Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

whats the difference between 'having sex' and 'making love'???
isnt a 'quickie' often as good as a long drawn out all night 'love making' please tell me, i need to know!! some people say there ought to be foreplay and all that good stuff, and whats so wrong with falling asleep right after you BOTH have an orgasm??...... well you answer

2007-01-11 01:07:06 · 24 answers · asked by buz b 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I was on the bus riding home from an away basketball game right-- I'm a cheerleader-- & some of the basketball players started messin with me & askin me all kinds of questions like how many guys i've been with & stuff like that & at first I was just ignoring them, but it was a LONG ride & evetually I started talkin to them & then all of a sudden it was me & three others guys when the conversation started out with one but anyways the only white guy on the basketball team was flirtin with me & all of a sudden the guys start askin me to do stuff for them... like they wanted me to give them blowjobs on the bus ride home... && we were sittin RIGHT behind my COACH!!!!!! Why do guys act like that? I mean seriously is that all they think about?? i mean I know there's some nice guys out there & they think about it 2, but they don't ask me to suck their dick on the bus behind my cheer coach... now they're startin rumors at school that I'm a freak and junk like that & my bff thinks I'm a HOE

2007-01-11 01:05:24 · 15 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 01:04:41 · 7 answers · asked by Tyson 3 in Singles & Dating

I actually heard a young lady say this last night. Is this how we flirt now? Are you kidding me? Even the guy she was talking to was embarassed. Whatever happened to being subtle?

2007-01-11 01:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any strange places you have found yourself flirting?

2007-01-11 01:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf were going to have sex for the 1st time. he put a condom on and we were ready to do it. but then nothing happened. he pulled back and laid beside me. i asked why, he didn't answer. after 3 times i asked the same question, he said he really loved me. we didn't have sex at all that night.

i don't understand it. i was ready, he seemed to want to do it but then nothing happened.


we've been together since 2,5 years. i think we had enough time to get to know each other.


tell me what you think. thank you!

2007-01-11 01:02:58 · 4 answers · asked by redhotkitchen28 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend thinks i bring self pity amongst myself all the time by saying do u like me etc. I only say it because i genuinely dont think she likes me. I do not do it for her to say I do like you, etc! And yeah it annoys me that she thinks that. Do you think i bring self pity amongst myself?

2007-01-11 01:02:46 · 3 answers · asked by s_is_for_skye 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 01:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by jakedawake 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate my college...i hate my classmates..they're jerks..i wish i could kill them alll!!!! I HATE THEM!!!

I can't find any frnds..they're not being friendly to me....they always reject me and make fun of me....i wish i was dead...than going to college n being left alone....I HATE THEM!!

2007-01-11 01:01:05 · 34 answers · asked by ✰cOnFuSeD✰ 1 in Friends

We are going to go to a wedding soon & just found out the the Best Man is a woman, isn't this kind of odd?

2007-01-11 01:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by apodacax4 1 in Weddings

I know some boys that i really like but he wont even talk to me how do i get him to talk to me?

2007-01-11 01:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if the kid was recieving a good amount of child support for 18 years and the mother didn't even save some for college a car or even good clothes through out his life just walmart crap and ramen noodles/ cereal to eat. Shouldn't the kid be able to sue?

2007-01-11 00:58:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together 18 years, not married-I stayed together for the kids-We bought our first house in Jan.06, I had major back surgery and now disabled. He quit his job 4 months ago and now there is NO money. I've sold all my assets off to keep our kids feed and he still does nothing. He sleeps on the couch and I 'm to the point where I don't even want to be social to him. Any advice??

2007-01-11 00:58:23 · 5 answers · asked by cora m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

your thoughts.

2007-01-11 00:57:45 · 37 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright, there is this girl whom I fall deeply in love with. Last year I have told her my feeling but she said she just want to be friends. However, I continued to be a good friend to her.

If I am going overseas to study in one year's time, does it mean that there is no hope for me to be together. Say, we do not enter the same university in a few years' time, do I still have got a chance to be together with her? Can I use a year to show her what a good and caring partner I will be? We are 14.

2007-01-11 00:55:42 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

I was rude to my boyfriend recently, i realised i said some things i shouldn't have. I want him to forgive me and forget so that we can move on with our relationship.

2007-01-11 00:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by bong_jyde 1 in Singles & Dating

guys can be pimps but what about girls? when females become "playa's" or "pimpetts" it makes them look like a hoe or slut but its not the same for guys?

2007-01-11 00:54:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 00:53:45 · 19 answers · asked by bestofintent 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i are having little problem.he still enjoy sex and am jus about tired of it,this has been going on about a mth ago.the sex is good,but am jus not in too it.what can i do to get back my sex drive?

2007-01-11 00:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to get a boyfriend... like guys will flirt & junk but they never come through.... I'm a cheerleader & a soccer player, I'm 5 foot 8 and 120 lbs, I'm number one in my class && here's my picture from the last pageant I was in..... http://a296.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/15/m_51e7c1e431286463f93a720b146ab617.jpg


honestly is there something about me that guys don't like?? I mean I'm not a drama person or a major ***** i'm not fake or "plastic" or anything like that, but still guys just won't ask me out...

2007-01-11 00:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

When I asked my ques. I never expected someone like wealthbuilder to respond. I never said I didn't have my own money and I have moved on. I'm a full time WORKING mom who feels that the father should take some kind of responsibility for OUR child. But I thank you for for your opinion and have a Blessed day.

2007-01-11 00:51:34 · 5 answers · asked by momseekinganswers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 00:51:30 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

its been more than 3 years that iam going around with ma bf,n we both loved eachother,never had sex,he was not that kinda a guy who just wants sex,we had pure nice relation,but for 2 months i was not there,n one more gal came in his life,n told him that y r u with here? at that time i was having a fight him,now last night i came to know that they had sex,n they were both hidding from me,cause my bf tought i'll get hurt,he cheated me,he did whatever thath gal wanted to just keep her shut,iam just dying now,its been 2 days iam crying,what can i do? i still cant beilieve it..plz..just wanna die now,how can u call them a human?

2007-01-11 00:51:03 · 25 answers · asked by S S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a 56-year-old male from washington state and three weeks ago i met this awesome girl i've fallen for like a rock. but the thing is, she's 17, and i don't know if that's legal or not...anyway, her 18th birthday is in a month, and we've slept together four times at my place. i'm scared by the age difference but in no way do i wanna lose this person i feel so close to. i'm thinking about proposing soon...can you help me? i'm totally clueless about this.

2007-01-11 00:50:37 · 11 answers · asked by jonathoncharles19 1 in Singles & Dating

out of fear poney up couple of bucks, for females how does that make you feel? it makes me want to carry a gun for people do not hesitate to harrass you and want what you have worked hard for.

2007-01-11 00:50:27 · 2 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need some help, any sort to get revenge for my daughter..

2007-01-11 00:49:52 · 15 answers · asked by sweetevans1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your thoughts.

2007-01-11 00:49:45 · 17 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

I personally don't like missionary position. It is so boring and you have to bear the weight of your man as well.

2007-01-11 00:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend started showing a different face after 1 and a half months. He wants to make a familyplan under my mobile phone, he asks for really expensive vacations and when I tell him the reason why I cannot, he shows anger and frustration. He kicks the walls, throws objects around me and he wants to limit me seeing my friends. When I talk to a friend on the phone even for a minute, he perceives that as an insult and disrespect. He yells at me when I do not do the things his way. He always makes the things problematic and suffocates me. I do not have space anymore, sometimes I feel like I am getting suffocated and I told him that I do not want to baby-sit him. I will stand by him in good moments and bad moments bu he doesn't want to understand i do have a day job and hobbies and he wants me to cut all these. I think I love him but I am not sure if this is love from his perspective. I am feeling down most of the time besides good moments. Is this love?

2007-01-11 00:49:10 · 20 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 00:48:39 · 15 answers · asked by cotoneaster 4 in Other - Family & Relationships