i have never had a bf and i see all of these girls with bf and in movies everyone is so happy. sometimes i cry about it wondering if it's me or not. maybe something is wrong with me. i'm kinda not pin needle skinny but i like to say more to love but many of my friends have body types like that and have boyfriends and have already lost their virginity. i don't want a bf just to lose my virginity but i just want to be held and kissed and sang to. i sometimes consider surgery bc it would pay for the whole thing but sometimes i like myself just the way i am. maybe it is me or maybe not...Can anyone help me?
2007-01-11 02:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's okay and normal! Bravo! You should loveyourself.
UNTIL you are over 21 and through college- Put your worries be hind you.
Don't worry- Honey its only Hollywood and most folks are lieing to you about their sex lives and if not- its not the loss of self respect to submit yourself with out love is not worth a "so-so" sex act to say you lost your virginity.
Its not your looks, its just not your time. The perfect expereience and possible "love" is just around the corner. So have fun and learn how to date- not sleep around. Its very fun to meet new and different people and "grow" personally.
Your life- YOUR RULES- Trust yourself. I have faith in you.
2007-01-11 02:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if your still in school i don't think surgery is the answer. if your concerned about your weight and feel this is the reason that you don't have a boyfriend. then step up to the plate. go for walks watch what your eating, things like that. you feel so much better about your weight loss, if you worked hard to get thinner.to me surgery like this is a easy way out. more so for a young girl. now as for the boyfriend,or lack there of. your still young, I'm sure there are going to be plenty of boys that like you, he just has not found you yet. don't worry the right one is out there give it time.im the mean time, if your worried about how you look. step away from the computer and go for a walk. trust me when you have lost the weight your going to feel so much better about it cause you worked at getting there.
2007-01-11 10:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO AND NO. I'm going thru the same as you from a guys perspective. It's not you and don't even think bout plastic surgery. From the context of your question I can see that there really a special person there. I have the same principles as you, kiss and cuddle and dont worry bout sex coz ith will happen when it's right not just because we want to. email me if you wanna chat more or maybe i could just cheer you up a little and maybe restore your self confidence. email at aeromad02@yahoo.com.
2007-01-11 10:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by knight32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that you should get sugery...especially if you like yourself just the way you are...and i really understand where you are coming from...i have had a bf...but i am still not the needle skinny type and the guys i have went out with are true losers...i just wish that i could find a guy who was not such a loser...trust me girl one day you will find someone for you...don't be in a hurry 'cause most guys just want your virginity...trust me hang on to that as long as you can...think of it like this...virginity is like a bubble one prik and its all gone.
2007-01-11 11:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by kristine_star2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your putting to much pressure on yourself , consider your self a unique and special person and continue to remain out on the scene and available till the right person comes along . Don't rush things it will come to you naturally and good things do come to those who wait in my own experience . Good luck to you , I'm sure you will find the happiness you seek !
2007-01-11 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a BF is not all you think that it is. It is not all hugging and kissing. There is a lot of times it is a lot better to be by yourself. You don't have to answer to anyone else but you.
2007-01-11 10:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be in such a rush to have a boyfriend, it only leads to a broken heart and that totally sucks. Make friends with some guys and build from there. There is nothing wrong with you!
2007-01-11 10:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure you are a lovely women just relax a littls some man will come along and cherish you i am sure dont be so upset the man you give your virginity to will treat you like a queen just slow down and relax you have alot of time to grow dont worry im me if you need someone to talk to
2007-01-11 10:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need muscles
2007-01-11 10:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish u find somebody at your own
2007-01-11 10:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋