That's bullsh!t. He needs food, shelter, and clothing.....not sex. Sex is not a need, it is a selfish desire. Sex my be needed for procreation but absolutely NOT for individual survival. Men who are hateful to women for not having sex with them are SELFISH BUTTWIPES!!! That's the truth!
2007-01-12 04:30:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well sex is the key to self boost is like a drug that makes you feel better and i know if my husband wasnt able to give me sex at least 10 times a week i would be asking for a divorce, not being selfish but honest because i believe if you can get it at home you might be getting it or thinking of getting it somewhere else****
2007-01-12 04:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Actually SEX is a very integral part of marriage. When a couple has sex there is a release of the hormone Androgen for men and Estrogen for women. It is the release of these hormones that give people the feeling of connecting and feeling close. If a couple isn't having sex regularly then there is a "distance" that quickly develops and while they are married ; there just isn't the intimacy between the two that bonds them together. It is one of the reasons it makes it easy to be with someone outside of the marriage.
Now does this mean the wife or husband should quickly use it as an excuse . Absolutely not. However, barring any medical condition on either side then a lack of sex within a relationship is a sign that the marriage is in trouble.
If you don't get sex from your mate then who should you be getting it from?
There are physical, psychological, and emotional reasons for having it.
Often a person who isn't satisfied in the bedroom becomes irritable and angry.
2007-01-12 04:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
SEX is very important in marriage. I think the problem is men want and need it more often than the majority of women. What men don't understand is that they would get more sex from their wives if they first gave some tenderness to their wives. I don't OWE my husband sex; i want to give it up but how about some verbal forplay, touching and tenderness thru out the day? This get in bed and go at it without any show of love beforehand sucks!
2007-01-12 08:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by wnn_vrt 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow! How much fun R U 2 B around?
If sex wasn't important then marriages that have infidelity issues wouldn't end up in divorce.
Of course it's important. If a man's own wife doesn't make him feel like a man then she just opens the door for another woman to welcome him.
You are playing with fire. Sex seeks individual satisfaction but it does so by trying to please the other person.
Maybe you are going through a physical change or are depressed. Get some help.
2007-01-12 05:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by AVA 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Man does not NEED shelter or clothing to survive...But the human race does need food and sex to survive. It's got nothing to do with marriage.
2007-01-12 04:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Part of a marriage is sex. How do you think a family is created? Both a man and a woman need food, shelter and clothing, but in order to show your your love for one another a part of it is sex. Try it sometime and your anger should be relieved.
2007-01-12 04:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are in need of an orga__sm more than a sailor who has been at sea for a year.
What happened to you in your life that you have such a twisted angry view of something that is beautifully shared between people dedicated to one another that you make it sound like a chore? Lack of desire for sex and angry outbursts are often signs of depression.
2007-01-12 05:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by kane 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. Sex is a VITAL part of a marriage or relationship. Its what humans were made to do. Its built into our brains. Just because he wont technically die without sexual contact, if you arent having sex with your husband, youre risking alot of things, like letting the marriage fizzle. him finding it somewhere else, you losing that intimacy with your partner.
If you are having a low libido or dont feel like ever having sex, contact a doctor. Again. Sex is one of the pillars that holds a marriage together.
I suggest counseling and a doctor visit. He can help you have a libido again.
2007-01-12 04:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Men don't hate women who don't have sex with them.
They may hate women who demand they promise to never have sex with anyone else, then refuse to have sex with them.
When I got married, I signed on for monogamy, not celibacy.
You know what, having a husband is a want not a need. But if you want to have one, you NEED to consider his wants as well.
2007-01-12 06:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Sounds like you're just venting your opinion. (A pretty dense opinion at that.) Sex is a need for many, perhaps it just isn't a need for you.
And what do you have against physical affection anyway?
I feel so sorry for you... you are so very sad.
(p.s. I don't condone hatefulness from anyone... you should see all the hatefulness in your post)
2007-01-12 05:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋