Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

i have been single for over a year now and havent even seen a man that i have been remotely attracted to. im begining to wonder whats wrong with me!!

2007-01-11 02:49:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy a few weeks ago. Had a nice time, but got a bit too drunk. I've stayed in contact with him and we seem to talk about anything part from the time we went out. I'm of the opinion that he wants to be friends (which I wonldn't mind) so I've been talking to him like a friend and I think he has been doing the same. I've even told him that I was going out with someone else the next night (this was last weekend) I mentioned it was because he never asked me out again (jokingly but it was true!). He said that he does like me but I got a bit too drunk. However, when I was out on my date, he texted me at 1.30 in the morning to see if I was awake. On monday he asked me out for that evening. I couldn't go that night but suggested this Friday instead. Since then I haven't heard a word.

What's going on? I would like to see how things went with him as he's a nice guy and we get on but I wouldn't mind just being friend either.

2007-01-11 02:49:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will all your problems go away or will they stay with you ?

2007-01-11 02:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

mobile conversations

2007-01-11 02:48:54 · 17 answers · asked by concerned 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if i have no doubts, does that mean my gut feeling is correct

i met a girl on a dating site, who is in nigeria, she has malaria and is hospital. and i have had two mail from her mom today.

should i ignore this, because this seems real to me

how can i check thing's out, if this is real and she has malaria, she could die

2007-01-11 02:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently started talking to someone and it immediately became apparent to me that she's an amazing woman. She's so smart, funny, beautiful, endearing, articulate and sweet. She just might be everything I've ever wanted, and we think sorta similarly too.

Well, I'm 27 and I haven't been in a serious relationship in a couple of years... and I guess a byproduct of that is... that I go out almost every night, barhopping, hanging out with my friends like I was still 19.

Well, last night I blew her off to go hang out with my roommate at a bar. I told myself that "giving her some space would be good", but it was probably just to justify my own selfish, immature behavior. Once I got out, I realized what I had done and I immediately regretted it. I missed her, I wanted to hear her voice, she's all I could think about.

I feel like its time to put the kid stuff behind me and grow up. What do you think?

2007-01-11 02:46:25 · 36 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:45:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a girl on the internet a few weeks back. we contact each other constanely. we love each other, because there is a closeness. she is really warm, with the thing's she say's in her e-mails. big problem. she is in nigeria lagos and last weekend, she says she was bitten by a mosquito and has malaria. my friend has done the transaction for me and sent the £300, which was requested for the medical bill. only thing is, her mom mailed me back, this afternoon asking for the money. i have sent all the information, that my friend gave me, this morning and have explained things briefly, to my girlfriend mom. i have sent all the infromation she needs to pick up the money. my close friend died before christmas and i have to fight for her kid's. she want's me to be a guardian to them. what should i do next.

2007-01-11 02:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I have this guy. Who is now the father of my child. We have been in a relationship for over four years. He is currently in jail for child support for other kids of his. I had to go pick up his belongings because he transfered jails. At first I didn't look super close in his stuff. It was mainly all the letters I wrote. Then he asked me to look for a magazine reciept in his stuff. I had to look through all the envelopes. In between my letters were a couple of girls address. To be exact:the return addresses were ripped out and girls name was under the address. Nicole and Angie. Then he recieved a letter from a woman whom I know very well. She was this woman he tried to scam when we first met. Maybe that's too much info. Anyway he kept the letter.
He called back for the magazine info. I then proceeded to yell. He was saying the girls addresses where for men. He proceeded to blatently to lie about the letter. He wrote me and said stop writing get childsupport.

2007-01-11 02:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by LESLIE M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 02:44:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was sitting by myself and typing on my computer when out of nowhere this girl comes up and says do u have msn and would u like my msn i said sure she seemed nervous when she gave it to me i have talked to her before around school u know i would just say hi how are u and thats it we wouldint have cany conversations just that what do u think is going on

2007-01-11 02:44:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have never had a bf and i see all of these girls with bf and in movies everyone is so happy. sometimes i cry about it wondering if it's me or not. maybe something is wrong with me. i'm kinda not pin needle skinny but i like to say more to love but many of my friends have body types like that and have boyfriends and have already lost their virginity. i don't want a bf just to lose my virginity but i just want to be held and kissed and sang to. i sometimes consider surgery bc it would pay for the whole thing but sometimes i like myself just the way i am. maybe it is me or maybe not...Can anyone help me?

2007-01-11 02:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a 5-month year old and have been together for 4 years but I want to get my things together on this end. I want to save up enough money where I live then have enough money to move and do the whole wedding thing. I just don't want to rush moving in with him and feel pressured.

2007-01-11 02:44:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It has been 1 year dat i broke wid my bf. I need someone now. my id is ima_friends_peace@yahoo.com
I need someone Muslim, between the age of 15-16. Will u help me to bring colour in my life again???????

2007-01-11 02:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by || SMI || 3 in Singles & Dating

I have to pay weekly,to my ex-husband for our 3 children.My ex went in front of the judge, and lied on me.Telling him that I never worked,where I did 12-16 hours a day for 9 years ,while he sat at home and did nothing.My attorney said let him have them and will fight tooth and nail for them.Tuesday we go to court,you all cross your fingers,for me.

2007-01-11 02:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Feel more comfortable talking to girls that are holding a beer and wearing a cute tank and jeans, instead of a girl with a fruity drink wearing a skirt and pantyhose. I was just wandering if this is true. My cousin is single and loves going out and I told her that I thought it was a good point, if you can stand the taste of beer.

2007-01-11 02:43:09 · 14 answers · asked by kris10 3 in Singles & Dating

He's turning 40 and we're only supposed to get gag gifts...I have NO idea what to get. HELP

2007-01-11 02:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by bac511 2 in Friends

I am referring more to a steady relationship rather than flings.

2007-01-11 02:42:17 · 42 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Singles & Dating

My father died in a head on wreck on his way to my house in october. I can't seem to get it through my head that he is gone. I didn't cry at the funeral in fact my OCD kicked in and i was at the church 4 hrs before the funeral was to start making sure everything was ok and greet family and friends hold their hands and make sure they were ok. So i haven't dealt with this, i don't cry about it and it makes me feel bad. How do i get it over with? How do i finally greave?

2007-01-11 02:42:11 · 20 answers · asked by acresse1 1 in Family

My fiance sometimes lies in bed and just stares in my eyes for what seems like forever when i start giggling and ask him what he's doing he tells me he's reading a story that he can look in my eyes and see what im thinking and feelen..its sexy to me it shows me he's really interested in me..I was just wondering what everyone else thought.

2007-01-11 02:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:40:28 · 14 answers · asked by melegas_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

So you're making out with this girl on the couch you have her sitting down on your lap kissing and you're about to do more than just making out when suddenly SHE FARTS! I mean you're already feeling all hot and ready to go...do you keep going?

2007-01-11 02:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by Dama 3 in Singles & Dating

A high school girl going to graduate in 07

2007-01-11 02:38:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a sophmore in high school and in the guys eyes i'm either "1 of the guys" the baby of the skool (my sis is a senior and is friends w/every1!) I really like my friend and he just keeps on flirting with me! he treats me like one of the guys just cuz i like sports! so what if i like to play football with them! I'm still a girl and should be recognized! (sp)
what do i do to get his attention? without ruining our friendship and making a compleat idiot out of myself?

2007-01-11 02:37:50 · 13 answers · asked by blair 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 02:37:22 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I filed for support when my son was 9mos old because I resided in a shelter and his father didn't follow through with our verbal agreement. Our son is 8 now. His father just got a job and had a new baby in November of 06. He spent December of 05 till New Years Eve of 06 pretending to love me and living with me, apparently we were working things out. Mind you we have not been together since our son was 9mos old. I fell in love again to find out about this baby. To make a long story short, New years I found out that he was doing all of this boo loving just to get me to drop current child support. We go to court tomorrow and my question is will the courts be lenient on him for current child support (keep in mind he is behind 8yrs) because he has a new baby? You can't help my heart but please help ease my mind. I now have a good job my own place , car everything I need and I make more money than him.

2007-01-11 02:36:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is this a good basis to form a relationship

2007-01-11 02:36:29 · 17 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 02:36:26 · 2 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad lives in California and I live across the globe in Taiwan with my mom. So I guess I need to look into California law..
I feel like moving to California with my dad
How old do I need to be to choose who I want to live with?
I'm 15 now and hopefully I can choose.
Otherwise is there a law that states that after a divorce the father automatically has sole custody of his child?
It would be great if you give me a website too!
Thanks.

2007-01-11 02:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by kitkat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 02:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Marriage & Divorce