Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

A hot guy who is an ***
Or a average looking guy who is nice?

2007-01-11 02:04:03 · 8 answers · asked by korn_issues_29 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:03:57 · 33 answers · asked by glenn c 2 in Weddings

when they start a new relationship, And why does their new mate feel they know the facts? R they ASSUMING & WHY?

2007-01-11 02:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by Toni M 2 in Family

First let me start by saying I am in no way bashing women. I'm just asking if women's independence affected how a women is treated or how she treats her spouse in a relationship? Could this be a reason why the divorce rate has increased over the last several decades?

2007-01-11 02:02:45 · 10 answers · asked by tHEwISE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am guy . I am planning to get married at the age of 33 .Because I want to enjoy certain things in life , establish a very strong career/business ,etc. What do you think ? Is it late ?

2007-01-11 02:02:38 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf split up for good last week, i always thought we were just gona have a bit of time apart n then get back. i was really missing him so last night i drove to his house to see him and he let me in and said we defo cant b together no more. but he grabbed my hand and took me upstairs. i was cryin so much cos i cant imagine my life without him. but i was tryin to talk to him as i didnt want to go round for sex, but he kept telling me to stop talkin and had sex with me, i was cryin as this was happenin cos all i cud think was this is gona b some other girl in his bed in a few weeks. he didnt use anything but didnt *** up me but he knows im not on any contraception as i only had a miscarriage a few weeks ago. after we had sex i went to the toilet, then went downstairs and he had my shoes, coat and bag waiting, he said 'my mates gona b home in 10 mins so u better go' i was so so so hurt, i felt so used. but this has been building up for ages, he wasnt there for me wen i was pregnant. but i love him so much i didnt wana get over him. but all i can think of is him with sum1 else, sleepin about, havin another gf, doin everything he did with me with sum1 else. i want to get it out my head but it makes me feel sick knowin he will b sleeping with other people. he moved into his new house with his mate 3 weeks ago, he knows how much i hate livin at home and he didnt even offer, after bein together 2 yrs. we have been through so much together. so i know he has his own place with his mate and i know what he will be doing and its killing me, i cant eat or anything, please help!

2007-01-11 02:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I get out of this bad mood? First off, I'm at work. I hate my job. My boyfriend is being a jerk. It's freezing in here. I owe money on my taxes again. I'm tired and last but not least, I'm pregnant and my clothes are starting to not fit! Help cheer me up!

2007-01-11 02:01:34 · 6 answers · asked by Rosie aka Rosie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I first met him we got on the conversation that he is really shy around girls, then we started flirting alot with each other I felt like there was a mutual attraction with us, but never thought anything past that point because I wasn't sure how to read him, I'vs been out of this whole dating thing for years. Then one day he called me outside of work and asked me if I have ever thought of him outside of a work relationship we talked for a while and he kissed me, I thought we had a real connection, and we started talking daily, when I brought up the fact that I liked him more than a friend, he told me that right now he has alot on his plate and the most he can offer me is a friendship, but he wants to get to know me better, but he continues to call me daily and we talk about everything, I mean we have great conversation and have alot of fun together, when I ask him about him kissing me and explained to him that I don't go around kissing people he tells me that he doesn't either.

2007-01-11 01:59:15 · 12 answers · asked by Brandy 1 in Singles & Dating

On myspace, this one gurl posted a picture of him and her on his page.. and my bf tells me that they both work together..!! should i trust him not to cheat on me since he lives in cali and i lived in Georgia.... it's a long distance relationship.. what do you think??
- should i go and see him in february for valentine??

2007-01-11 01:58:55 · 30 answers · asked by miss_xiong03 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My step-dad and my mom bought my brother a brand new 2007 Harley Davidson, knowing I have a p.o.s car and I am going to work everyday and school at night with a baby, they refused to help me even get my car fixed. They know I don't have the money to get it fixed right now because I am paying off student loans and such. Buying diapers and all the baby needs. Do you think its fair that they told me to suck it up and deal with it. Heck, he hasnt even been living with us for 2 weeks and as soon as he got here they went right down to H.D. He doesnt have a job and then he wants to drive my car all reckless like. I dont think its fair. Knowing my situation they turned me down in a quickness.

2007-01-11 01:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you was in a relationship, and the passion was over whelming that it was so great, but the two of you where so much alike it made you argue all the time, would you still keep it going becouse of the passion ?

2007-01-11 01:58:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pour pepper into their eyes or just use the good old scratching out tecnique?

2007-01-11 01:58:03 · 21 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Friends

Are dating web sites doomed with the persona that they are for the freaks and leftovers of the world or is it that those who are genuinely seeking friendship/relationships to afraid to register because of the persona and everyone’s opinion on them?

Are bebo, my space and you tube the new dating agencies for the next generation?

2007-01-11 01:57:51 · 12 answers · asked by armadiloes 1 in Singles & Dating

To cut a long story short: I broke up with my boyfriend because he was always with his friends, never rang etc, then we met up to see where wanted to from here. I told him i didnt come to get with him, just came to sort things out, so he flipped and said 'so you dont want to be with me?'...Then said he couldnt be with me because there was too much hurt and couldn't stand it if i finished with him, then said 'How could you smile at that kid when i wanted it all with you, it hurts me'. He was crying constantly, and could barely look at me. So i exepted the fact he couldnt see a future with me. I havent contacted him...then on monday, he msged me on MSN saying he feels like **** and asked if we could talk, so i asked about what, he said how you are etc. Then the next day he did the same again, but saying he's not good, and that he's fucked things up, and he's weak, i made him strong...then 'Im so sorry Kay. I will love you forever'. Left it at that. Then he text my mum yesterday saying...

2007-01-11 01:54:39 · 19 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 01:53:45 · 36 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 01:53:37 · 20 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

About a month and a half ago I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and I have been on meds ever since. My problem is is that I am leading myself to believe that I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. When this all started I wasnt attracted to him or anything, and couldnt stand anything he did although I needed him around. Now the problem is getting better I am now attracted to him again but still the little things are driving me crazy. I want to know if I love him or not. I still trust him, and do nice things for him I still want to hang out with him and care about him I just cant feel love. Before this all happened (actually 4 days before this all happneed) I wrote him a list of 101 reasons why I loved him....Now I look at the list and I know that I felt that way but I cant get those emotions back.

Do you think I have fallen out of love with him or is it just my anxiety that is making me think these irrational thoughts. I want then to go away!!! I want to love him again!

2007-01-11 01:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well, my ex-gf and I have got a complicated story ...and we had to break up ...I was obliged to let her with another guy ...It's been a while since I haven't talked to her (approx) one month ..but, recently she called me , just to say hi ...and on the internet she initiated the conversation to chat , and when I am about to go she is still saying , ok, talk to you later (in the night ) ...but, yet, she has a new boyfriend, but continue to ask me adivces in some areas of her life and still tell me things as when we were together ...!! she 's at ease talking to me ..she has no prob ..but, for my part, I am still can't talk to her on a friendship basis, because, I have feelings for her ...but , I wonder how can she talk to me at ease ? is it because, she doesn't have feelings anymore and she talks to me like she can talk to a friend ? I'm a little lost ...what should I do ?

2007-01-11 01:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

im like the pretiest girl in school. i know so cuz everyone tells me n like all these guyz wanna date me n all these girlz wish they looked like me. I know im hot, and i like to hang out with other ppl who are good looking 2. im kinda friends with this one girl, shes nice but shes sorta ugly so i dont think i should be her friend nemore. how do i tell her to leave me alone? im not stuck up or nething i just know i look good. trust me if u could see me ud probably be like omg. i should be a model but my mom wont let me. neway how do i tell her to go away cus shes too ugly without hurting her feelings.

2007-01-11 01:49:08 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

especially after ive been hurt so many times?

2007-01-11 01:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by darkness 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay my husband of 1 yr always always asks me these types of questions..

Am I the best you have ever had?
Do you love me more then anything in the entire world?
Am I the best in bed?

How do I answer these questions.. I am on my second marriage I was married before to be honest I loved my ex husband AT THE TIME just as much.. and come on I have been with other people in the bed... who cares if they were better... the fact is Im happy with him and thats why I am with him.

Here's my question though... How do I answer these.. I I say look hun I love you more then anything now.. but I did love as much in the past he gets all mad and throws a fit... Soooo whats a good answer to give him when he acts like this??

2007-01-11 01:48:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 01:47:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have known this guy for quite a while (hes 24, i am 21). We have just begun going on a few dates and i really care about him.....but... i also know his past. He has been with some real skanks, ...and im using the term lightly, and has done a lot of crazy things . He's a great guy but hasn't made the smartest decisions. We both come from high class families and he knows i am the "classiest" hes been with.


should i risk being with him?

2007-01-11 01:47:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everything was ok with my sister in law and I when I was pg and then I moved in with her brother and after the baby we decided to get married she tired to make every deisions in my wedding I told her nicely that I wanted to make some deisions and she got all mad. since then she has treated me badly. She lets her son shove hit and push my son. Her son is 5 mine is 1 years old. If I ask her son to stop her and her husband gets all upset and yells at me but If my son pinches her son she smakes his hand and tries to disapline him. I don't know what else to do I have tried being nice I have tired ignoring her but the comments and being mean to me and only calling when she NEEDS something or to BRAG about something. Any Ideas on what to do?

2007-01-11 01:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there is this guy that i like and he likes me but i just found out that his ex is pregent and i really like him alot but ido not kno whati should i do??? he does not know that i know and i am scaredto tell him...and wroter him a ltter tellin him that maybe we should judt friedsn buti want to be so much more than that....plz help

2007-01-11 01:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by brittany w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 01:46:18 · 6 answers · asked by Chabacano 4 in Family

say you are walking some where or working in some place, and this guy is checking you out (by looking at your figure). do girls like that or no? honestly answer please.

2007-01-11 01:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 01:45:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

went on his myspace and he has all these things on it, about how girls are evil and a lyric saying 'cry me a river *****' we were fine when we were together he broke up with me out off the blue saying he didn't feel the same, last week he sent a text 2 me saying ' whats your problem' i've had no contact with him what does he mean? he was the one who dumped me on msn!! his friends also told me to unblock him as he wants to talk. but he really hurt me i would have done anything for him. what is he up to what does he want? why is he doing this now a month later? HELP!

2007-01-11 01:45:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i are very happy together, but i just don't know her turn on 'spots. the sex is good anyways but i'd like to give her that little extra. So, what gets you going?

2007-01-11 01:45:00 · 5 answers · asked by changonyx 1 in Singles & Dating