i've been nervous if i go near to any girl exept the one that i know already like class mate. but other girls i tend to be so nervous. how do you handle that?
2007-01-12 04:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
GIve your life to God. WE are nothing without God and everything with him. Greater is he who lives in you than he who lives in the world. God comes to build us up, Satan wants to tear us down. Follow God and he will build you up.
2007-01-12 05:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My key advice for you is: Start small, be consistent.
When you approach a girl, try telling yourself that your key objective is simply to get to know the girl (and not to get laid on!).
Start small, in a subtile way, such as asking the girl what she does as a living, her favorite hobbies, where she go to school, etc. You could also "show off" your abilities by sharing your knowledge, your talent, etc. Then, when you feel that you are being liked, you could actually accompany her to her favorite activities.
The key thing to remember is to not stress yourself for these simple things. Keep in mind that there are roughly the same number of males than females in the world. Therefore, if your approach to the first girl doesn't work, try another girl you like.
I wish you the best!
2007-01-12 13:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
romance and all that britney spears stuff should be the last thing on your mind. try to have fun with them. you shouldn't be thinking of hitting the bases as well.
pretty much just talk to them. have fun. don't think about bringing them home later or whetherr she likes you or not. you are already out in the public, just have fun while you're at it. they'll see it and they'll flock towards you.
say to yourself- "I'm here to have fun."
Do something exciting prior to meeting girls. Go workout in a gym or do some push-ups. it will bring out the tiger in you. if you're somewhat tired, you'll be relaxed. you'll get a good high when you work out. use that high to be calm and relaxed around girls.
2007-01-12 13:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by james b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be nervous. We are only human. Take a deep breath and always keep eye contact. Talk to her like she is already one of your friend. Be real and dont try those lame pick up lines. Be yourself first and foremost and if the ***** doesnt except it.Walk. Dont immitate the way others guys get girls their way doesnt always mean your way. Just be you. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-12 13:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by MZ.NEZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose weight and get buff. Forget girls. You will be so busy concentrating on yourself that the girls will come to you. One thing that girls are subconsciously attracted to is guys who are self-centered and cocky. Often this is mistaken for "confidence".
It's a catch 22. As long as you want a girlfriend, you will never get one. But as soon as you decide that you don't need one, they will show up on your doorstep in droves.
2007-01-12 13:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run through a few ugly chicks and even a fat chick or two. that way you can work the kinks out. another option is to get good at sports or play guitar.
2007-01-12 13:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by therernonameleft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY way is to walk up tp a different person eachday and say hello
2007-01-12 13:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well from a girls point of view:
I think you should talk to the girls that you know and get used to that and then try to bring up intresting things when talking to other girls.
2007-01-12 13:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.
and stop wanting so much. try a little less needy,..and let life start coming to you. You need to create something to offer,..the girls will notice this.
2007-01-12 13:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go to them, wid whom u r nervous. Just b wid ur friends.
2007-01-12 13:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋