my boyfriend and i are having little problem.he still enjoy sex and am jus about tired of it,this has been going on about a mth ago.the sex is good,but am jus not in too it.what can i do to get back my sex drive?
2007-01-11 00:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer this correctly we would actually need more details. Is it that you aren't into the sex or that you aren't into your boyfriend anymore. There is a reason if you know the sex is good that all of a sudden you just don't want it. Perhaps you need a little time without sex to find out if you and your boyfriend are into each other as people and not just in bed.
Sorry, but this is the best I can tell you with what you gave.
2007-01-11 00:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. As I have grown older, I dont feel like having sex anymore, however, I dont feel like having sex any less either. My sex drive has stayed about the same since I was a teenager. Maybe you two lovebirds should add a little spice to the cake. Invite a third party to watch and make sure you two are going about it in the right way. You will be surprised how well this will get you back into it.
2007-01-13 06:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by billpattiemo7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see your doctor , some Lady's have a hormonal thing that need to be check. also your doctor can get you something that will help your sex drive.
2007-01-11 09:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you dont really love your boyfriend or you dont feel you are loved by your boyfriend.. or better yet seek some advice from a professional.. but i do have another suggestion.. but think about it first.. try to have another partner to be sure. there such thing as compatibility....
2007-01-11 09:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by pete s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start masturbating to determine exactly what turns you on. Then persue this "turn on", whatever it is. It appears you have fallen into a routine. Routines become boring.
Masturbate, Masturbate, Masturbate, then when you are done masturbating, do it some more. Finally you will discover your passion.
2007-01-11 08:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?TELL YOUR HUBBY HOW YOU FEEL-DO SOME ROLE PLAY,OR START USING SEX TOYS THAT BOTH OF YOU WILL ENJOY TOGETHER.DO THE ONE NASTIEST FANTASY YOU EVER WANTED TO DO AN SEE WHAT HAPPENS.GOOD LUCK LOVER GIRL
2007-01-13 12:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by K.B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to see what happens when you sort yourself out... Maybe change your diet or get some serious exercise done...
2007-01-11 09:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not the sex u have a problem with. maybe u're a les. i'm not trying to be mean, but it is a possibility. i mean think about it.
2007-01-11 08:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your doctor or find a new boyfriend...good luck
2007-01-11 08:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your doctor.
2007-01-11 08:59:42 · answer #10 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋