Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

i study in a all boys school. we have an annual function at school and i have to dress up as an indian bride. can u suggest me the things in need to do to look real. its very embarassing but but i have to do it as it is my principal decision.

2007-01-12 04:31:12 · 7 answers · asked by mona c 1 in Weddings

I am 24 and I am looking for a date possibly a long-term relationship. I know this seems desparate but its not I am just curious if I will get any feedback on any kind. I am a good looking very nice guy heading to the Police Academy in 2 months. So I will be a cop in 8 months. Hit me back if you are interested in even maybe talking a little bit.

2007-01-12 04:30:54 · 6 answers · asked by <a href="http://shop.fig 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a guy is still with you because he likes you or because he is too afraid to dump you because it would hurt your feelings?

2007-01-12 04:30:52 · 24 answers · asked by SmartBlonde 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with someone who I think is in love with me.We have spent lots of time together for the last 5 months but for some reason he does not want to be in a relationship. It really hurts me because I am in love but I am not sure what to do next. Should I walk away? or should I stick around to see what will happen? He is everything I've been looking for and he is everything I want but last night when I told him how I felt we got into an argeement and before I know it I was telling him that I hate him but deep down all I really want it to be with him. So what is a girl to do?

2007-01-12 04:30:51 · 14 answers · asked by Lady B 2 in Singles & Dating

That's bullsh!t. He needs food, shelter, and clothing.....not sex. Sex is not a need, it is a selfish desire. Sex my be needed for procreation but absolutely NOT for individual survival. Men who are hateful to women for not having sex with them are SELFISH BUTTWIPES!!! That's the truth!

2007-01-12 04:30:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 04:30:28 · 16 answers · asked by summer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother-in-law thinks that my husbands ex-wife should still be included in the family just like she was when her son was married to her. I'm with her son now and this makes me very uncomfortable to think when we go to have anything to do with his family I also will have to look at her as part of everything and deal with her constant presence. My husband does have 2 kids with this ex-wife but to me that should not make a difference in this. My mother-in-law also leaves up pictures of my husband and his ex-wife when they were together and says "I do that because the kids like to see them together." I felt really sick to my stomach over those pictures and to me it is disrespecting me. I have spoken to my mother-in-law about my feelings on this but she told me this is how she wants it to be and to deal with it. My husband is behind me 100% and has told his mother he feels the same way. Right at this point in time we haven't been to his mother's in 1 1/2 years over this. Opinions pls.

2007-01-12 04:29:49 · 27 answers · asked by Lucinda M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-01-12 04:29:45 · 18 answers · asked by Pancake 7 in Family

My grandpa says that he is my great great great great uncle but i want to know if it is true.

2007-01-12 04:29:21 · 1 answers · asked by honman101 1 in Family

I'm wondering what happened to an old friend of mine. We went to high school together at Westerville North High School in Westerville, OH. We graduated Class of 1994.
He went by the nickname of Ricky but his real first name was Paul. He and I were best friends until we had a falling out during our senior year. I don't remember why.

To give a clue to who I am: We went to the sweetheart dance together our junior year because your date bailed on you. The limo you rented had to drop us off at my parents house an hour before the dance becasue it wasn't scheduled right. My Parents had gone out and we were locked out of my house so we had to wait at my neighbor's house.

What happened you Ricky? How can I find you?

2007-01-12 04:29:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm married for 13 years and recently my husband decided to change his body and turn himself into a "woman". He claims to love me still and he wants us to keep together. I love him more than ever but I feel kinda confused about this situation. Besides it's very hard to stand the way people look at him in the streets. It feels like and walking with a monster or something. It makes me very ashamed. He's put "teats" already and he's intending to go through a sexchange surgery in Mexico next year.
Even though all the changes he's making in his body he's still the same in all the other ways and he insists that he's not gay and he doesn't want to leave me. Should I believe him?

PS: He's unenployed and it's me who's paying for all his changes and he wants me to pay for his sexchange surgery too.

2007-01-12 04:27:53 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 04:27:43 · 36 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I lot of my friend don't know the difference between goth, punk, and emo. I know the difference but, I want ot know if you people out there know.

2007-01-12 04:26:46 · 9 answers · asked by Second Chance 3 in Friends

the bet was he has to dress as a girl to a party, what shall i make him wear, girls please be mean!
links to items are welcome
:)

2007-01-12 04:26:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having sexual dreams alot but they are never about my husband. He said he has woken up to find me with my hands in my area while I'm sleeping. I don't remember it but I barely have time to think about sex during the day since I'm taking care of three children. He thinks the dreams are always about him and of course I let him think that way. I'm having sexual dreams about neighborhood men that I never even really thought of as appealing. I know it's harmless and I would never cheat on my husband but is it normal to have dreams like this? The dreams are so real I almost blush when I see the neighbors.

2007-01-12 04:26:06 · 25 answers · asked by Jennifer W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ahhah why not just be honest girls?? Lies hurt 200 times worse than the truth,

ive heard "hypothetically what if we went on a break" "hypothetically what if a girl had to chose between 2 guys" "I just dont want to compromise my career" then it changed to "i just dont want a relationship"

despite the fact that she has a new bf 2 months after our break up.....


why not be honest, i wulda let go along time ago....

2007-01-12 04:25:50 · 6 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always made a point of being a good listener and making sure I'm there for people when they need me but recently it seems like that's all they want me for. They never seem to want to go out with me, just want me to listen to their problems, which makes them feel better, then they go off with their "cooler" friends. What am I doing wrong?!

2007-01-12 04:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-12 04:24:21 · 18 answers · asked by ladylove79 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it just movies?or what?and would u trust them when they say there is no chatting?and being married!

2007-01-12 04:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been having some problems lately. we tried to "take a break" and i really miss him. i dont want to be with hime if things were like how they were before but i miss him too much to not want to be with him anymore. im not really sure what to do about it.

2007-01-12 04:24:02 · 4 answers · asked by cassidythehoodlum 2 in Singles & Dating

I been going though a lot of stress at work and a hormone flipouts messing with a different birth controls so i suspect i messed my sex drive because i dont know if it is me or him but i need to be pushed in order to get to have sex with my man. What is going on?
He is one of the sexiest man I have ever seen, very good looking, well endowed and all but I just not all excited when we are about to have sex. I know i am not frigit. Far from that. I enjoy sex and I had good lovers in a past but not here, not with him. I dont get turned on completely, and sometimes i dont want to take initiative. But i want him so it gets me.
I personally think it may be a lack of foreplay. I guess he fall in into a type of guys that know that they are packing so they think they dont really have to try hard to get you bust a nut? I manned up to talk to him about it and he was upset of course but I need progress.
What should i do? How i can teach a 32 y o on how to take time with foreplay?

2007-01-12 04:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Singles & Dating

Last night my BF beat so horribly for about 1 hour then he stopped & had sex with me , I sat in the shower for an hour & couldnt say a word I just cried & try to wash it off, my face looks scary to me. I didnt say a word to him when he went to slep I started talking to myself & I wanted to leave he woke up & hit me on my knees with a bamboo stick & started chokingme & hitting me again. he feels justified he says I cheated (read my previous question) but I didn't. Last night I wish I would have ebause I wouldnt have felt so bad about what he did to me cause I would have been wrong, but I didnt cheat all I did was not tell him where I got the suit from because I knew he was going to get mad. Now he wants to see my emails & I dont want to show him cause I am scared anything might trigger him. He says he loves me...thats what he says I think I hate him. Now I am at work not leaving my cubicle I a embaressed dont want noone seeing my face, I dont want to go home tonight. I already know.

2007-01-12 04:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like thiz guy he iz perfect and i found out recently he likes me as well but now i have no way of gettin n contact with him since i dont talk to his uncle lik dat so wat should i do should i try to get n contact or juss let it die cuz i been hurt to many times

=)

2007-01-12 04:22:12 · 10 answers · asked by I still live wit the side effect 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, i have had a crush on a guy for a long time, and it was really embarrassing when we met, so everytime i see him, i can't talk to him because it's a little awkward, but i think he feels the same way (a total guess) and we are going on a retreat this winter with my youth group and i was wondering if i should tell him how i feel...mistake?

2007-01-12 04:21:46 · 20 answers · asked by lindsey 4 in Singles & Dating

So I want to get a breast augmentation. I don't want huge breast just the right size for my figure. My husband says no. There are to many risks. He says he likes me the way I am. But he really loves it when I hike them up and squeeze them together in a dress, which takes a lot of work. Not to mention hurts. We have kids and they have definetly played a big part on the change of my breast. We have a great relationship. We are up front about everything but I still really want them. Am I being selffish? Should i let it go?

2007-01-12 04:21:11 · 16 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 04:21:01 · 12 answers · asked by tgal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I have had a crush on this guy since last March and recently I found out that in early December he called me sexy to one of my friends. He recently broke up with his girlfriend but then asked my best friend out to the movies. I said it was okay but I was still upset about the entire situation. I was told that he likes me but it seems like he likes her as well. I don't know what to do because from what it seems he likes her and I don't want to mess up the friendship. HELP!!!

2007-01-12 04:20:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically, My parents hate anyone who looks different, my close friend has piercings, and My mom always says stuff like oh he is so nice, but he would be so much better with out those piercings on his face.....I personally Love piercings on men, I think they are attractive and hot...so how do i explain they arent wrong in my eyes? and that they dont make him a bad person?

Thanks

2007-01-12 04:20:25 · 14 answers · asked by Autumn Blonde ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

It's worth it to figh for your ex girlfriend if you have very strong feelings for her, (I mean that you are certain about that you want to spend the rest of your life with her) but she's got a new boyfriend, about 2 months?

Especially if you were together for 4 years, and 3 years lived together, but now she don't want you anymore. (or maybe she's just playing with you)

So do you thing that it is worth to fight for her passively, or better you move forward, and find a someone else?

Thank you.

2007-01-12 04:19:26 · 12 answers · asked by bzoli13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I'm not a V but I'm not an expert. I like to talk trash and I love it for my bf to touch me BUT I'm almost scared when it comes down to me having to do something. I want to because i want to please him to but i cant really explain why i feel like that but i do. I get kinda timid and shy. I know that i should be doing SOMETHING but I'm scared. What if i dont do the right thing or what if I mess up..... any advise on how to brave up and make my man love my attention in return for his works.....

2007-01-12 04:19:13 · 21 answers · asked by Kathryn N 1 in Singles & Dating