I been going though a lot of stress at work and a hormone flipouts messing with a different birth controls so i suspect i messed my sex drive because i dont know if it is me or him but i need to be pushed in order to get to have sex with my man. What is going on?
He is one of the sexiest man I have ever seen, very good looking, well endowed and all but I just not all excited when we are about to have sex. I know i am not frigit. Far from that. I enjoy sex and I had good lovers in a past but not here, not with him. I dont get turned on completely, and sometimes i dont want to take initiative. But i want him so it gets me.
I personally think it may be a lack of foreplay. I guess he fall in into a type of guys that know that they are packing so they think they dont really have to try hard to get you bust a nut? I manned up to talk to him about it and he was upset of course but I need progress.
What should i do? How i can teach a 32 y o on how to take time with foreplay?
2007-01-12 04:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In relationships someone has to take initiative. Foreplay? Simply take the initiative always and be in control the the game! Start the foreplay yourself and refuse early access until the build up is right, it must work. It must, surely.
2007-01-12 04:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kissplus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 32 so you just say foreplay or no play. simple as that. If he wants to act uppity, then knock him down a pag and say something like You act like a 12 year old with sex - if you can't be a man - then go outside and look for the curb - because that is where you will hang until you learn how to treat a woman.
2007-01-12 04:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best answer is just to tell him to slow down, don't make it like he's rushing 'cause lord knows they don't like their ego's messed with! Be honest and tell him it's you and you are so stressed and the foreplay is so relaxing a nice and so and so on. He loves you , he'll listen. Lay back and enjoy!
2007-01-12 04:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a few drinks & watch some porn with him...
Tell him that he needs to work on his foreplay / lovemaking
teqnique because you are not happy...
He may not like it but he will understand what you are talking about.
If he does not change then you need to find a better lover...
2007-01-12 04:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU too must take time w/ 4play. If there is one thing everyone should agree on it's that 4 play is a good thing. Sure men get hot real ez sometimes, but if he loves you he'll be more than happy. Just don't get selfish with it. Giving should be just as good as getting.
2007-01-12 04:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't teach an old dog new tricks. Find a younger guy cause him being age 32 means he's about to die of old age.
2007-01-12 04:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Deep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as a guy i can tell you what i can tell you even that it,s my wife's code name , tell him women need to take it slow it takes 20mins of forplay to get warmed up were a guy can start at anytime. you could tell him he has to warm up the oven befor you stick in the turkey, meaning he has to get you in the mood befor he has intercourse with you,tell him you need to suggle first.
2007-01-12 04:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some toys
2007-01-12 04:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is 34 and I had to get him books, which helped.
2007-01-12 04:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if you dont have a sattisficing sex life why are you with him? your sex life is what keeps you together.
2007-01-12 04:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋