is this a good basis to form a relationship
2007-01-11 02:36:29 · 17 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not really....but sometimes it helps..I suppose it depends what you are looking for..in time the spark usually fades anyway.
2007-01-13 20:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the spark comes a little later after the first date nerves wear off. Im getting married this year, when i first met him i didnt feel as spark but thought he was a nice bloke so saw hi again. Second time we went out i have to say i did feel a spark, think perhaps i was too nervous before to see it. Good luck
2007-01-11 10:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people will probably disagree but hear me out. I don't think so. When I met my husband, I thought he was just OK. As the night went on, I started thinking "yeah, I'd like to see him again." My grandparents were the perfect example of this. Just the other day, my grandma (who is 90 and is KNOWN for saying what she thinks) told me "I never told him this (my grandfather passed away a few years ago), but I just didn't think he was that interesting at first. My brother insisted that I give him a shot because he said he was a very nice man, but I thought he was kind of different and I didn't think he was that attractive. But, boy, I found out later that he was quite a gem. He always told me I looked beautiful up until the day he passed, he never forgot my birthday or anniversary, he was always good to me and worked hard so I didn't have to." They were married almost 62 years when he passed.
2007-01-11 10:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't necessarily "need" it, but it would help in determining your level of attraction to that person the first time round.
Sometimes the sparks need a little more time of getting to know each other before they turn into fireworks.
2007-01-11 10:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by jacqvence 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont always need the spark, this can build up over time as you get to know someone better.
2007-01-11 10:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely! Sparks is how it all begins.... It's hard to maintain a relationship if there is no chemistry. You'll be able to tell by the kiss.
2007-01-11 11:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you do not need the spark. It can grow with time as you get to know the person.
2007-01-11 10:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Me! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no not really, i didnt even look twice at the man to become my fiance. But i got to know him and felt the spark when we first kissed and we've been inseparable ever since.
It could be different for other people though.
2007-01-11 10:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by jadey 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarilly but if it is there than you know you're on to a good thing! just look into the other persons eyes and if you feel like nobody else in the room matters and you don't feel the urge to look away then you know you've got it!
2007-01-11 10:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
without the spark there would be no reson for a relationship to start
2007-01-11 10:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋