If someone love you and care for you, they won't break up with me at 1st place?maybe he just use me
2007-01-11 02:11:14 · 19 answers · asked by Confuse Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Could be that he feels he made a mistake or he could be looking to you for a booty call. If you are not sure but want to give it another try, do so without giving in to the intimate part of the relationship until you know what his intentions are.
2007-01-11 02:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, sometimes. People do things, to hide their true feelings. If you feel that your heart isn't totally into the relationship or even that you've wronged your partner in some-type of way. Some people find leaving as an easier way out then hurting you. If you feel the relationship is worth repairing then hear him out. Meet in a public place, where you feel comfortable... In other words you can control... Where your able to hear each other out without the sexual temptation..
2007-01-11 02:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Toni M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know if say the same thing too. i was with him he broke up with me and married someone for at least three months. while they were together he said that he was still thinking about me and stuff, so he got an annulment and decided to come after me again. now he is saying all kind of things to me such as , he made a mistake, he is sorry, he still loves me , and that he will not let me be with somebody else. he swore on his life that the day he hears that i 'm getting married or being engage to somebody will not be a simple day. can u believe them now because i don't .
2007-01-11 02:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answer your own question.
He keeping his options open in case no other lady would like to do for him as you have done.
If he being scared off because of cultural difference - its his make your mind up time, but this would indicate he doesn't really love or care for you enough to overcome if this is the problem.
You don't have to do as you are told - what your gut tells you or indicates is probably the right answer.
Do the right thing for YOU - because you are worth it.
2007-01-11 02:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really give much details.... If he's courting you again (taking you out, treating you nicely, not putting any pressure on you) then he might be trying to win you back.
HOWEVER if you hook up and kiss/have sex but dont go OUT or do things together, he's totally using you.
Personally i think its normally just bad habits- people break up and then can't remember what they did when they were single so, out of habit, keep seeing their ex's.
Is he making you happy? Honestly? If not, keep your distance!!!
2007-01-11 02:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by spagbolfordinner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question. Maybe he just use me. So you are still giving him sex, course he still comes back for more, make sure he does not give you something else. Stop letting him use you.
2007-01-11 02:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he did or maybe you could have been a bit pushy. try going a little slower next time ,if someone tells you they care after one night then you could be being used
2007-01-11 02:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by julie f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be Good ;) or he realised that he loved you after he split up. You've become a habit or a basic need.
Is trust an Issue?
2007-01-11 02:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by graliv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...he's using you...he's got nothing else to do so he's coming to see you....it will keep happening while you keep allowing it...tell him to sling his hook....find someone who likes you for you and not just as a bootie call....that's all this lad is after and the sooner your acknowledge that the sooner you can get rid of him
2007-01-11 03:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants a good laugh at your grasp of the English language. I know I'll be laughing for a while.
2007-01-11 02:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋