Ok, so I have a really crapy job, I have a crappy car, and I live with my parents, I go to school at night, so im very very busy. I usually can deal with all that, I know that I cant get a new job, or move out until I finish school, so for the most part im ok with my life. My boyfriend on the other hand, has a nice car, his own condo, and the best job with the nicest boss in the world. Lately he has been moping around and complaining about a lot of little things. For example, he complains how messy his apartment is, when I say “so clean it” he gets all mad at me. So like I said before, I can usually deal with everything ok, but with all his depression and complaining on top of everything else, it pushes me over the edge. I cant take it anymore, and now I feel complexly miserable and hopeless about everything. How can I snap out of this, and also help my boy friend to not be so sad all the time?
2007-01-11 02:08:45 · 10 answers · asked by lapreller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend like this. Shes always depressed and being around her brings me down whenever I'm in the best moods. I try to cheer her up when shes like that and it doesnt work. Maybe something is going on his life right now that you dont know about. As for your life, you have a car, a place to live and are getting a higher education so I'd actually consider you better then most. I'm 20 live at home, go to school, have a crappy part time job, but I know in a few years I'll move out and have a career. Just remember you have to go through rough times to get to your goal. Good luck.
2007-01-11 02:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you, I have no job, I never finished High School, I have no car, drivers license or money. I live with my parents, I am 21. My boyfriend has a college education at 26, a job, a car and a motorcycle, money, but he also lives with his parents. He gets angry at me when I try to pay my own way to places because he has a job. If you want to stop feeling so sad, tell your boyfriend how sad it makes you, works for me. Tell him you are human and a relationship is an equal partnership. Life is a singular accomplishment, be happy to have it. Seems like your priorities are just a little off, for how bad you have it, someone has it a hell of a lot worse.
2007-01-11 02:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jane B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to have that hopeless feeling. I fight with it everyday, but if your boyfriend is having a real problem with depression and not just a case of the blues then he needs to get help. You are on the right track with school and your dream life will come. Do all that you can and everything else will fall into place. Good luck
2007-01-11 02:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to get up snap out of it and make life work for you.
You have a cappy car, maybe a new paint job is in the works.?
If you have a so called draggy job, find a new job better pay and higher standards...shoot for the best you can do it.
Then you will eventually be a in a nice car, nice job and nice apartment and then nice boyfriend and nice house and your liivng the american dream....notice I left the Rug Rats, Crum Eaters out.They come later........LOL
2007-01-11 02:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time from The BF and do somethings for your self try to relac you already are a smart girl and hjave priorities just relax things will get better
2007-01-11 02:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to put on his big boy undies and deal with life.
Only you can allow someone else to make you miserable - I would not allow anyone in my life that made m feel bad.
2007-01-11 02:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Susie D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you could bang your head on the wall, then you will only think about how bad your head hurts. if that does not help tell the guy to shut his hole and stop crying. i would dump the guy and when you finish college get your own place and a new man.
2007-01-11 02:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another man
2007-01-11 02:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by lovely_1_4da07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend and explain how you are feeling. it always helps to talk.
2007-01-11 02:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move in with him
2007-01-11 02:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by miss.lodge_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋