2007-01-11 01:53:45 · 36 answers · asked by dave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you find the right person!
You'll know.
2007-01-11 01:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by voodoobluesman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years is a long time. Do you think that you have mentally, physically and emotionally healed from this split? Do believe that the split is really permanent or temporary? More importantly, why are you in a rush? Take some time for yourself, learn to live and be happy by yourself, you will find someone else whenever you go back into the dating pool.
2007-01-11 02:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you must be feeling, lost, hurt, life seems to be falling down, insecure..? abvously you did not do the firing as you would not be asking what to do.. just a guess. i'm in a bit of a mess myself to be honest with my gfriend and i'm not sure if she is true and i'm a bit scared if we actually do have to part but, i think the best thing you can do is join a gym do excersise feel good about yourself again as a dent to pride is an awful thing to swallow. i know. but keep yourself busy first, get confidance then just go have a good time with mates and don't try too hard.. go for a couple of beers if you drink and just be who you are without coming across as a creep or desparate, ask her what she does and LISTEN and show some intrest.. even say something like "hey i'm not a creep but would like to have a drink with you if thats ok?" and just see how it goes.
hope this helps.
2007-01-11 02:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most poeple would say wait... in general I would agree... however I split up with my partner of five years and planned to stay single for a LONG time... however three months later I found the guy of my dreams... totally unplanned!!
We have been together three years now and about to get married.
The thing is splitting up with my previous partner left me with a pretty clear idea of what I DIDNT want. My current partner is so perfect for me and I only know this thanks to the bad times I went through before.
Just go out there and have fun, be yourself and whatever happens... happens!!
2007-01-11 01:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your already wondering so maybe now your do realize that you wont be over this person for a long long time and any relationship you get in you need to let the other person know whats going on in your life and dont leave him in the dark.....dont jump in to anything to quick....have a one night stand if your just looking for some simple companionship for the night
2007-01-11 01:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you feel ready. Remember its like falling off a bike or is it waiting for a Bus. Not sure but your the best person to know when your ready. Have Fun!
2007-01-11 01:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Toria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this position and i thought getting out there was the right answer but It wasnt and I totally wasnt ready, I think you should enjoy (or try to) the time on your own, with your mates and family and then do the getting out there again thing!
Its hard but stay in there- its when you feel that its right not when you think it is!
2007-01-11 01:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't DO NOT date anyone just because you are lonely.
Wait and sort through the good guys.
You may start dating one and a really nice one comes along.
Take your time and be picky.
2007-01-11 02:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a toughie....i do believe anything too soon and serious...is just trying to reanimate old feelings and such and projecting them on another relationship....the dreaded "rebound".... but i dont think u should bury urself in a coffin 6 ft under either...do what u feel...date and have fun....but commit to nothing and let that person know up front that u just wanna have fun and chill. good luck.
2007-01-11 02:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by gothic queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you busy Saturday?
If you broke up with her, you have been ready for sometime. I probably wouldn't get serious about someone for six months, but really, if a great person comes along its dumb to say no.
2007-01-11 01:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you feel ready to move on. A transitional girlfriend couldn't hurt, either.
2007-01-11 01:57:06 · answer #11 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋