There is a girl I used to date in town for the weekend. She told me that she would hook up with me if I wanted even though I have a girlfriend, my choice. I'm really starting to consider the idea but I'm not sure.
I've been faithful to my girlfriend so far, but this offer is really tempting.
What should I do?
I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic, where I expand on this issue:
http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend
2007-01-12 05:05:33 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont care either way so I say go ahead and go for the gold!!! Maby she'll let you put in her hiney hiney hiney hiney hiney and you can giggle about it with all your boyband blog friends you dolt.
2007-01-12 05:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are looking to start a relationship with the other girl and it means something more than just a fix then brake up with your girl first, you'll feel better later. If you do do it, dint hurt your girl no matter what, Karma will get you one way or the other. In Japan about 70% of men cheat and there wives expect it but, it is excepted somehow in that they put there wives first and never hurt them with the truth.
2007-01-12 05:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by JoJo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only acceptable way to sleep around when you are in a relationship is when both of you acknowledge that it is an open one, where both can have sexual partners outside of the relationship. Otherwise, you're asking for disaster. Possible disease, pregnancy and a guilty conscious are just the tip of the iceberg. Odds are your girlfriend will find out about it otherwise, with predictably disastrous results.
2007-01-12 05:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely hope that your girlfriend catches you in the act.....no, actually I hope that you catch her in the act and that you experience the agony that comes from that kind of betrayal. Cheating on your girlfriend is cruel. Do you really want to do that to her? Even if she doesn't catch you she will know that something 'isn't right'. She'll never feel the same way about you again. Are you willing to risk that? You really shouldn't be in a relationship.
2007-01-12 13:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by cheri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the blog needs some content :(
it's like reading a good intro to a book, and then seeing the words "chapter 1" followed by 1000 blank pages.
2007-01-12 05:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you like your current girlfriend or not.
If you have no feelings for this girl that you're with then you shouldn't be with her in the first place.
If you have feelings for her and no heart to speak of either, then go ahead and cheat.
If you like this girl that you're with and aren't an insensitive jerk, then do the right thing and turn down the booty call.
2007-01-12 05:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.NO... Don't cheat it is a mistake, it may be temping but look at this way the girl that wants you to cheat is a Sl*t for even trying to get you to do so. If you love your GF you wont do this its wrong and you will only end up hurting your self as well as her. If you want this other girl then break it off with your GF don't be a jerk
2007-01-12 05:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't need to hear you expand. Wrong is wrong. You can tell it in the first three sentences.
If you want to go up with your ex, go ahead, but break up with your girlfriend FIRST. Anything less defines you as a human being (now and in the future) ... and believe me, it isn't a very nice definition.
2007-01-12 05:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is all this talk about cheating today?
No, do not cheat...it is NEVER ok to cheat on the woman you love...don't you have any regard for her feelings?
How would you feel if she cheated on you? Consider that feeling, and see if you could hurt your girlfriend that way....
If you want to be able to be with other girls...let your girlfriend go....don't hurt her by cheating on her...give her the chance to find someone who truly loves her and would never even think of cheating on her....
Do not do it if you love her...do not cheat...
2007-01-12 05:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so not fair to your gf. Put yourself in her shoes or think about if she was thinking the same thing - how would you feel?
Be fair when you are dealing with anothers person's heart and feelings. But if you decide to do it, remember you can never honestly say in your heart that you never cheated on her. Ever.
2007-01-12 05:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say at first glance I thought you were another sleazy pile of human excrement but your blog entry is rather well thought out. It seems you've already made up your mind from that entry and it doesn't really seem anything anyone could say would change your mind.
I still say no don't do it but hey you've already made up your mind, yes? Either way thanks for the semi-interesting read.
2007-01-12 05:21:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋