I say thank you for accepting me- blah blah.. maybe when wounds heal se can get together someday. Married for 6- together almost 9 by the way. Soooo.... the ones i was closest to- NO REPLY (the ones who said i love u all the time- like his mom). His dad(that was the bad dad as i was told.... he replied). Is it just me or it that messed up??
2007-01-12 05:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by skygirlchristine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I were in his family, I would not write you back out of respect to keep my nose out of your business.
2007-01-12 05:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is messed up, no doubt. But, I'm sure if you can put yourself in their shoes, there is no way for them to respond without feeling a bit like they are betraying him, their blood relative. Rest assured you did the right thing. Just give the universe some time to absorb it and see what comes back to you. If it was meant to be for them to continue some sort of relationship with you, it will happen. If not, at least they will always think fondly of you for having been so civil about it at the end with them. Good luck.
2007-01-12 05:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your ex husband has told them a bunch of lies to make you look like the bad person in this. I do not think you was told the whole truth about his family. Just forget about them and move on. Why do you want to be around someone who is not truly your friend and does not want the best for you?
2007-01-12 05:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it's nice that you wanted to stay on good terms with his family, I'm not sure you should expect the pleasant replies you hoped for. He's still their son, brother, etc, and they are going to stay on his side. Just put the past behind you, and move on.
2007-01-12 05:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure everyone in the family is hurt by this. Those who were the closest are hurt the most. Don't blame his mom for perhaps wishing to not have contact with you, try to understand her perspective, and move on. Everyone deals with trauma in their own way. By and large, it now doesn't matter anyway - you're on your own.
2007-01-12 05:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was with u almost 9 years... so something happened to his life.. like women come and have secret that hidden it... so give him time if he loves u truly he will call u back.. don't chase him and follow him let him live his life and u live your life... u deserve better than one saying i love u all the time.. u need someone act with u like he loves u.. the love not the word the love is more than that..
2007-01-12 05:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats totally lame. Sounds like he's been feeding them some propoganda about you or something.
2007-01-12 05:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe they just dont know how to reply that kind of e-mail, me? i dont know what to reply to that, i might as well keep quiet coz i really dont know hot to reply to that. so chill out ok?
2007-01-12 05:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have children together, there is no good reason for his family to respond, and you shouldn't expect them to.
2007-01-12 05:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blod is thicker than water
2007-01-12 05:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋