basically i think i'm doing too much for my ex
he dump me for another girl (J) whom he is on and off with
broke up with the J even though he is in love with her due to distance.
came to me to discuss his love problems
i listened and became his mini agony aunt
he knows i still like him but doesn't know that the original feelings still linger
he just asked me to send a CV template
and i did, and he didn't say thank you
he didn't say thank you for wasting my time talking about relationships and how **** life is
we still flirt now and again but we don't hug and kiss like before
how fuckin ungrateful
why do i still like him
why do i bother
why do i even try
when i know deep down inside we will never be together again?
i really like him still
i just want him back
if not then i guess it's just going to friends
he is a fool for leaving me, i am stil here for him after all the sh!t he had put me through
i am a fool for being like this
words of advice plz
2007-01-11 00:37:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go...he is playing with you and you need to find someone who will treat you a lot better...good luck!
2007-01-11 00:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Free Girl Now 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you allow your self to be used by him hoping he will see how great you are for him and come back to you.But he can't see what he does not miss. Absence is what makes the heart grow fonder. And he cant miss the water until the well runs dry.If you continue to be there for his every whim he wont have the chance to see what he had in you or miss you. I think you need to separate yourself from him and stop being sooo available.Start finding interest in other people and things and you might find you even enjoy it.He will never analyze your relationship with him until he truly does not have it at all. Once you try distance you might find something you really want Love.It has a way of finding us when we don't force or look for it.So good look and remember get off this emotional roller coaster.Stop allowing your feelings and heart to be neglected!! Happiness will flow into your life soo fast you will find all of this a faded memory.So take the first step and rid yourself of this emotional baggage.
2007-01-11 00:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey : 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please read what you wrote again, even a few times. You know the answer to your questions, you just don't want to accept them I think. It sounds like you realize this man is not for you, he cannot express his gratitude or say "thanks" for even the simplest things. Do you want to live with someone like that for the rest of your life?
Consider that you just might be a little insecure .... you found this man and got into a relationship with him. Now you see that relationship going away and seem to be wondering whether to let it go. If you let it go, you'll be alone, without a male partner. Is that so scary??? Is it a bad situation to be in??? I THINK NOT!
The best thing that could happen is you will find your soulmate, the person who touches your soul and who realizes you touch his. That's what makes a lifetime, happy relationship. From personal experience I have found you find the soulmate when you aren't looking .... they just find you or come into your life.
Give it a try - it sounds like you have nothing to lose.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 00:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by bobinbelen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a fool. You are in a painful situation.
You recognise that you need to move on.
I am a straight woman and I just want to say that you sound like an interesting, passionate and caring woman who deserves much more. There ARE lots of other men out there and many of them are caring and considerate.
If that's your photo, then you are gorgeous looking too. You will get through this. Sending you good wishes.
2007-01-11 00:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Suzita 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must realize that life goes on. i know you feel hurt by this dumb act he did but hey everything happens for a reason. i also believe that what goes around comes around. i'm sure you are pretty and smart don't waste your time on a man that doesnt want to be with you. you cna do so much better. let go and find someone who will appreciate you. he doesnt that is why he treats you the way that he do. he only can do what you allow him to do. good luck
2007-01-11 00:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have two choices okay no three
(1) Invite him over and when he gets there just be all over him and have sex then after wards tell him how you feel.
(2) phone him up and tell him you are over his ***
(3) Be really nice and polite let him know how you feel and tell him that if he doesnt want you then you arent going to put up with this sh!t and that maybe you should just not see each other ever
or actually i lied there is a fourth option
(4) dissapear and maybe if you dont see him you will see other guys and start to like them more!
Lol let me know if it works out girl! ( user allows email)
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2007-01-11 00:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by undecided 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him easier said than done, but what a waste of space. You got to start thinking about you and not pineing for lost love. Start moving on building up your life and meet some one new.
2007-01-11 00:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a right fool! he's using you, best thing to do is ignore him and move on. You said it'll never be on again between you two, so why bother?
2007-01-11 00:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and find someone who appreciates you and doesn't take advantage of you for their convienience. Leaving a relationship is always hard, but how can you find what you want if you can't let go of what you don't want?
2007-01-11 00:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by reallocojava 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank You. Granted It doesn't have the same significance coming from a complete stranger but hope it makes you feel better!
2007-01-11 00:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you evaluated the situation yourself and he is using you. I would give him my behind to kiss and make him come to me...leave the alone the ball is in his court because he knows how you feel. Basically let nature take its course.
2007-01-11 00:44:19 · answer #11 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋