how do i find out how my husband is cheating on me?

Question

mobile conversations

mobile conversations, but cant hire a private investigator, i have already confronted him he totally refused to accept , says those r confidential matters tht he is talking to this female who is his employee.....

Answer 1

Watch over her, ...and

Answer 2

A lot of times people ask this question expecting to get an answer that can help them deduce that their spouse is cheating. It's simply not the case. Watching his movements and looking for changes in his personality may give something up but could just as easily be depression or some other emotional problem. If you think your husband is cheating then the only way to really prove it is to see him cheating. Hiring a private investigator is an excellent way, if you have the money and like that sort of thing.

If you want to assume that your husband is cheating on you then you have to make sure it's how you feel. Cheating is a serious problem in a relationship and I've known people who leave their boyfriend/girlfriend thinking they're cheating, when really, they're just having a hard time and need some time to themselves.

Just remember that you're the victim in this and personally, I'd rather stay in the marriage a little bit longer and find out for a fact that my spouse is cheating, than leave and make a big deal over it and find out it might not be true.


Good Luck.

Answer 3

First be sure that you want to know. Sometimes we say we want to know things, then when we find out the answer, we wish we had left it alone. But if you are certain you want to know there are private investigators all over the place that would be happy to help you with that, or you could be a private eye yourself, just be prepared mentally for whatever you find. Hope this helps you out. Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

The only thing I could say to this is become a detective. Investigate. Look at the signs. He is suddenly working late? Do he come right in and jump in the shower b4 he kisses you? Is your sex life going down hill? Is he buying you gifts, maybe guilt? I don't know but these are things that happend 2 a friend.

Or you could just ask him but he'll probably lie if do choose this one.

Answer 5

Can't you check his mobil?

First look for changes in his behavior. He'll either be refuseing sex, or be so sexed up from another woman, that he'll be wanting it more that usual. He'll be showing signs of hiding phone calls, emails, ect.

His actions towards you. Notice any differences. Check pockets, phone records, the history on the computer or even now you can buy that program that allows you to see every key stroke another has done on the computer.

Answer 6

Look for 'signs', such as private phone calls, sudden impulses to go out alone, gone for long periods of time, credit card receipts for hotels, expensive restaurants, etc. If all else fails, confront him or hire a PI.

Answer 7

okay- more importantly
what do you plan to do with that answer?
Before the truth is revealed you need to search you heart and decide the best course of actions for you and your family.

Hire a professional- learn the facts.
Hire a professional- to handle the "facts".
Hire a professional- to handle your emotional health.

Best wishes.

Answer 8

Hire a private eye.

Answer 9

What does your heart, or soul tell you? Has his patterns changed? Please, don't go looking for trouble, cause you will surely find it. Ask him, don't accuse or assume. You'll know if he's lyning through body language, voice tone, and lack of eye contact. Stay as claim as possible. You'll get more bee's with HONEY !

Answer 10

I was marry and my husband cheated on me...yes you can follow him and you can even hirer a private eye....to get right to it if you feel than its true... than I sorry to say it is....now what are you going to do about it?

Answer 11

i'd follow him or go on that show cheaters. or id just flat out ask him and if he says no but there are still suspicions make him do a lie detector test or something.