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Ok. I have this guy. Who is now the father of my child. We have been in a relationship for over four years. He is currently in jail for child support for other kids of his. I had to go pick up his belongings because he transfered jails. At first I didn't look super close in his stuff. It was mainly all the letters I wrote. Then he asked me to look for a magazine reciept in his stuff. I had to look through all the envelopes. In between my letters were a couple of girls address. To be exact:the return addresses were ripped out and girls name was under the address. Nicole and Angie. Then he recieved a letter from a woman whom I know very well. She was this woman he tried to scam when we first met. Maybe that's too much info. Anyway he kept the letter.
He called back for the magazine info. I then proceeded to yell. He was saying the girls addresses where for men. He proceeded to blatently to lie about the letter. He wrote me and said stop writing get childsupport.

2007-01-11 02:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by LESLIE M 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

3 answers

Sweetie. Have some respect for yourself. Also, think of your child. Is that the kind of example you want to give to your child?

Come, on. The child's father in jail, playing with your feelings even from prison. Obviously he doesn't care about his children (including your child). And for what you say, it is also obvious that he doesn't care about you either.

You are better off, finding yourself another person that can be a true father to your child, and a loving HUSBAND for you. Someone who respects you, loves you, and be there for you and your child.

Best wishes.

2007-01-11 02:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by David G 6 · 0 0

sound like a real winner you have got yourself. in jail for child support for his other kids. has girls names and numbers and where are you home looking after your child time to move on. why do you put up with this. life is to short to put up with this loser. you need to get away from this. maybe you dont like to hear this as you may well still love this guy but belive me he is not going to change. good luck

2007-01-11 02:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0 0

Why did you have a kid with this guy in the first place? he sounds like a dirt bag. You can't make him behave he is a sociopath, he belongs in jail forever and you should have your child taken away so he can be raised properly and doesn't grow up to be like his father

2007-01-11 02:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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