevaulate his finances and lifestyle and look at some other options such as either getting a better paying job, a second job, and/or cutting back on some of the luxuries.
2007-01-12 04:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop paying the bills and see if he sticks around. If you even need to question it though, he probably is using you.
2007-01-12 11:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy - be with him but don't pay his bills. If he asks, say "sorry, I make it a rule never to lend out money". If he sticks around or leave then you have your answer.
2007-01-12 11:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Diane A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't pay for any of his bills and see how he reacts to that. If he acts like a dickk then drop his asss.
2007-01-12 11:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by stormy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop paying his bills. if you're living together, share electric bills and stuff. if you're married or about to be married, ask him to sign a prenup.
2007-01-12 11:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by majj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you paying his bills? i guess noone ever paid mine so if you dump him look me up-lol. just stop your generous efforts. if he loves you, he'll stay with you.
2007-01-12 11:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have to ask this question maybe you yourself doubt his motives i would move on
see him if you must but under no circumstances move in with him or loan him money
2007-01-12 11:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋