I think you can.
A physical act should not affect your emotional feelings. Sex with one woman shouldn't lessen your love for your girlfriend.
You're not in love with this secondary woman, you're only having sex with her. You are not making love, you are not romancing, and sure as hell you’re not looking to start a relationship with her. You are using her, in its most rudimentary form.
But let me know what all you think out there, prove me wrong.
I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic where I have expanded my thoughts on this issue:
http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend
2007-01-12 03:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you are a ba$tard! And going by what you wrote and your id name you are a complete tosser! Prick!
2007-01-12 11:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, speaking technically, the answer is yes. You could have sex with another woman and still love your girlfriend.
However, there will be consequences. If you can live with the consequences, then go ahead. If not, then it's a problem. Either way you've got to deal with it.
If you are in an 'open relationship' where both of you agree to have other partners, then you won't have any serious relationship issues. But if there is no agreement of that sort, then it's likely your girlfriend will freak out when she finds out...
But I'm sure you are already aware of it...
2007-01-12 11:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes..u Can have sex with another woman and still love your girlfriend....now is it wrong...hell motherfu*king yes..it is wrong to sleep with another woman while with your girlfriend....would it want to make your girlfriend hurt you..hell yes...
I think when it comes to what kind of women a man wants to settle down with he has a pretty good idea..some men unfortunately think with one head and its the one below the waist line..and thats what gets them in trouble...
i definetly think it morally wrong and disrespectful for a man to cheat or sleep around even if it is meaningless..if you have a good women that makes you happy and willing to please you in anyway and makes you want to be a better man and you are so satisfy in the realtionship..y the heck sleep around with p u s s y that doesnt matter...what about the consequencess..ha
2007-01-12 11:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you truly love some one if you can't be honest, faithful, trusting? How can you intently hurt someone you love, how can you inflict pain to one you love out of personal gain? If you are messing around on the one you love, and looking elsewhere, it is apparent you don't love the one you think you love....you are just lieing to yourself, and them.
Your blog is just an excuse for you to try and justify your cheating. You are looking for someone to validate your view, so you don't feel guilt. This is an excuse for it to be ok.
2007-01-12 11:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont waste my time reading your blog. What did you do, put down a whole bunch of bs that makes it ok for you to be a selfish cheater ? What I wish on you is a lifetime of women who are f*cking every man in sight. But not to worry, according to you she still loves you.
2007-01-12 11:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO u cannot have sex with woman and still love your girlfriend you idiot, because that is cheating. If you want to have sex you should do it with your girlfriend, why would you go and do it with another woman. That would show that you love that other woman not your girlfriend. THAT IS JUST STUPIDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD.
2007-01-12 11:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO! If you really loved your girlfriend, you wouldn't have to "use" this other woman for sex. I am so dissappointed in this argument. What kind of man ARE you?
2007-01-12 11:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can--You can love your girlfriend like your car, or like pizza, or like your blog. You don't love her with an unconditional, self-sacrificing love, ie--true love. Why don't you ask your girlfriend?
2007-01-12 11:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but if you love your gf, you should not do something that you would know would upset her. Regardless if you think it is bad or not, you KNOW what it would make her extreamly upset, and if you love her you would respect her feelings.
2007-01-12 11:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by hdedone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋