I am guy . I am planning to get married at the age of 33 .Because I want to enjoy certain things in life , establish a very strong career/business ,etc. What do you think ? Is it late ?
2007-01-11 02:02:38 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way is it too late!! You have a great plan. Stick to it!!
2007-01-11 02:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have a pretty good plan. A lot of guys start out that way, and than finds that it takes an even longer time to find the right one, or for her to find you. Many people go into these thoughts one sided. Look at George Clooney, handsome, but at some point he's going to be what i call, an investment . He's getting older and still hasn't been married, just living an playboy lifestyle. When he gets 50-60 his body will change and he wont look the same, which will lead to a very young girl marring him to get the cake.... Not saying that will happen to you.
But just make sure that you have a "special someone", to have waiting. The upside is, you can meet that person, marry her and be well established in whatever your career is, with financial stability. so its an awesome idea, with its ups, and downs.
Hey all of us at some point wanted that, i did, but i have to raise my children and go and get it, which makes it more important now than it was when i was just doing it for myself.
You have a good plan...stick to it, change it as the situation does, but until than..ill keep on the same path....
good luck dude;-)
2007-01-18 23:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Beautynbeyond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all are you scheduling marriage for the 33rd year of your life or are you engaged now? Don't take it so seriously... marriage is not the end of you having a "life". When the right one comes you know it, I know that sounds corny but it is true. You just know without any doubts or second guessing and it certainly cannot be planned around how old you may be. Can you seriously tell yourself that if THE ONE walks into your life you would worry about being too old to marry her? If anything by 33 you would have a more mature way of looking at the world and not be so concerned with society's idea of a "normal" relationship and follow YOUR heart and no one else's.
2007-01-17 05:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by SARAH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 35 when I got married. I think that getting married too young is why so many marriages end up in divorce. By the time I actually settled down, I knew EXACTLY what I wanted out of a relationship, and I had kissed enough frogs to know that I had finally found a prince. Also, by the time you have a few years under your belt, you are more mellow and definitely wiser. Just be sure that you realize that others may not want to wait that long. You will likely get some pressure from others to get married before then--just make your wishes known early on so that no one's heart suffers.
2007-01-17 12:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to eventually have a family? If so how long do you want to be married before you have kids? People have to realize that women having children into their late thirtys is actually very dangerous and increases the chance of birth defects. So unless you want to waste the first few blissful years of marriage by having a kid right away, then I'd say your waiting too long. Also you don't need to have a strong carreer to have a strong marriage. And I didn't realize a wife prevents you from enjoying "certain things in life", if that's your mentality than I don't know if you'd ever get married.
2007-01-17 09:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm getting married in February to a 33 year old man. There is never a wrong time for marriage if it's what you really want. Don't feel pressure to get married earlier, it will happen when it happens. Who knows, you might meet a fantastic person who you want to spend the rest of your life with, and at that point, it won't matter how old you are, as long as you're ready for that.
Establishing a career is important, however, don't let life pass you by in the process :)
2007-01-15 13:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by littlyau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, actually 33 is still early age for a guy for marriage because you have to enjoy freedom first and build up your career. Save money first then think of marriage. Man around that age act like a teenager, like there still a boy inside him. I think around 38 or 40 is the right age for men to get marry.
2007-01-17 10:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirty-three is not too late...it's never too late to get married (kids may not be an option or realistic if you are, lets say, 65!). I understand and commend your realism - you should take the time to experience life, work towards a goal and so on...but...if you are blessed to meet someone special don't let the opportunity slip away - you could risk losing the best relationship of your life...so just as you are realistic about what you want from life be realistic about what you could lose if you are too stuck on an age or timeframe...if you find the special someone they will work with you and support you to reach your goals...and of course you would do the same for her...right?
2007-01-15 13:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by RITI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
33 is probably a great age to get married. However I'm not sure you can plan love like that. If you are 21 now and really in love, you may not want to wait 12 years to get married, she might decide you are just not committed. Or you might not find someone you love until you are 44, who knows love has no time frame. I do think it is a good idea to wait awhile before looking for love, but you just never know when cupid is going to shoot that arrow, good luck to you anyway hope it works out your way.
2007-01-11 02:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by pughugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not too late to get married. You and your wife to be would be at a great age...You are smart for doing it this way, travel a bit, get your career or business up and running then worry about the house, then the wife and kids, etc... If you do it any other way, it will be 3x as hard to do so.
2007-01-17 02:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has nothing to do with love or marriage. If I was 90, single and in love then I would jump in and get the most out of what is left of my life. Life is just too short to worry about what age you should get married at. Any age is the right age when you are in love
2007-01-15 17:18:07 · answer #11 · answered by Lock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋