i have been single for over a year now and havent even seen a man that i have been remotely attracted to. im begining to wonder whats wrong with me!!
2007-01-11 02:49:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the feeling.
Maybe you are setting impossible to meet criterion... your 'dork filter' is set to high!
Perhaps you are still moving in the same old circles... a pond you have all but fished out. Your proverbial North Sea, and the blokes are all cod. Broaden your interests... join a club of some sort. Or do an evening class.... bound to meet lots of blokes on a motorcylce maintanence class (less so for Art History, I fear)
Or maybe you are still recovering from whatever happened to end your previous relationship... that can happen too. And so insidiously - you think that you're over it/her/him/them but.....
So relax. Don't worry.
IF you let them, someone will see your inner beauty.
But watch out for all those darn John Cuzak movies... he makes it seem so easy! All you have to do is be in some kind of mortal jeopardy and your soulmate appears!
hmmm - maybe I should try that one too.... anyone know the number of a good assasin??
Alternatively - you could try one of the proliferating dating sites....
2007-01-11 04:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Colin A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you...just because you've been single for a year..you aren't remotely attracted to anyone because you are not ready to be. Perhaps you are still trying to recover from a previous relationship..it takes time! But i'm sure when you are ready the right man will come along. Just be patient and persistant..and never give up hope..good luck with that
2007-01-11 10:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all (unless your avatar is horribly misleading and you're actually green with orange hair and three legs or something)...
You just haven't been meeting the right guys. Maybe your friendship circle needs extending; are you always hanging out with the same people who you know you don't fancy? Why not try a few new hobbies or something. Salsa can be a great way to keep fit and meet and flirt with a huge variety of interesting people - and you can guarantee they won't be completely unfit as they'll need to be able to move about to dance! I reckon that would boost your confidence and who knows, you might even find Mr. Right.
Why not join a dating agency or two as well, they won't necessarily find you the perfect man, but it could be fun and you never know...
Good luck with the manhunt!
;)
2007-01-11 10:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by SilverSongster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont worry! Enjoy your single life whilst you can. I was in a relationship for 4 years, then split and was single for 2 years! Not to make u feel bad but ive found someone now, it dont happen over night. Be patient ant the right guy will find you hunni.
Good luck x
2007-01-11 11:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually: well done for not taking the first man that comes along! you're absolutely right to be picky, just as long as you remain realistic about the men out there - nobody's perfect. it took me many years of meeting men and having a few not so meaningful relationships until i fell in love again. obviously i hope you'll find your mr.right quicker than i did, but if it takes some time don't despair. keep your eyes open but also enjoy life and the advantages of being single!
2007-01-11 10:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by new-in-town 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost get in touch with your sexual identity. After
you've done that know what it is that you are looking for, and
what for him to come to you. And just for the record, i don't
think nothing is wrong with you, you just haven't been in contact
with the right one for the attraction to occur. Personally i say just give yourself time, and most of all be patient. I promise you your
prince will come you'll see. I know for a fact; after my divorce i
waited for 2 yrs. i prayed about it i wanted a good man. i remarried in 2004. All this time he was less than 30 minutes
away. To this day i feel as though he was sent, and that we were
destined to be together. So my advice to you is to wait, and pray
he'll come, and when he does the attraction you'll feel with be
almost instantatiously.
2007-01-11 11:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by MISS_BROKE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been single for years now but i do not think there is anything wrong with me.I know what you mean about not finding anyone attractive and i think i have become fussier so maybe you have too.I would not be blaming anything on yourself and you will find someone when you least expect to.
2007-01-11 11:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Niamh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it is better to be single than to be dating the wrong man. Being single is great, just wait for the right one.
2007-01-11 11:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by BudLightRocks56954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey your avitar is cute so I guess that you are. I dont think that anything is wrong with you. You just arent around the right guy. I am 25 live in SC and own my own business. You should send me an email macinsc20@yahoo
2007-01-11 10:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are scared.
Of what im not sure.
Not confident? Not attracted to anyone you meet?
Not giving anyone a chance?
It may be you are older now and looks are shallow. Get to know someone - when you meet someone with a good personality - it brings out how cute they are.
2007-01-11 10:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋