there is this guy that i like and he likes me but i just found out that his ex is pregent and i really like him alot but ido not kno whati should i do??? he does not know that i know and i am scaredto tell him...and wroter him a ltter tellin him that maybe we should judt friedsn buti want to be so much more than that....plz help
2007-01-11 01:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by brittany w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok....ummm its hard! I would say that if you are prepared to live with this fella having a child. Dont forget that he will have to provide for it and take his turn in looking after it. Also you will be involved in its life too, I dont believe you will be albe to get out of it.
But I still think if you feel this strong about him and this child under weights your feeling, go for it. If you do go for it and it doesn't work out you can always leave. What have you got to lose....
I think if you dont go for it you will always be wondering... put your mind at rest.
I hope so much that everything works of for everyone involved and if you make the move you'll be very happy together.
2007-01-11 01:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by reecetoby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think how hard it's going to be for u to go already through that problem. things are going to be tough, a kid in his life means things are gonna change for him. u have to think if it's gonna bother u. because if it is, then maybe u should think this thru. and yes u should let him know that u know about it. let him explain himself, listen to what he has to say. and writing a letter isn't the best thing to do, ur running away from ur problems. face them.
2007-01-11 01:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be careful with this situation if i was you...
i had the same thing go on in my life...I was talking to this guy who i really liked...and it seemd as though everything was going great between us...then i find out the day before my birthday he ran off and got married to this girl...b/c she was having his baby...
i mean im not mad about it..b/c i think its great that he was a man about it and took some responsibility...but it did hurt
just be careful
2007-01-11 01:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him you know. Also tell him your fears about him having a child that is not yours. His answer will be so much more clear then when you keep all these feelings and knowledge hidden to him... open up.
With love Dr. Aram
2007-01-11 01:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Aram, from Holland with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, you don't want someone irresponsible enough to impregnate someone he didn't mean to share a life with. You want a man who will run away from responsibilities? Recipe for failure!
2007-01-11 01:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by fishingbabe8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with someone who left their girl pregnant. Shows what kind of character he has. stay away from him, just be friends.
2007-01-11 01:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem u like he likes u go out and then u can ask him about it when u know him more
2007-01-11 01:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would avoid the whole situation. he is having a child with another woman. they could get back together. run!
2007-01-11 01:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back 2 school learn to spell and come back and ask again
2007-01-11 01:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by A Decent Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being with him would bring you alot of responsibilty. think about that.
2007-01-11 01:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by e-pack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋