my boyfriend says he loves me he lives with me but he is very secretive about his phone calls. help?

Answer 1

When a man is secretive about his phone, this means that he is probably cheating on you. He has womens numbers in it.

Answer 2

Best guess he is cheating some how. First question, where is the phone bill? who pays the phone bill? Find it and look at the numbers call the ones he calls all the time you dont recognize. Second, get the software listed below install it on your computer in the house. I am sure he gets online, it will let you read his IM, email, and any web sites he goes too. It sounds bad, but if you suspect and he gets offended when you ask, i have one rule, and it almost always right "The Guilty find the truth to be hard." In other words if he is upset when you ask he is hiding and is guilty. Good luck.

Answer 3

If he's honest, he'd have nothing to hide. Oddly enough, my ex had several girl's numbers, and would use the excuse that they had a car they were selling. I know he changed cars like he changed his underwear, but come on - I'm not quite that naive.

On the other hand, to give him the benefit of the doubt, he may just actually want the privacy. I know many guys get irritated because us girls get all curious and nitpicky about things like that, and we ask too many questions, even about the littlest things. So maybe he just wants privacy to be free from playing 20 questions when he gets off the phone...

Your pick...

Answer 4

Have you ever asked why? Maybe it has nothing to do with you. Maybe it seems secretive to you, but he just doesn't want to have others listening while he is on the phone. Did he act like this before you started to live together? I think the best thing you should do is talk to him. Don't let your mind wonder until you know for sure.
Good Luck

Answer 5

It really depends. Does he spend time with you? Is there a repetitive number on his phone? Does he act like that on every call? Does he goes out alone? Many people may believe he's cheating, but in fact if he lives with you he may feel that he needs his space. WHY? Keep in mind that is not his house. In my case I used to be married for 7 years and I felt UNCOMFORTABLE (not mad) when my ex-wife looked at the incoming number. Nothing in particular just privacy. There are certain things that men would like to claim as a right. In my case I used to have a room for my exercise equipment. It made me uncomfortable when she was in that room. She always though that I had something hidden in that room. Other cases are dome of my friends who feel uncomfortable when her partners go inside the garage, look at their agenda (very common), open the glove box of the car, and things like that. Sit down with him and tell him that his attitudes makes you feel uncomfortable. If the relationship is mature enough he'll be open and tell you what's up with the phone thing. Summing up...If he's taking a particular secret call, if there are repetitive numbers, if he goes out alone and he's not intimate be shure that he MAY be cheatin. But if he is just lacking privacy it may be that he is a territorial person and doesn't feel his space in your house.

Answer 6

There could be several reasons for this. One would be that he is afraid of letting someone be in his life that he feels he has to answer to--it is the male ego thing. He may want to be in control, and with out question. He may be cheating, or playing you, it wouldn't be the first time that it has happened. If he is paranoid about you seeing who is calling, or "looking through" his recieved calls--then I would say it is the latter. Ask him--why do you care so much about my knowing who you are talking too? If he gives you some lame *** answer, or if he blows you off, and gets irritated--he is probably talking to some other girl. You need to talk to him regardless.

Answer 7

He probably does have something to hide but everything done in the dark will eventually comes to the light. Lifes too short and love is tricky sometimes dont snoop through his phone he may seem like the best thing in the world right now but you can have another him in a minute. too the left too the left

Answer 8

I was in a situation similar to that. Since he is living with you in YOUR house, you have every right to go through his phone while he's sleeping. Sounds crazy, but there is absolutely no reason why he needs to be secretive unless he has something to hide. :)

Answer 9

Something doesnt sound right. Him being secretive makes it seem asif he is hiding something. Talk to him about and and ask him why he is so secretive. Im sure every thing will go fine.

~erica~

Answer 10

hes cheating