When I first met him we got on the conversation that he is really shy around girls, then we started flirting alot with each other I felt like there was a mutual attraction with us, but never thought anything past that point because I wasn't sure how to read him, I'vs been out of this whole dating thing for years. Then one day he called me outside of work and asked me if I have ever thought of him outside of a work relationship we talked for a while and he kissed me, I thought we had a real connection, and we started talking daily, when I brought up the fact that I liked him more than a friend, he told me that right now he has alot on his plate and the most he can offer me is a friendship, but he wants to get to know me better, but he continues to call me daily and we talk about everything, I mean we have great conversation and have alot of fun together, when I ask him about him kissing me and explained to him that I don't go around kissing people he tells me that he doesn't either.
2007-01-11 01:59:15 · 12 answers · asked by Brandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he doesnt go around kissing just anyone..... then your not just anyone and he likes you!!! =)
He just might need time to clear a few things off of his plate and when the time is right you guys will become more!
2007-01-11 02:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This may be new to you, but it is a very, very common situation. The guy likes you, thinks your cute, and is looking for some no- commitment sex. Don't believe anything about him not going around kissing people; thats only because he hasn't had the opportunity. He obviously hasn't had much success or experience with women, and is looking to get some experience in that area with you, which he hopes he can use to his advantage with other women down the road.
2007-01-11 10:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW!! it does sound like he might want to be with you in the future justmlet him do what hes gotta do i guess cuz chances are he might be trying to make some big cash or something idk what hes doin, but he could be trying to get steady grouind for being in a realtionship and making sure hes got what he needs , he might be willing to move furthur but u def dont want to push things, i did with my gf and we were with each other for 4 months and so i tried rushing things buy buying a ring so it got boring fast , also not seing each other 24/7 kinda keeps the heat on in the relationship and makes you want it even moer so yea :-P
2007-01-11 10:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by bbob_baller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He COULD just be confused but it sounds like he is trying to set up a friends with benefits/booty call scenario... but if you're down with that then maybe its worth the risk to find out if he will eventually be ready for more. I suppose it depends on how much you really want to be with him...
2007-01-11 10:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by flawed broadcast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes you more than a friend indeed. And he seems to be quite scared. If the situation makes you feel fed up with it, tell him explicitly. The threat of you breaking up your non-relation, may make him more aware of his own want for a relation with you. Then you'll know. The base sounds like strong enough to take this risk.
have fun with him!
Dr. Aram
2007-01-11 10:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Aram, from Holland with love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could be that he does want more than a relationship but because of whatever problem he has he's not ready to handle a bigger commitment. Either that or he's married or something.
2007-01-11 10:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you but is scared if commitment for one reason or another weather its all a big game and hes playing you or hes had his heart broke a time or two before and he doesn't want to get hurt again.....
2007-01-11 10:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is a little mixed up as to what you do when you are with a friend and when you are not!!! Move on to someone who knows what they are doing. And someone that doesn't keep you in a guessing game.
2007-01-11 10:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants you, Hes playing hard to guy oviously. Which doesnt make sense cause he calls you every day, maybe if he finds out you like another guy he might want to date you.
2007-01-11 10:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by askalotofquestionsmom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like what my mom is goin thru...i asked my mom about it...she said that he "says" he wants to be friends but rly he doesnt...but maybe right now he sees you as a friend with benefits...not the sexual kind of benefits...he says your just friends for now...but later he wants to be more
2007-01-11 10:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by [[{Kendra ♥'s Quincy}]] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋