It's worth it to figh for your ex girlfriend if you have very strong feelings for her, (I mean that you are certain about that you want to spend the rest of your life with her) but she's got a new boyfriend, about 2 months?
Especially if you were together for 4 years, and 3 years lived together, but now she don't want you anymore. (or maybe she's just playing with you)
So do you thing that it is worth to fight for her passively, or better you move forward, and find a someone else?
Thank you.
2007-01-12 04:19:26 · 12 answers · asked by bzoli13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's time for you to move on...why waste your time and energy if she can just throw 4 years away and find a new bf, she doesn't derserve another chance. If she loved you she wouldn't put you through all this.
2007-01-12 04:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there - achieved that, as a married female. My ex resurfaced after being out of the photo for years. i'd like to come again with him and that i recognize he feels an same way. notwithstanding it is going to under no circumstances take position because we both trust that marriage is continuously. We ignored our probability and now we are those who ought to pay the cost for our mistake in breaking apart so some time previous - and, trust me, it does damage! yet we would under no circumstances ask our spouses to pay the cost for our difficulty, so we are able to under no circumstances party and could do our superb to placed our emotions for another back into the previous. Sorry, yet you're in a no-win difficulty. someone will be damage right here. Be a good, straightforward guy (isn't that the way you grew to grow to be triumphant?)and take the hit your self. You married your spouse promising to love and protect her. that's time to guard her.
2016-10-30 22:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't hold my breath for her to come back no matter how many years u were with her. just accept that she doesn't want to be with u anymore, unless she gives u some sort of encouragement, u may be waiting a very long time. it always hurts to have to give someone we loved up, not to mention what it does to our ego's, u can pretty much tell what is on a persons mind by looking at their actions. u need to move on and stop wasting time on someone who is now with someone else, unless they personally make contact and make the move toward u, there isn't much hope. and to hold onto a relationship like this will only make u depressed, and break your heart worse than it is now. she would not be with this new man if she were just playing u, or seeking changes in your relationship, she would be with u working it out. face reality, accept it, and don't expect anything of her, and wait until it ends with him and move from there. good luck
2007-01-12 04:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you have made it clear to her in the past that she is
someone special and that you care about her and enjoy
spending time with her?
If this is so, then let her go.
Why would you want a lover that needs to be "convinced" to
stay with you? What you want is someone who simply loves
being with you - it flows out of her - its something that she herself
wants.
Chasing after someone who has left you is setting yourself
up for years of pain and suffering. The sooner you learn that
love is about being with someone who wants to be with you
the sooner your romantic life will be more joyful and prosperous.
So, "NO, it is never worth it to chase after someone who has
left you." This is a stupid Hollywood movie, not real life.
.
2007-01-12 04:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!!! She obviously doesn't want to be with you... I have an ex boyfriend that just doesn't get it, 2 years later and he's still fighting for me. It makes me hate him even more. Move on... She has.
2007-01-12 04:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Why fight a losing battle. Move on and focus on self. Don't let your life pass you by because you want to fight for someone that has moved on.
2007-01-12 04:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should move forward and find someone else that will be just as devoted to you as you will be to her.
Good Luck
&
God Bless!
2007-01-16 04:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely dependent on the reasons for breaking up in the first place. If you haven't fixed the problem they'll still be there to screw it all up again.
2007-01-12 04:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write her a letter with all your true feelings and see what happens.
2007-01-12 04:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight for her you clearly love her plus girls like guys who fight for what they want well i know i do
2007-01-12 04:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋