Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

which one u found more pleasure or better. sex before marriage or After?

2007-01-11 02:18:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can I cope with my post-Christmas overdraft ?

2007-01-11 02:18:51 · 13 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm now wheelchair bond and my love life is at all time low.
my wife now has tons of male friend and weekends party til 4 or 5am. never did before I got hurt.

2007-01-11 02:18:49 · 10 answers · asked by Microb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 02:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at the gym at the jogging tracks yesterday. We flirted a month ago. We exchanged a short conversation then continued on with our jogging. As I was jogging pass her.... to say hello again... she looked at me, shyly smiled back, and then inverted her gaze downwards while still holding that smile.

Ladies: When you invert your gaze downwards... is that signaling that you like the person? How about downwards then away? Or how about blinking a lot? I heard that blinking alot signals shyness?

2007-01-11 02:17:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:17:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has worked for a while in some other town, and in this time she become very independent. She explain me that she dont want to live with me annymore, and afther few weeks she decided to come home and now she claim that she love me and she want to spend the rest of his life toghether.
We have a nice kid toghether, and we love him very much; i have serious doubts about shees feling and i suspect the only reason to commeback is that she want to be cloose to our child.
What do you think about that ladies? Is that possible to change your fillings so radically and go back in such ashort time to?

2007-01-11 02:15:34 · 16 answers · asked by Nicolaie S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Question inspired by an answer I just read in which someone called a family member an out-and-out loser...

2007-01-11 02:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Family

And what is a reasonable amount of time to make him wait without being a tease You know for all the respectable kind of reasons
I'm not talking about one night stands they are different.

2007-01-11 02:14:46 · 4 answers · asked by laura 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:13:42 · 17 answers · asked by shreyas 2 in Family

Do you like the last name Beverly or Betancourt (pronounced the way it's spelled)???? Me and my friend are trying to figure out who has the prettiest name.

2007-01-11 02:13:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I haven't seen him in a year, what are some things that we can do where he won't be tempted to drink? I could take it or leave it..I don't care about not having alcohol...I just want to be supportive.

2007-01-11 02:12:39 · 17 answers · asked by skybelle24 3 in Friends

A co-worker asked me this:

Her boyfriend's cousin is having a Bridal Shower on Saturday. It was mentioned to her in passing at a Chritmas gathering. The invitations were mailed out in early december and she did not receive one. Her boyfriend is telling her that she is supposed to go. She says that she never got an invitation and no one followed up with her to ask her if she was coming, or to tell her if/where the bride to be is registered. So, if she were to show up, or call to ask about it, she may be inviting herself to the shower.

She is fine with it if she was not invited. She also does not want to invite herself.

I agree with her and told her she would be inviting herself. I believe that if paper invitations were sent out and she did not get one, then she wasn't invited. AND if she were invited, someone would be following up on those who did not RSVP to find out if they are going.

Is the boyfriend right, or are we right?

2007-01-11 02:12:33 · 24 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

2007-01-11 02:12:09 · 14 answers · asked by VK1960 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am only 16, but have fallen badly for a 30 something guy, if he feels the same what are the problems?

2007-01-11 02:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl, i have already asked her out this is what she said...
"look u r one incredible guy.. but i am comfortable being a very good friend of urs.." now she says...she is not ready for a relationship her answer will be the same... even thiugh i didnt ask her again..????

2007-01-11 02:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Henry 2 in Singles & Dating

See i told him about a month ago that i liked him, yet he still hasn't told me how he feels. I don't want to ask him cause he may think i'm rushing him to tell me, but he seems to want to tell me something, it's just, kinda like he don't quite know how to tell me.. what do i do???

2007-01-11 02:11:22 · 6 answers · asked by kylie w 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone love you and care for you, they won't break up with me at 1st place?maybe he just use me

2007-01-11 02:11:14 · 19 answers · asked by Confuse Lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am talking about women who are both tall and big in the right places. I also dig broad shoulders.

2007-01-11 02:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by Enigma 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:10:19 · 20 answers · asked by neha a 1 in Singles & Dating

I've tried everything with her...and I've given her a million speeches about how worried I am about her, and how dangerous it is to be doing what she's doing...but nothing helps. She is a musical person, so I'm thinking if I can find the right song, and get her to listen to it..it may say something that I have not been able to think of..and possibly get her to open up to me, and let me try to help her. She's been an addict, to pretty much any drug she can get her hands on (mostly alcohol) for almost 10 years...and I can't stand by and watch her kill herself anymore. This is my last resort...please help.

2007-01-11 02:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 in Family

My husband wants me to disown my family that doesn't want to accept us. I agree with him to a point, but don't think it's fair to our son that he be treated as if he didn't matter in this. They don't want to come to my house for any event... not even my son's b-day parties each yr. Yet, they can travel out of state on a whim to do their hobbies...Is that right? Fair??

2007-01-11 02:09:12 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

Ok, so I have a really crapy job, I have a crappy car, and I live with my parents, I go to school at night, so im very very busy. I usually can deal with all that, I know that I cant get a new job, or move out until I finish school, so for the most part im ok with my life. My boyfriend on the other hand, has a nice car, his own condo, and the best job with the nicest boss in the world. Lately he has been moping around and complaining about a lot of little things. For example, he complains how messy his apartment is, when I say “so clean it” he gets all mad at me. So like I said before, I can usually deal with everything ok, but with all his depression and complaining on top of everything else, it pushes me over the edge. I cant take it anymore, and now I feel complexly miserable and hopeless about everything. How can I snap out of this, and also help my boy friend to not be so sad all the time?

2007-01-11 02:08:45 · 10 answers · asked by lapreller 2 in Singles & Dating

if you get on and read my other questions u'll know wat i'm talking about i broke up with him and i don't feel anywhere near as bad as i should

2007-01-11 02:08:36 · 8 answers · asked by LOVE YOU 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with this girl for 15months, and i actualy think i love her, she is amazing, and understands everything. a short time intothe relationship we had sex. it was my first time, but she had done it before, with her ex-boyfriend who we are (unfortunately) in regular contact with. i am jealous of this intamacy that they shared, and would give everything to have shared it with her instead of him. the problem is, the more i love her in other aspects of our relationship, the more i grow to hate this fact. things regularly remind me of it, and i can't get it out of my head, it upsets me so much that i physically hurt myself to block it out, whenever i think about it. recently i keep considering suiced to escape thinking about it. i have never tried, but i get more tempted each time.
it may be melodramatic but its how i feel. what can i do?

2007-01-11 02:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by A guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can people say that! just wait and u'll find a girl. i dont believe them its just some positive reinforcement and they hear it on tv so they gotta say the ****. oh and some girls told me that if i become friends with girls and through time they will like me for me and looks wont matter....well guess what? i have TONS of girl friends and they talk so good about me but not one of them will ever be with me....i've tried so ur wrong on that one too. i really wanna know where u girls get these ideas cuz seriously they aren't true and it aggravates me to hear u lie about all this when u know it does not apply to u.

2007-01-11 02:08:24 · 9 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Singles & Dating

I am having a wedding around 6:30 during the month of June in the south. Should I use Citronella or is there something else that doesnt smell as bad? Will lavender keep away mosquitos since it repels fleas?

2007-01-11 02:08:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we more less have our on business, my husband works 24/7, if he comes in the house for 5min. i'm lucky. but let a friend drive up and he has all the time in the world and makes me feel like i'm not worthy of his time. please help i'm clueless....

2007-01-11 02:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by sillygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

his name is luke and ive known him since kindergarden. we havent talked in a while untill like 7 weeks ago and now all we can do is talk! and yesterday we were doing a worksheet and he wasnt looking @ my worksheet but he was looking @ me and so i looked up at him and he was staring me right in the eye and i smiled @ him and he blushed and smiked back he ALWAYS laughs @ all my jokes. i caught him staring @ me like at least 7 times yesterday and when he walks by me he never says hi but he smiles and looks like dead stright in my eye.. so does he like me?

2007-01-11 02:04:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am currently very much in love with my boyfriend. we have been together for just 1 month and a half. i think it is kinda a short period of time. He is living with his new friend in new place and it happen that his new friend like me. He used to like me long time ago but he didnt have the chance to tell me. what a small world. My boyfriend know about it and he think that his friend will not do anything about it but after i meet him and his friend today, his friend start calling me every hour. He did it secretly. But i did tell him that i will not accept his love for me cuz i am already taken. But he say it is okay for him to be one-sided. then i kinda pity him so i tell him that he can call me anything but just secretly. He is also a very good friend to my boyfriend.

what should i do?
what if my boyfriend found out that we been secretly talking on the phone?

2007-01-11 02:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating