2007-01-11 02:44:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as long as u really trust him, and he isn't constantly with just her, and if you have met her and you guys sometimes do things all together, then it should be ok!! but if u have any instinct feelings don't let them go!!
2007-01-11 02:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay heres the thin,g, Im a girl and more then half of my friends are guys. To start keep your cool you dont know that there going out and if you love him and want to still be with him and not lose him then okay. Ask him if there is anything between the two of them and dont get angry or jelous!!!! Be calm and relaxed and find out if he still wants to be with you and if he still loves you and if so dont dont dont tell him that he cant hang out with his best friend thats a girl that will only drive him away.
2007-01-11 10:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean they go out? Like, hang out?
If your boyfriend has a friend who happens to be a girl, you're just going to have to suck it up and accept her.
Don't be jealous. Haven't you ever had a friend who was a guy and it was strictly platonic?
Most of my friends are guys and when the odd one gets a girlfriend, he's obligated to ditch me because the new girl can't handle it.
Why not?
Look, if you don't trust your man, then that's your issue. And, certainly, if you start feeling really weird (like something's going on between them) then it's time to talk to your bf...
But don't break up with him because he has a friend that he's probably never even kissed.
2007-01-11 10:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jem! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its cool for guys to have girls as friends. That's really no reason to leave, if its over all a health relationship. He told you so he's not hiding it from you. Try asking him when all 3 of you could go out, then take it from there. However, if he declines that suggestion then you have the answer. Its all on you then .
2007-01-11 10:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Toni M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY IF SHES WILLING TO BE YOUR FRIEND TOO!! i made this fatal mistake and well lets just say that if shes not willing to hang out with you its not a friendship from him shes after, and sorry all you men out there but you all are sheep and if a pretty girl even if shes a friend is showing you attention you tyend to wonder.. even the best of you can't stop but to think with the wrong head sometimes.
2007-01-11 10:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by leah pryor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooo way. Go out as in date? or Go out as in like dinner or something? If my boyfriend said he had a good friend and wanted to go to dinner with her Id be cautious but Id let him beause I know he isnt the type to cheat. And Id probably wanna meet the girl first. But theres different scenarios.
2007-01-11 10:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get clarity, ask him to define "go out", everyone has a different defination, sort of like-we are "just friends", for each person it has a different meaning. First get a clear understanding, then you can go from there and decide what you want to do. Hope this helps you out. Good Luck and God Bless.
2007-01-11 10:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Wise One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hes play'n' you gurl be #1 or neither one I've been there to many times and It all ways ends in pain for you .You'd be play'n' with fire.You can get better than that low life who actually tells his girlfriend that he has another gurl who is a friend that he dates her.You are worth a hell of alot more don't sell yourself short.
2007-01-11 10:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they go out more than you and your bf go out then it could be a problem. If it bothers you that they hang out then tell him how you feel about it. It would be silly to break up over something thats not a big deal.
2007-01-11 10:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Neon Ballroom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your boyfriend and you have a strong relationship, it shouldn't be a problem. But if I were you I'd sure like to meet her. Don't make a big deal of it just say next time they "go out" you'd like to join them. If he gives you a big stink about it GET OUT. I hope this helps.
2007-01-11 10:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go out for a walk all 3 and see if it is true! May be is true, and if she is just a verry good friend he will not have annything to hide.
If not, when you will ask this he will certainly refuse to go out on 3 and may be he will revield him reasons.
Difficult to unswere anny way!
2007-01-11 10:50:01 · answer #11 · answered by Nicolaie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋