a boy yes,...
a real man no.
2007-01-12 04:27:17
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answer #1
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answered by iroc 7
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I, dated and married a woman that allready had 2 boys. We, together had 2 girls. The perfect family. Right? Wrong!
The ex was a worthless piece of s**t. Never received a dime of child support from him. Had nothing but aggravation from the boys (so much for grateful) and the wife/mother has done everything in her power to shove the fact that I made the choice, up my a** for the last 16 yrs.
I, only have 4 yrs. and 6 mos. until my baby turns 18. I'm F'ing out, legitimately.
So, to answer the question. Any man who gets involved with any woman who has 4 kids is a fool. Who cares if she's beautiful!!!!! The sex can be the best he has ever had, but it always gets put off because of the kids and life. So, there honestly is no reason for a man to give up his life for you or your kids.
Hope this was'nt to blunt. But, you asked the question.....
2007-01-12 04:43:28
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answer #2
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answered by wedged15 2
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It depends on the man. I wouldn't want all the hassles involved with dating someone with 4 kids, not to mention she's single and has 4 kids. There's a moral issue at play here too. But, that's just my opinion. Some other guys may jump at the chance, but I suspect that they would be in the minority or just think they can get a piece of a s s quick.
2007-01-12 04:30:05
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answered by [><] Rebel 3
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I had continually had a rule to not date a woman no remember how smoking warm she is, if she had little ones, a minimum of while i exchange into youthful. I continually feared that no remember how "jointly" a woman would look, that she exchange into continually finding to not get a guy for herself, yet to get a father for her little ones. not purely that, yet that woman is often going to place her little ones over you. i'm not announcing that's a bad element. i've got faith that would desire to be the way a single mom is. even although, that variety of element merely isn't for me. If I had little ones too, that's a various tale. for my section it merely wasn't "truthful" if i exchange into putting her first, and he or she exchange into putting her baby first. that's a contest that i wouldn't in any respect win and it can be a relentless resource of strife. I did destroy my rule and that i dated a single mom as quickly as. regrettably I had a bad experience and each thing I feared could happen, did happen. So it did not paintings out. at a similar time as that would have been only one remoted incident, I chosen to not hit upon the issue ever returned. i'm hoping this helps.
2016-10-19 21:06:50
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answered by ? 4
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It depends solely on whether the guy in question is a man or a little boy looking for his long lost MOTHER. And if the man won't date her because she's got kids, he's not good enough for her in the first place.
2007-01-12 04:28:39
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on the man. My uncle married a woman who had 2 sons, one with cerebral palsy.
It's been 10 years and now they have had 5 more children together.
2007-01-12 05:25:09
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answered by Anonymous
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He going to be a afraid to get involved because is a big commitment but, if he really wants to be with her in his feeling involved he going to be with her no matter what!
2007-01-12 04:31:27
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answer #7
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answered by J@Y 2
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I would. I am a single father, so children aren't an issue to me. Just the personality. Good luck, you'll find someone.....or they'll find you.
2007-01-12 04:29:07
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answered by jirstan2 4
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Depends on if he's a good guy and really interested or not, but there is a man out there for you, just cause you have kids doesn't mean you don't desirve love......
2007-01-12 04:27:46
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answered by Jess B 2
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yeah as long as you don't come off as looking for a father for them... I think that would be very intimidating. Also be honest from the start... don't wait to tell, that starts the relationship off on the wrong foot (plus their initial reaction will tell you a lot)
2007-01-12 04:28:32
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answered by flawed broadcast 3
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I wouldn't. There is no way of being a priority to her, the kids will always come first.
2007-01-12 04:28:16
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answered by boredperv 6
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