Well I was on the bus riding home from an away basketball game right-- I'm a cheerleader-- & some of the basketball players started messin with me & askin me all kinds of questions like how many guys i've been with & stuff like that & at first I was just ignoring them, but it was a LONG ride & evetually I started talkin to them & then all of a sudden it was me & three others guys when the conversation started out with one but anyways the only white guy on the basketball team was flirtin with me & all of a sudden the guys start askin me to do stuff for them... like they wanted me to give them blowjobs on the bus ride home... && we were sittin RIGHT behind my COACH!!!!!! Why do guys act like that? I mean seriously is that all they think about?? i mean I know there's some nice guys out there & they think about it 2, but they don't ask me to suck their dick on the bus behind my cheer coach... now they're startin rumors at school that I'm a freak and junk like that & my bff thinks I'm a HOE
2007-01-11 01:05:24 · 15 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean I'm not like that & only some people believe them, but it still hurts me to think that people would say that I mean I used to like on of those guys a while back && i'm glad I never went there now...
2007-01-11 01:13:04 · update #1
oh and the coach didn't do anything cuz she didn't hear them & the athletic director is my DAD!!!!
2007-01-11 01:14:41 · update #2
Ah yes, the immaturity of high school boys. I do have fond memories when I was one so many years ago.
2007-01-11 01:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself. If the coach didn't hear that going on it's because their voices were low. The proper response would be to ask in the same question you title your question with here in a LOUD voice. It's water under the bridge now, but you should remember that while being aggressive can be self-defeating, being assertive is often the key to victory. In the workplace, this behaviour would have gotten them sacked.
Your "bff" is a lost cause. No friend, let alone a good friend, is going to automatically believe some baseless rumors. Find a friend who will listen to what you have to say.
You might confront these three on their lies in a public arena, like practice. But only if you feel confident and you are absolutely sure the incident wont become violent. Be calm, but assertive. They are unlikely to admit to anything or apologize, but you will be on record as not putting up with any garbage. If you don't feel up to this, just move on. Rumours can't be quelled, but they're just that.
2007-01-11 09:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by maxdwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you mentioned, not all guys act like that. A few may have participated out of peer pressure to look cool in front of the others. What is disturbing to me is not only the behavior of the team, but the fact that your coach did nothing to help you. He/she should be reported to the Athletic Director at the least and definitely the principal or higher. It isn't an easy thing, but should not be tolerated. Your boyfriend is a selfish jerk if that is what he really thinks.
2007-01-11 09:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by William W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature guys? Thats something that we all deal with. If they are starting rumors about you in school you should tell a counselor and or a teacher. Try to ignore the rumors, and tell your boyfriend that you truly aren't a hoe, he should believe you (if he really trusts and loves you). Or you could tell the coach what happen. Guys are going to act like that.
2007-01-11 09:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever discuss sex with guys in a situation like that. Keep discussions of sex to a personal situation, only. When you start to talk about it publicly, and joke about it, this is what happens. I would go to your guidance counselor and make a sexual harassment complaint against the guys who were asking you to suck them off on the bus. From now on, no more talking about such personal things with virtual strangers.
2007-01-11 09:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those guys are just little boys. they havent grown up and they are probably all still virgins and want to "grow up". as long as you didnt do anything you have nothing to worry about. the reason they started stuff is most likely because you didnt do anything and they got mad. dont worry bout them. like i said, they are just little boys.
2007-01-11 11:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you liked the attention or you wanted to do those things or you would of just told the coach and got them in trouble. i think i am right, bottom line is do what you want don't every worry what people say because you live your life.
2007-01-11 09:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find a seat far away from them from now on!
2007-01-11 12:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES SUCK SOME C O C K S AND HAVE SOME FUN IT IS WHAT YOU WERE PUT HERE TO DO SO TELLTHE COACH TO JOIN IN !
2007-01-11 09:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Next time you best keep your mouth shut
2007-01-11 09:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋