My husband wants to have sex all the time, If i get undressed or bend over he sais it turns him on. He claims he would never ever want anyone else, but how much he wants it worries me.He tells me he thinks i am realy hot ans sexey and my actions do it to him.
What is too much,we are almost 30 and have been together for 10 yrs. Should i worry?
2007-01-12 04:54:54 · 25 answers · asked by danceteacher5555 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need too worry the day he doesnt do that to you any more, for now that is fine****
2007-01-12 04:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy that you've been together for 10 years and he still wants you and desires you the way he does. I think that's a VERY good thing. I would be worried if he didn't want to be intimate and if he didn't find me sexy and attractive. If his sexual drive is too high for you, then just talk to him and come an agreement of how many times a week. He sounds like he's still very much in love with you, so I'm sure he'll understand. I wouldn't make him wait too long though. Just enjoy it girl!!
2007-01-12 13:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you a reason to worry about his fidelity to you? Being horny for your spouse after 10 years is a good thing. By itself, I wouldn't worry. If you have more than just a nagging feeling (that is evidence, not suspicion: lipstick on his collar, another woman's perfume in his car), then you'll want to talk to him about it. But if he's just really into you, go have lots of sex, and enjoy!
2007-01-12 13:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal, your husband has a stronger sex drive and libido than you, that's why you feel like he wants to have sex all the time. The fact that you've been together for ten years and he's still hot for you, you should enjoy and bask in his love and desire for you.
2007-01-12 13:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is a possibility that he's addicted to sex.
But most likely, he's just a normal red-blooded man who wants sex all the time.
If you're concerned about it talk to him about it. And if you are not comfortable with having to have so much sex, then refuse.
2007-01-12 12:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should worry about worrying...
If you start telling him his desire for you is too much, and you start rejecting his advances, then you'll have created your own worries. Be warned.
Do you think you'd have less to worry about if the opposite was true of your hubby? If he told you you no longer turned him own? If seeing you naked didn't tuen him on? I don't think so.
Be happy with your affectionate hubby.
2007-01-12 13:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any need for you to worry......I think it is great that he is still that attracted to you after 10 years. My husband is the same way with me and I love it.....Most of my friends are worried about their husbands not wanting them anymore..........so see, we are the lucky ones. Just one tip.......make sure you keep him satisfied and then he will have no need to look elsewhere
2007-01-12 13:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky. Just keep on boinkin' . After 10 years most couples do not have this kind of energy.
2007-01-12 13:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy that your husband sees you this way. A lot of married women would love for their men to tell them what your husband tells you. I wouldn't worry.
2007-01-12 12:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl HELL NO! Your husband is STILL attacted to you after ten years. Still thinks your sexy...and still wants to make love to you. You better be greatful. He just wants you! At the age of 30...you start to gain a little...and kinda look unattractive...but you girlfriend....you got it goin on!
2007-01-12 12:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good he wants u! U should take as much as u can! Men slow down over 40 .some earlier! Yeah macho guys u do slow down,U lose the lead in your pencil.........
2007-01-12 13:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋