Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

My 16 yr old stepdaughter doesn't follow the house rules of no boys in the bedroom. My husband is really hesitant to discipline her because he wasn't the one who found her. How do I handle this?

2007-01-11 00:48:38 · 6 answers · asked by Angie Kay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada and i'm thinking he's a jerk.

2007-01-11 00:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this bloke 31 years old and he believes we were going out but i had told him no as i was with my fiance and still am he has been txting my mobile for about over 18 months now and some of these are threatening txt's to my fiance why won't he take no for an answer and leave us alone so we can get on with our lives as when ever he txt both myself and my fiance gets really shitty that he could even think about still trying after i have been saying no for so long

2007-01-11 00:47:40 · 4 answers · asked by megan p 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-11 00:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Michaela K 1 in Friends

my cousin boyfriend is 26 and she's 19.and her lil sis is 14 yrs.my cousin and her boyfriend has a 9 mth old baby girl.my cousin has a job and her boyfriend dont.often when she comes home from work her lil sis is always there playing on the bed with her boyfriend.and hes always tickling her and calling her when no ones home to hang out.he calls her on her cell phone at night,he gived her a tattoo jus below her panty line.what do u think is really going on with my lil sis an my bf?

2007-01-11 00:47:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have two together and I have two from another marriage. My other two hate him. My oldest (18) just left home because of him. He is just hard to get along with. I don't want my 14 year old to leave too. So, do I stay for the other two( one will go with me the other is a daddy's boy) or do I go for the sake of the other one?

2007-01-11 00:47:16 · 2 answers · asked by finallyfree 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this beautiful woman in my local park last week and struck up a conversation with her. Things were going so well that I invited her to dinner the following weekend, and she accepted.

On the night of the event, I picked her up and took her to a nice restaurant. Not five stars, mind you, but very nice with a great atmosphere. Things were going well as we were enjoying light conversation. Unfortunately, I had to excuse myself, as nature was calling, so I excused myself politely before heading to the restroom.

Once there, I did my business, but when I reached for the toilet paper, I noticed that there wasn’t any. Nor was there a roll anywhere within the restroom. I ended up barreling out of the restroom, pants down around my ankles as I staggered about, frantically waving my arms in the air, while screaming to the heavens about there being no toilet paper in the restroom.

2007-01-11 00:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can a guy love a girl but still be afaid of commitment?

If so what are the reasons........

2007-01-11 00:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

Should a couple seeking to divorce, try to reconcile for the children? What do you think.

2007-01-11 00:45:13 · 52 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

work it out?

2007-01-11 00:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by ladykitcha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in this relationship with this girl and I was just wondering what the rule is on fuzz. I don't want to look bad so I was just wondering if some of you out there would know anything about this. Thanks for your help.

2007-01-11 00:43:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I had a girl friend about a yar ago during my sophmore year. Her name was Sierra, she was slim and beautiful... but... she started to want to do certain things with me that I didnt approve of. She said she wanted to please me anyway she could and I told her, her just being with me plzed me enough. Im not gay but she was pretty much a horny school girl after I found out the things that went through her mind and her urges to do IMMORAL, I mean really IMMORAL things with her. She was pretty much a freak and I didnt necessarily want to go out witha freak. I mean im not complaining I had the urges to do such things to....but... it just it didnt seem right so we broke up before mid August of last year. I wouldnt want to do such things with a woman premarily especially if we are just going out and id probably never see her again after hs. I could imagine only feeling guilt when i married sooner or later to the love of my life. Im 16 by the way, I have higher goals in life then to have a child when im not ready. N E way, my question is do all girls belive the only way to a mans heart is to put out? No pervert spaming answers plz.

2007-01-11 00:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stepson who lived with us from 18 mos old till 13 (when he decided to live with his mom because there were no rules there three years ago) got into some trouble and has come back to live with us-after not seeing him in two years or knowing he was in trouble, from his mothers house, who lost custody. He has the worst attitude, will not talk, is always mad at the wrong people and is making my life a living hell.He will not go to counseling. He will be 17 next month-on probation- will NOT pay his court fees-my husband is legally responsible for them since he is 16. You cannot get through to him or he doesn't want to do what he should.He expects his dad is going to do it all and he has to right now because of his age.He won't talk to anybody and hates us too. Do I ignore him? I am at my wits end here.You can't make someone do something they absolutely will not do-or can you??

2007-01-11 00:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by Pesty Wadoo 4 in Family

Yes...you could have both...but love is protective but not as exciting...sex can be tremendously exciting, but no emotional connection...if you had to choose, which would you pick?

2007-01-11 00:40:46 · 44 answers · asked by Free Girl Now 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been living with me for 3 months now, i didnt invite him, he just didnt go home. The thing is that i started to feel irritated with him, and i dont feel anything for him anymore. I started to get uesed to him. I dont know why i feel like this, but i do and he says that he is in love with me and i dont know how i feel. We've been going out for almost 3 months now and i think by this time i should know how ui feel. Theres just not that spark annymore. Please!!! What should i do.

2007-01-11 00:40:24 · 19 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Singles & Dating

this question is for my friend,she is breaking up with someone,and he is telling her that the house she owns and lives in, since he co signed for the morgage and the credit cards,that hes gonna move out of province to britsh columbia and the creditors cant come after him and leave all the exspence to her in which they been paying on together for 13 years can he do that because its a different province the creditors cant go after him ,but they can go after her,and make her pay every thing it is her house.

2007-01-11 00:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by smokeyshadow7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I trust him and I am attracted to him
I like doing nice things for him eg, laundry, cleaning the house, dinner, lunches
Dropping him off a hot chocolate at work
I am commited to him
But I dont know it if it love or not?
Can I live without him? Sure I can, cause I can live without anyone so I dont know how to tell if I am in love to not

We have been together for about 6 months and the first 4 months were great then I got diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and little things about him bother me for some odd reason....Is it maybe cause we have reached that comfort stage with each other?

2007-01-11 00:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 00:39:58 · 9 answers · asked by ladykitcha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 00:39:08 · 5 answers · asked by shereen a 1 in Friends

2007-01-11 00:38:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basically i think i'm doing too much for my ex

he dump me for another girl (J) whom he is on and off with
broke up with the J even though he is in love with her due to distance.
came to me to discuss his love problems
i listened and became his mini agony aunt
he knows i still like him but doesn't know that the original feelings still linger
he just asked me to send a CV template
and i did, and he didn't say thank you
he didn't say thank you for wasting my time talking about relationships and how **** life is
we still flirt now and again but we don't hug and kiss like before

how fuckin ungrateful

why do i still like him

why do i bother

why do i even try

when i know deep down inside we will never be together again?

i really like him still
i just want him back
if not then i guess it's just going to friends

he is a fool for leaving me, i am stil here for him after all the sh!t he had put me through
i am a fool for being like this

words of advice plz

2007-01-11 00:37:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine has just moved to the Uk she has been staying in a bed and breakfast along with her 5 year old daughter and her brother. She recently asked me if she could move in with me for a while as I have told her she can take over the house we live in cos we just bought another house and are waiting for a date so we can move in I said yes to her but thats because it was an unexpected question and I had just woken up and got biten by a spider so I was in tears and was in a hurry to go take my son to school. The weekend prior to that I had them over and it was nice but too over croweded and my husband works night shift twice a week so my daughter slept with me I only have a three bed house and we each have our own rooms my son my daughter and me and my hubby so Id feel my space is being invaded its the whole reason we bought a new house cos this one feels too smal for us already! she comes up this weekend dont mind here here for a week but how do I say she cant stay here longer?

2007-01-11 00:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by sheila99 3 in Friends

I know women who stay with men who abuse them; abuse drugs; treat them like garbage... and yet they stay. Why?

2007-01-11 00:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 00:35:53 · 11 answers · asked by bestofintent 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 00:35:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it actually POSSIBLE to like the way you look, thus going against society and other people's idea of attractive? Why is not looking like a particular celeb (as a guy I have Clooney and Pitt to contend with) a bad thing? Aren't we all different? Are attractive stereotypes purely designed to hurt people like they've hurt me? I know that girls like certain features in a guy, but does that necessarily mean that they will bypass me just because I am lacking in them?

2007-01-11 00:34:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my boyfriend that I think we should just be friends. He says minutes later yeah I think your right lets take a break. Is that the same thing?

2007-01-11 00:33:09 · 27 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a serious problem.. i have a boyfriend, and he is really great, i like him. But i have also one friend, and few days ago i realized, that he is not only my friend.. In fact.. i dont know if the second boy likes me, but i know that i do.. I dont know what to do now, because i know that my boyfriend loves me and i dont want to hurt him.. i did it once before, and dont want to do it anymore! I dont know what is worse.. I couldnt have anytihing with the second boy during the time i am with my boyfriend, i mean nothing physicall.. But it is all in my head.. I think that i should break up with my boyfriend.. it is not fair.. But i love him too.. I know, it sounds very strange... but i wrote exactlly the thoughts that are running im my head all the day.. Plaaeese help me..

2007-01-11 00:33:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me quickly.

2007-01-11 00:32:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-11 00:32:33 · 6 answers · asked by cool_angel_diamond 1 in Marriage & Divorce