Last night my BF beat so horribly for about 1 hour then he stopped & had sex with me , I sat in the shower for an hour & couldnt say a word I just cried & try to wash it off, my face looks scary to me. I didnt say a word to him when he went to slep I started talking to myself & I wanted to leave he woke up & hit me on my knees with a bamboo stick & started chokingme & hitting me again. he feels justified he says I cheated (read my previous question) but I didn't. Last night I wish I would have ebause I wouldnt have felt so bad about what he did to me cause I would have been wrong, but I didnt cheat all I did was not tell him where I got the suit from because I knew he was going to get mad. Now he wants to see my emails & I dont want to show him cause I am scared anything might trigger him. He says he loves me...thats what he says I think I hate him. Now I am at work not leaving my cubicle I a embaressed dont want noone seeing my face, I dont want to go home tonight. I already know.
2007-01-12 04:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
~hugs~
That isn't on. Call the police, tell your parents, your family, your friends, stay with someone you know and trust (and if he knows them/the place ensure it has heavy locks on the doors. Get out of there and get that scum-bag out of your life forever. That's horriric stuff that nobody deserves to go through. And it sounds like you and perhaps even your life may be in danger if you stay with him. I really hope things get better for you and you can get that maniac off of your case.
Best wishes to you, don't let it happen again.
2007-01-12 04:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one beats on someone, have sex and said that they loved them, God did not intend for a relationship to be this way. First of all get help and report it to the authorities, if you do not, the next time you may not live through it, if it is difficult for you to do this, then i suggest that you find a place that you can be safe from him and end this relationship, one day you got to stand up and face him and tell him it is over, move on and learn from your mistakes, even if you are not in fault. There are better fishes out there and the one that will take care of you and love you the way you should be loved is waiting for you.
2007-01-12 22:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to get a restraining order for one. this situation happened to my sister in which case he hurt her two kids as well. don't go back home. stay at a friend or families house for as long as you need to. he'll come looking for you i can gaurantee but hold your ground. get a police escort to take you to get your things. and call the police everytime he comes near you even if he says he just wants to talk. he's not going to let up for a while if he doesnt get arrested but you'll feel a whole hell of a lot better when your out of that relationship.
2007-01-12 12:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by new_sweetness08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll feel better is by finding a safe place to live. Go to the police! Have charges brought up against him. Get a restraining order. If you have no place to go, the police can arrange something for you. There are womens groups in direct association with the police. They will help you. Please, get out now before he kills you!
2007-01-12 12:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this all really happened then you notifiy the authorities immediately. This is assault. If you are afraid to go home, then don't, go to a trusted friend, relative, or safe place. No one has to put up with being hurt. Your first phone call should be to the police.
L.
2007-01-12 12:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by tink3610 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT!!!!! GO TO THE POLICE!!! You are in a VERY bad situation and they can help you. If nothing else go to someone's house who he doesn't know or know where to find you. JUST GET AWAY NOW!!!!!
2007-01-12 12:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by bryan c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is not a sick joke,you need help.You know this is a sick relationship.Call a battered womens shelter and ask how to proceed.You need to take control of your life.
2007-01-12 12:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE WITH EVERYONE ELSE, PLEASE, PLEASE, GET OUT!! DO NOT GO HOME WITHOUT THE POLICE ACCOMPANYING YOU, PRESS CHARGES AND HAVE HIM ARRESTED!!! YOU WILL ALSO NEED TO FIND A SAFE PLACE, IF HE IS ARRESTED, AND IF HE BAILS OUT OR IS RELEASED ON HIS O.R., YOU COULD STILL BE IN DANGER. AFTER HE BEAT YOU, I KNOW THAT THE SEX WASN'T CONSENSUAL, THAT IS RAPE!!! HE COULD AND NEEDS TO BE LOCKED UP FOR A VERY LONG TIME FOR WHAT HE DID TO YOU!
PLEASE LET US KNOW THAT YOU ARE SAFE .
2007-01-12 12:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋