i am currently very much in love with my boyfriend. we have been together for just 1 month and a half. i think it is kinda a short period of time. He is living with his new friend in new place and it happen that his new friend like me. He used to like me long time ago but he didnt have the chance to tell me. what a small world. My boyfriend know about it and he think that his friend will not do anything about it but after i meet him and his friend today, his friend start calling me every hour. He did it secretly. But i did tell him that i will not accept his love for me cuz i am already taken. But he say it is okay for him to be one-sided. then i kinda pity him so i tell him that he can call me anything but just secretly. He is also a very good friend to my boyfriend.
what should i do?
what if my boyfriend found out that we been secretly talking on the phone?
2007-01-11 02:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all he will be very upset when he finds out that not being very honest and if you love ur boyfriend and plan on being with him then you must tell him for the sake of ur relationship. I'm not saying you can't be friends with his roomate or whatever but u need to explain to him that you can only be his friend and nothing more. How would you feel if he you found out he was doin this to you with one of your friends?
2007-01-11 02:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by That girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to end badly one way or the other. Someone is going to get hurt and angry and its not going to be pretty. The right thing to do, pity or not, is tell the friend to back off and wait. You never know what is going to happen between you and your b/f, your b/f and his friend. You are in a relationship. Commit to it or not. Riding the fence is never a good idea. Women are always upset that men wont commit, make a decision, either your b/f or his friend. But you cant do both or it will end bad, very very bad.
2007-01-11 10:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by j m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me you have to end it if you really love your boyfriend...No secrets can be keep forever...and are you ready for the consequences that may come if your boyfriend find out his secret call on you. If this man really like you he should have do his moves before not now that your already taken and hello your boyfriend is his friend. Sometimes we must accept the reality of life no matter how much it will hurt us.
2007-01-11 10:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're leading this guy on and playing games. Don't except his calls and tell him to respect the fact that you and your bf are in an exclusive relationship. By sneaking in secret phone calls you are both lying to you bf. If you are into playing games then you shouldn't be in a relationship, because you relaly are not in love with your bf.
2007-01-11 10:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then i have a strong feeling that you will no longer have your boyfriend. the best thing to do is to tell your boyfriend what is happening and let him deal with it.
2007-01-11 10:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so wrong. You shouldn't do that to your Boyfriend. You need to quit before this goes to another level.
2007-01-11 10:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont drag the guy around on a leesh like a dog knowing he wants you and you dont. thats just wrong. you're heartless
2007-01-11 10:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by V P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to stop that it only take a slip of the tongue and your whole world will come done.
2007-01-11 10:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously stop talking to the other guy
OBVIOUSLY
and stop throwing the word "love" around
2007-01-11 14:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by retired 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST STAY WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND
LEAVE HIS FRIEND ALONE
2007-01-11 10:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋