Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

There is a girl I used to date in town for the weekend. She told me that she would hook up with me if I wanted even though I have a girlfriend, my choice. I'm really starting to consider the idea but I'm not sure.

I've been faithful to my girlfriend so far, but this offer is really tempting.

What should I do?

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http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend

2007-01-12 05:05:33 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems as though my co worker is interest in me but he just doesnt ask me out,but gets upset when im with other guys!We dnt really talk so i dont know him that well,could it be coz im a different race?Hes white im indian,now hes scared of his family &friendz?What they mite say

2007-01-12 05:05:09 · 43 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I were talking about going out west to a dude ranch. However, all the one's we find we like are like $2,000 a night PER PERSON!! Any ideas on where to look?

2007-01-12 05:05:01 · 10 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Weddings

What do you do?

I know some women shake a lot, like a small seizure
Some women grab you and squeeze you.
Some women scream and turn their head to the side.
some women spray a bunch of stuff everywhere.

What happens when you get off?

2007-01-12 05:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 05:04:23 · 2 answers · asked by curious 2 in Friends

Think about it, what did make you want to start? I have not smoked for twenty five years, but I started smoking at the age of eight.I stoped smoking at the age of thirty three, after I could see what dammage it was doing to me. Trust me it was not easy to quit, in fact it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I tried for five years to quit before I got the job done. The only way that works is cold turkey, just make up your mind and do it. I think I started because of second hand smoke from my Dad smoking in the car while I was in there with him. There was no way to get away from it, so my body just gave in to it. By the time I was eight my body had to have it, so I found myself stealing ciggeretts from my dad and anywhere else I could get them. IF YOU DONT WANT TO QUIT FOR YOURSELF DO IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE. SOMEONE LIKE YOUR CHILD, YOUR MOTHER, YOUR BROTHER.YOUR SISTER OR ANYONE, JUST DO IT.

2007-01-12 05:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by donalddhatfield 1 in Family

Been almost 20 years but I still love this woman. I have no intention of trying to get w/her I just want to see how life has turned out for her. I know she's married w/no children but thats about all. I also would not tell my wife because it may hurt her feelings and I do not want to do that. I think about my ex frequently and know she was the only woman I ever fell in love with (I love my wife but was never in love with her if that makes sense). Aside from the obvious "don't because you're married answer" is there any reason I shouldn't. Do you think she would be offended, annoyed, flattered, receptive? How would you feel if it were yo, knowing that this ex still loves you? Again I will not jeopeordize my family but I can't stop wanting to see the one woman who owns my heart. Thanks

2007-01-12 05:03:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i realy like a girl but she said she liked me once and then 2 days later was with another guy then they broke up she said she liked me again so i thought yes!!! then she got a another bf who append to be 1 close mate of mine who i dont see much....they broke up and then i though **** it, ill ask her out so i did....turns out she was drunk on messager so the net day she said "sorry i just came out of a relationship i dont wona be with you at the moment" (well more but thats basicly what she said)....so i dont know wht to do....i realy like her !!!!!
argg shes been calling me hot l8ly to! please help
email me on jason.jaws.13@hotmail.co.uk( i use msn more)

2007-01-12 05:03:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I divorce my husband who lies to me all the time and treats me less than a human being and after he 'sleeps' w/me after 2 months of ignoring then a few minutes after he's done he goes to work on his computer cuz he's self employed then i wake up at 4 am to see why he's not in bed and i find him watchin p*** and m********. Isnt htat a a form of adultery and should i diovrce him b/c his heart is turned to stone? CHRISTIAN answers only please. if u don't like christians please do not answer.thanks. we have no kids, 2 yr aniv is coming up :(

2007-01-12 05:03:23 · 25 answers · asked by ccmarket1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I say thank you for accepting me- blah blah.. maybe when wounds heal se can get together someday. Married for 6- together almost 9 by the way. Soooo.... the ones i was closest to- NO REPLY (the ones who said i love u all the time- like his mom). His dad(that was the bad dad as i was told.... he replied). Is it just me or it that messed up??

2007-01-12 05:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by skygirlchristine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would I still want to spend time with my bf if I was falling out of love with him?

Would I still want to have sex with him?

Would I want to go away to his friends place for a wknd getaway?

Would I still trust him

Thanks....I am just wondering cause I am having anxiety that is leading me to believe that I have fallen out of love with my bf

Thanks!

2007-01-12 05:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl online who gave me her number, only when I called it there was an older guys voice on her machine. I thought it might be her dad (which it turned out to be) but I thought more than likely it was a blow off and sent her an email basically telling her I wanted HER number and insulted her intelligence (blonde) and told her to take care like I was not going to be talking to her anymore.

Well she replied back and told me she lives with her dad.

I feel like an idiot. What the hell was I thinking!?!? I don't even know where to begin with this one. Suggestions?

2007-01-12 05:02:05 · 42 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

Today is my B-Day...

2007-01-12 05:01:40 · 6 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Singles & Dating

i need help there is this boy and he always hangs out with me in the mornings he is always funny. every other girl likes him because hes hot and i like him for hes personality and i tould him that he will be sitting in front of me i well get a chair and but my leg on him. when he hangs out with hes other Friends he always comes back when he walks away with hes other friends. when im with my best friend he is always like Group hug i dont know does he like me or not.
I like him but im scard we wont have the Same friendship if i tell him?

Plz help

2007-01-12 05:01:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 05:01:23 · 21 answers · asked by david v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So he came home right from the military on break. The jerk doesn't even want to spend time with me. He hasn't called and we had made plans to hang out this Friday and Saturday and next weekend as well. I get an email saying he has some bad news. And boy did I blow up. He makes me angry. Should I even be with him in the first place?

2007-01-12 05:01:12 · 17 answers · asked by al_ex24 1 in Singles & Dating

that everybody has yummmeeee bugers or wat

2007-01-12 05:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by ohshapapa 2 in Singles & Dating

Having some really bad family problems and probably pregnant... I live in Ohio and Ohio is pretty much ridiculous when it comes to this getting married thing. Where can we go to get married to ensure the rights of our child and be together without consent? Please answer if you know details... :(

2007-01-12 05:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

right he is going to be wearing a corset and pencil skirt so that he cant walk, also thong, stockings and suspenders.
where can i buy all this from on the net, can you send me links to items.
i cant wait for payback!!!

2007-01-12 04:59:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been promising my cuzin that I will meet up with her for 2 weeks now, and everytime I told her, instead I went to another persons house(a friend). Ive been promising forever. Now, how should I act, when I see her?

2007-01-12 04:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by Apple C 1 in Friends

Mine's 30. I'm now 25. ARGHH!!!!

2007-01-12 04:59:06 · 42 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 04:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im only 20 and just got kicked out of college.

my mom gets blamed for everything. I dont feel sorry for me,
I feel sorry for her.she worked very hard sending me to good schools.
I just removed all my stuff from the dorm, my dad was angry and blamed my mom. She works so hard, but she always gets blamed when I skrew up.

I cant speak up, Im scared to. He speaks so loud its like he's yelling, and I just realized there is really no love between them. He and I are two diffrent people, with one dominant over the other. i hate life right now. I just finished enrolling at a community college, but I dont know what to do with my life.

I just want to be rich now. Get money, get out of the ghetto, away from home and have peace of mind again.

my grandmother's funeral is in 5 days, I have to be out of the country, and I want to die. I will have to miss the first week of classes at the new college.please just keep me from killing myself, whats next.
there so much, but no room to type.

2007-01-12 04:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Her family and friends and me get along real well, we broke up because I caught her cheating on me. I have typed up an e-mail, stating my feelings for her and her daughter and her family and friends (basically stating, I had a great time this past year, and that I will miss seeing them, but I wish everyone Happiness and health and that I LOVE her and her daughter). There is a very SMALL blurb on why we broke up, that is not what the e-mail is about, I am debating if I should send it? Ideas?

I am hurt from this realtionship, but more of the fact that I am going to miss my ex and everyone.

2007-01-12 04:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by Russell O 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been nervous if i go near to any girl exept the one that i know already like class mate. but other girls i tend to be so nervous. how do you handle that?

2007-01-12 04:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-12 04:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by sissyurban 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife of four years decided two days ago to move out with our baby and into her babies fathers apartment. I have been with her since she was two months pregnant and have provided for both of them and have been there everyday. He only pays child support because he was forced to, but has recently gotten a job. I thought it was great that they were becoming friends, but he stole her from me while I though he was my friend (I even lent him money). She says that she is confused, that she doesnt know what she wants, but she wants to try with him. She told me that she wants to move up, what I think is that she wanted to move out of my mothers house where we were staying since my mom and her don't get along. The killer is that we were two months from having the money to move out. I have already made the mistakes of begging, crying, being upset. She says she wants to be my friend. It seems like she just wanted out of the house, and is using him and then will come back to me. What should I do?

2007-01-12 04:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have about 13 guys cumming to my bday party and 5 of them want to make out with me at the party but i only wanna make out wiht this other guy that not part of the 5 oh before u say get them to getwith other girls im the only single girl there

how can i avoid the 5 as it gona be hard as it my bday so everyone will wanna say happy bday to me

wat should i say if one of the 5 see me with the guy i like and get upset

2007-01-12 04:54:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to have sex all the time, If i get undressed or bend over he sais it turns him on. He claims he would never ever want anyone else, but how much he wants it worries me.He tells me he thinks i am realy hot ans sexey and my actions do it to him.
What is too much,we are almost 30 and have been together for 10 yrs. Should i worry?

2007-01-12 04:54:54 · 25 answers · asked by danceteacher5555 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people chew gum then spit it out on the pavement it's disgusting habit......

2007-01-12 04:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating