On myspace, this one gurl posted a picture of him and her on his page.. and my bf tells me that they both work together..!! should i trust him not to cheat on me since he lives in cali and i lived in Georgia.... it's a long distance relationship.. what do you think??
- should i go and see him in february for valentine??
2007-01-11 01:58:55 · 30 answers · asked by miss_xiong03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she's has been writing him lately..and he still writes to him ex on myspace... he said that he's not cheating on me and gets mad when i ask him that.... he prbably juss calls me once a day now while before he calls me at leat three times a day...
2007-01-11 02:10:18 · update #1
THANKS GUY, FOR ALL UR HELP..!!
2007-01-11 02:36:34 · update #2
I think that you should dump his butt and find someone that treats you well in your own area. As I tell my daughter - if a man treats you bad or can't respect you -then he isn't worth it. There are too many good ones out there to be treated bad. Respect yourself and know that you are someone whether you are in a relationship or not!
2007-01-11 02:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by lifesajoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need to know more - How old are both of you, how much of a commitment do you have, how long have you been a couple, why are you long distance, etc. Also, what is in the picture on myspace? You really haven't given a good reason why you think he is cheating. Sorry, honey, but long distance relationships are the worst, and I wouldn't waste my air fare - unless you just want to go to California!
2007-01-11 10:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not go and see him in february, and No, long distance relationships don't work. There are more than a million other guys in the world. Some of them live in Georgia.
2007-01-11 10:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out and get proof he is cheating leave him. If he is just talking with another girl at work, is it possible they are talking about work related issues? Honestly long distance relationships usually don't work. Some do but most don't. Find you a Georgia or Bama guy
2007-01-11 10:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by BamaJJP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if there's a picture of them together and it's posted around. then i would say something's up. long distance relationships are hard, so trust is the only thing you guys can really do. how do you know he's cheating? ..is it only cause of the picture? keep talking to him about it, tell him you're concerned.
2007-01-11 10:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by T-NEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married the girl I met online, shes sleeping next to me right now... but I think we are the exception to the rule. If its not serious and you've got such doubts... then get out. Find a nice boy who you can drive 10 minutes, not fly 5 hours, to see... Chances are by the sounds of things its not worth it... but its hard to say without more information.
and honestly how much does the relationship mean to you? and don't just bs seriously consider that...
2007-01-11 10:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by flawed broadcast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its super hard to have a long distance relationship because you can't develop it the same way as a regular relationship. I suggest you definitely move on and find someone you can hang out with closer to you.
2007-01-11 10:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... run now... don't get your life caught up in drama... men can't handle long distance, nor do we want to... we want to have our cake and eat it too, and if your going to be lame enough to hang on and get played we will play you... im sorry, i know this is painful, but there are hella sexy girls in Cali and he's not waiting for you...
So, move to Cali and be with your man, or get over him...
Good Luck
2007-01-11 10:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try to not pay atention on facts wich are not clear. Maybe try to find your unswers in the way your relation is gooing and the evolution of your relation.
If you feel that your communication become less consistent and you see that him is les afective to you, may be that is a real sign to try to become worried.
A oppen discution face to face can clearifing everithing if you feel that your relation is not gooing annymore.
About Valentine just let him know that you will be available, and let him to invite you.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 10:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Nicolaie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are they doing in the picture? If its innocent, then you need to trust him. If you can't trust, then dump. A relationship without trust isn't a relationship worth having.
Also, unless you're planning on moving together sooner or later, what's the point.
2007-01-11 10:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by smckech1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋