Her family and friends and me get along real well, we broke up because I caught her cheating on me. I have typed up an e-mail, stating my feelings for her and her daughter and her family and friends (basically stating, I had a great time this past year, and that I will miss seeing them, but I wish everyone Happiness and health and that I LOVE her and her daughter). There is a very SMALL blurb on why we broke up, that is not what the e-mail is about, I am debating if I should send it? Ideas?
I am hurt from this realtionship, but more of the fact that I am going to miss my ex and everyone.
2007-01-12 04:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by Russell O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless her family is reaching out to you for an explanation, you really aren't obligated to give one. If they ask, be honest and tell them. Obviously DON"T tell her daughter........... I'm sure the daughter will figure out on her own that her mother is a whore.
Nothing says that you can't remain friends with her family. If you do though, you really have no business asking about her. In that regard you really need to move on.
Also, don't cry over spilt milk. She is obviously NOT WORTH any grieving by you. She is the one that has to live with her mistake and trust me..... she knows she is pond-scum. Really, she does.
mb
2007-01-12 05:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friends its my brothers ex fiancee.. they broke up, we dont know why, although we have a suspition of the reason, but we were always close to her and it was so great that after they broke up we could still have contact and go out like nothing happened. Although it takes a lot of maturity on both sides.
It speaks very well of you to be interested in sending that email, you are a gentelman, dont mention the reasons why you broke up, its her loss not yours, if they ask you, dont tell them. Send the email but dont blurb the reason why.
Now you dont have to stop been friends with them just because you broke up, thats my point.. if you really like them, continue the friendship; you are not obligated what so ever to remain friends with your ex, everyone must understand this.
good luck and Im sorry for what you are going throug.
2007-01-12 13:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by luisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been around these people for a year, and if you trust them, then you should send the email. Her family should understand. However, if you think it will cause more problems than solutions, then I'd advise you to not send it.
2007-01-12 13:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by music lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just leave everything alone. i'm sorry that your hurt but if she cheated on you then it's better that your without her
2007-01-12 13:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by lady luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send it
2007-01-12 13:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋